19/02/2024
If you purchase a dog, you're blamed for shelters being full.
If you adopt, you're faulted for acquiring a dog with weak genetics.
If you use a prong collar, you're labeled as abusive.
If you don't train force-free, your love for your dog is questioned.
If you don't punish your dog, your relationship with them will suck.
If you do punish your dog, you'll destroy whatever relationship you have with them.
If you crate your dog, you're accused of being abusive.
If your dog gets into something, you're deemed irresponsible.
If you go to dog parks, you're told you're ruining your dog.
If your dog never plays with other dogs, it'll become anti-social.
If you're a dog owner like me, this is just the tip of the iceberg in a never-ending list of things that make you feel like you can never win.
Here's my little secret for you: you can't and won't ever win, so STOP TRYING TO!
Stop striving to please others with your dog-raising choices. Stop listening to all the noise. Shut off the podcasts, cease reading the blogs for a bit, and take a hiatus from the dog social media world. You'll soon realize how much it impacts your relationship with your dog.
The constant barrage of messages suggesting you're not good enough weighs heavily on the average dog owner, causing even the best, most knowledgeable, and committed owners to doubt themselves.
My advice to you is to stop fixating on those messages. Find what feels and works best for you and focus solely on that.
To hell with their opinions of your life with your dog!
Stick to living your best life with your four-legged pals and let the world continue their chatter! If you're happy, your dog's happy, and you're both enjoying your relationship, then you’re already winning!