10/12/2023
When your big kid asks if you want to go for a spontaneous Christmas-lights-and-custard run, you do not have to think about it for very long.
When you’re big kid says, “I’m going to stay an extra day longer this weekend if that’s okay,” you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid asks, “Can you save some of the Christmas decorating to do when I’m home?” you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid wonders if you want to stay up and watch a movie with them, you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid texts and asks, “Can I call and talk to you for a minute?” you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid messages that they have good news to tell when they get home and wonders if you’ll still be up, you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid says, “Can I get your opinion on something?” you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid wants the two of you to bake something together, you do not have to think about it for very long.
When your big kid asks if you can make their favorite meal the next time they’re home, you do not have to think about it for very long.
When you are the parent of a big kid, you do not have to think about any of this for very long, if you even have to think about it at all, because you’re already thinking about your big kid a lot of the time.
And because the years with them may be short, but your love for them is longer still.
Love this from Guilty Chocoholic Mama - Elizabeth Spencer