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02/08/2024

⁉️ Do you love being around horses?

⁉️ Deep down, do you think there is a better way?

⁉️ Do you enjoy competing, but want to see change?

⬇️⬇️⬇️If YES to any, then keep reading⬇️⬇️⬇️

For those that don't know me, I'm Amber (obviously) a BHS Accredited Coach with a Difference. I am one part Refined Horsemanship UK and love eventing. I choose 'alternative' techniques to train my horses and when teaching I encourage a softer approach where less is more. It's about stripping things back to the minimum and having better communication with your horse.

I want to challenge you, challenge you to something slightly different, but not lead you a stray from your goals and aspirations as a rider.

Follow the link below find out more⤵️
https://bio.site/abgequestrian

🔥Is your horse tense or worried when you take him out?🔥Do you practise amazing dressage tests at home, but your horse is...
09/02/2024

🔥Is your horse tense or worried when you take him out?

🔥Do you practise amazing dressage tests at home, but your horse is on edge at the competition?

🔥Is this causing you to not want to go out?

We are offering private 1hr arena familiarisation and ground work to ridden sessions. They will be tailored to your needs and look at releasing tension in a new environment.

If you are interested and would like to find out more about how we can help you to have a more enjoyable time out with your equine friends, then pop us a message.

⬇️NOTE: For whoever needs it⬇️Not every day is as good as the next. Some days, things go wrong. We make mistakes, we don...
31/10/2023

⬇️NOTE: For whoever needs it⬇️

Not every day is as good as the next. Some days, things go wrong. We make mistakes, we don't understand, and we mess up. The same goes for our horses.

If things haven't gone to plan, pick yourself up and try to find the positives from the situation, and whatever the negative may be...turn it into something you can learn from.

⭐️ Today, I managed to film 2 horses in a field for 30 minutes instead of a schooling exercise in the arena. I have managed to hit selfie mode after setting it up by mistake. 🤦🏼‍♀️

You win some you lose some, It happens to everybody.












We had a great day out at   for our Arena Cross Country Clinic today. The weather held out for us, with such a stunning ...
27/10/2023

We had a great day out at for our Arena Cross Country Clinic today. The weather held out for us, with such a stunning venue to ride and coach at.

These clinics have a big focus on building confidence in both horse and rider, neatening up your skills and broadening your tool kit as you gain confidence. All horses and riders successfully accomplished the water, steps, ditches, skinnies, and a variety of other fences out on a course today, working on that all-important rhythm in a more open canter.

We will soon be releasing our full calendar of dates for 2024, so keep your eyes peeled! 👀









⁉️How responsive is your horse to your aids - be that on the ground or in the saddle - both are important? How do you ge...
25/10/2023

⁉️How responsive is your horse to your aids - be that on the ground or in the saddle - both are important? How do you get them to go forward?

In the photo above, Ballougar is asked to yield his hind leg through indirect pressure. There is no force pushing him or pulling him into this turn. If we can achieve this on the ground, there is a better understanding, allowing for greater response while under saddle.

My experience with getting a horse to move forward off a lighter leg aid often comes with getting a rider to look at things in a different light. You need to keep an open mind with horses, listen to them, and allow them to teach you.

Just food for thought:
It was just the other day that I heard a coach describe the type of leg aid needed as an 'electric shock' kick. Now I know they don't mean that they are going to give the horse a shock, but this puts such a negative view to training. Unfortunately, there have been trainers in the past who have used an electric shock to force horses to do things they were afraid of and did not understand. So, even more reason not to use that to describe the type of leg aid.

The more this type of terminology is used, the less we open ourselves up to listening to the horse.

You can learn from everyone in the horse world, but this can be learning how NOT to do something. Don't be afraid to go against the grain and disagree when you feel there is a kinder way - even if the other person is looked at to be a professional.












⭐️ARENA CROSS COUNTRY CLINIC @ HICKSTEAD⭐️🍏We are planning an arena Cross Country Clinic for Friday 27 October at Hickst...
17/10/2023

⭐️ARENA CROSS COUNTRY CLINIC @ HICKSTEAD⭐️

🍏We are planning an arena Cross Country Clinic for Friday 27 October at Hickstead.
🍎This will be run by Amber Barson-Greally BHS Coach.
🍎Small Groups @ £50/rider including course hire.
🍏Heights start at 60cm.
🍎Great for all riders including those who are nervous, new to cross country or on a new or young horse.

We are confirming numbers today, so please contact us if you would like a space.

Our newest video is live!He have started a series of horse care training videos to help riders study for tests and exams...
12/10/2023

Our newest video is live!

He have started a series of horse care training videos to help riders study for tests and exams from the comfort of their own home. The videos will range from Pony Club E test level through to the Stage 4. BUT we will be including what some might class as 'alternative' methods within these videos. We want to give riders the confidence in their knowledge and stand by what they feel is right.

Today's video is the very basics of the Points of the Horse. It is aimed at riders starting out and is designed to give you the time to test your own knowledge. A second more advanced video will be posted next week.

If there are any topics you would like to be covered now, leave a comment to let us know!







We are looking at running a XC clinic at Hickstead in the October half term. This would be from 60cm upwards.  Who would...
02/10/2023

We are looking at running a XC clinic at Hickstead in the October half term. This would be from 60cm upwards. Who would be interested?

It has been a rubbish past 2 weeks of sickness bug going through the family, but we are finally all clear of it now. So ...
26/09/2023

It has been a rubbish past 2 weeks of sickness bug going through the family, but we are finally all clear of it now. So with that, I hadn't posted anything from Ballougar's first in hand competition at the end of August at Rosewood Equine Rehabilitation Centre

We did the In-Hand Show Experience, and although it was a nightmare trip to get there, he was an absolute gent all the time.

I've just posted a short vlog from the show, which unfortunately was difficult to do with only me being there, but it is memories none the less.

And it definitely can't go without the stunning photos from the official photographer Jaz Glover photography 📸











We are currently planning our 2024 Confidence Camp which will be held at Willow Farm Equestrian Faversham. There is so m...
20/09/2023

We are currently planning our 2024 Confidence Camp which will be held at Willow Farm Equestrian Faversham. There is so much lined up including groundwork and agility, simulated cross country, rider fitness and pilates....and so much more!

There will be mounted and unmounted spaces so everyone can get involved! Spaces are limited and deposits will be taken to secure your space!

Full details will be posted shortly!

16/09/2023

We've had a fantastic start to the clinics with Confident Poles and Gridwork Clinic today at Willow Farm Equestrian Faversham ! All the horses and riders did amazingly and rose to the challenge.

Our next arena date at Willow Farm is on 20 January 2024 with our Winter Workshop - start the morning with a polework session aimed to improved your Flatwork, followed by an afternoon session of simulated XC and showjumping. The perfect way to build up towards the start of the season.

EVENTING CAMP 2024🐴🇬🇧🤔Would you be interested? Putting feelers out!We have the opportunity to run a camp at a BE Venue i...
21/08/2023

EVENTING CAMP 2024🐴🇬🇧

🤔Would you be interested? Putting feelers out!

We have the opportunity to run a camp at a BE Venue in the South East next year, but are wanting to put the feelers out there to see whether there is interest first.

This camp would be aimed at grassroots riders and newcomers to the sport. Sessions will be grouped according to the level you are at.

🍏We would be looking to hold it during the Summer
🍎3 days. 2 nights - horses will be penned out
🍏Dressage Individual Test Riding on Grass (including test run with BD Judge)
🍎Showjumping Group on Grass
🍏Evening Clear Round on Grass
🍎Group Cross Country Training
🍏Looking to including Rider Fitness, Equine Nutrition, Pilates
🍎Meals included
🍏Training with Accredited Coach and Horsemanship Trainer

😁If this is of interest to you then please do contact us!

All over the world there are trainers who have developed a 'system' or 'method' for their training. These are usually th...
16/08/2023

All over the world there are trainers who have developed a 'system' or 'method' for their training. These are usually the big names: Parelli, Clinton Anderson, Monty Roberts, TRT, and the list goes on. They are all very smart business people who do a lot of marketing. Do not get me wrong, I am not saying they are not good with horses, and we follow some of them and use parts of their methods, but the key word here is PARTS.

Systems and methods are inviting to newcomers. There are systems for how to learn to drive, how to cook, how to learn algebra. This is where the basics are laid, the fundamentals are learned, and ultimately what the consumer wants to buy.

All of these systems that you can buy into have the same origin. If you study them all, you will find that they have great similarities, but are marketed slightly differently or are aimed at a different audience. Even the words have been slightly altered to make it seem like one trainer is doing something different than the other. And as with anything, if you take a look at something at the wrong time and from the wrong angle without enough knowledge, things become a problem or are looked at negatively.

We looked at all these training methods and more, and as a trainer who has worked a with pony club and riding schools, I personally think the Parelli system is the best way to teach riders what they want to achieve and why at the beginning of their journey. But even then, I have watched the more recent videos and they are missing important information that I think is important for a better understanding. Without a good understanding, people go too soft or too hard, have a poor outcome, and start telling the world that 'Natural Horsemanship" is a bunch of nonsense. Somewhere along the line there is a lack of knowledge and understanding, which has led to this situation.

Once you have that understanding, I encourage people to look at everything and not get locked into one particular direction. Horses are all individual, and what works for one may not work for another.

To give a real-life example: There is a general way to learn to drive a car. But if the first car you learned to drive was a very old crank handle, you would not be able to use the same system as in a modern car. Yes, the steering will be the same, although it would feel different, but the starting itself will be different.

The other day I started working with a sweet pony named Duke. He was very nervous and protective of his body. If I had started at the point that these systems talk about, I would have gotten kicked. Instead, I had to read the signs he gave me and adjust my plan to protect myself and help him understand. Without learning the basics with a sensible horse, I would not have been able to adjust myself to work with a more challenging horse.

This platform we have created will not be limited to one path. We will educate others on how to accomplish things and how different horses react. What I think will be beneficial are the case studies we publish about horses in training. They will show real life examples of how we often need to adjust our approach.

So my final message to everyone: learn and understand the basics, but keep your mind open to new things. Do not put yourself in a box and close the lid.

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🔥Our latest short is now live on YouTube!🔥It is the starting foundations of what the Parelli 7 games are, one of the man...
12/08/2023

🔥Our latest short is now live on YouTube!🔥

It is the starting foundations of what the Parelli 7 games are, one of the many things we work with. This is not the finished product, but rather a step in that direction.🐴🐴

👍Please be sure to give it a Like and Subscribe to our channel for more detailed training videos. You can also join our RH Academy Community!

discovering the Parelli Savvy Club 7 Games with our horse Ballougar who hasn't done this for a while. Different forms of horsemanship training techniques an...

Some last minute availability during the Summer Holidays.Confidence building coach, Kind and Supportive. Ideal for nervo...
04/08/2023

Some last minute availability during the Summer Holidays.

Confidence building coach, Kind and Supportive. Ideal for nervous horses and riders.

Injuries do happen and unfortunately we aren't able to wrap our horses in bubblewrap 24/7.  On Tuesday morning, I arrive...
03/08/2023

Injuries do happen and unfortunately we aren't able to wrap our horses in bubblewrap 24/7.

On Tuesday morning, I arrived at the yard to find Ballougar with cuts all down both of his back legs. I can only presume he caught it in the fence but there is no evidence of that anywhere.

After ensuring everything was ok and that I wouldn't be needing the vet to come out, I decided it would be a good idea to film this. Now I'm sure some people will read that comment and think I'm nuts and shouldn't be videoing this. But the truth is, in all the years I've been coaching, guiding others through first time horse ownership and assisting students with different exams, you always come to the topic of how to treat a wound. Every injury is different and it can be difficult for someone to fully understand what is happening when you 'practice' on a horse that has nothing wrong with it. This is a way for people to learn how to deal with the situation, and hopefully there are other coaches out there that find this useful as a training aid too.

So if you are interested in taking a look at what happened, click the link below. Please do give the video a thumbs up and subscribe if you are interested in learning more. We are very interested in what things you want to know, so feel free to pop in any questions and we will do our best to answer them all!

In this video, we bring you a guide to effectively treating horse wounds with utmost care. Whether you're an experienced equestrian or a concerned horse owne...

Our popular clinics are BACK!⭐Polework and/or Gridwork⭐working on Horse and Rider Confidence⭐improving Horse and Rider F...
29/07/2023

Our popular clinics are BACK!

⭐Polework and/or Gridwork
⭐working on Horse and Rider Confidence
⭐improving Horse and Rider Fitness and Core Strength
⭐For all riders regardless of discipline or tack!

📅 16 September 2023
📍Willow Farm Equestrian Faversham
💷 £45 private lesson
💷 £35/rider in a group (max 3)

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🔥🔥NEWS FLASH🔥🔥We are so excited to be launching our new website!There are still some things to come including:⭐ New memb...
25/07/2023

🔥🔥NEWS FLASH🔥🔥

We are so excited to be launching our new website!

There are still some things to come including:
⭐ New members portal on the RH Academy
⭐ Online Dressage, Reining and Equitation competitions where everyone competes equally (including bitless and bridleless)
⭐ New RH Academy Care Courses - covering exam theory, excluding old school training methods and equipment
⭐ Online Store
⭐ and more!!

Please check out the new website and let us know what you think in the comments below!

Be sure to Subscribe to be keep up to date with when everything launches 😃😃

Www.refinedhorsemanship.com

🎉July is a big birthday month, so to celebrate we are running a GIVEAWAY!!🎉Up for grabs:🐴 1 rope training halter made to...
11/07/2023

🎉July is a big birthday month, so to celebrate we are running a GIVEAWAY!!🎉

Up for grabs:
🐴 1 rope training halter made to measure for your horse, in black with coloured detailing of your choice.

How to enter:
✅ follow on instagram or facebook
✅ Share this post in stories
✅ Tag a friend in the post (each tag counts as an entry)

⭐ The giveway is being run over our Facebook and Instagram accounts. Entries will count on both channels

⭐The giveaway is GLOBAL and will close at midnight on the 27 July. After that a winner will be chosen at random.

Good luck to everyone. We wish you all the best of luck!

Please be aware of any scams. We will only contact you from this account.

Giveaway T&Cs: This giveaway is not endorsed by facebook or instagram. No cash alternative is available. Prize will be posted to the winner after the draw.

Life at the moment just seems to be tough for everyone. The increased cost of living and everything that goes with it is...
07/07/2023

Life at the moment just seems to be tough for everyone. The increased cost of living and everything that goes with it is bringing people down, and maybe even stopping them from doing what they love.

So to try help out we are finally launching our ⭐️VIRTUAL LESSONS. We are able to coach Groundwork, Flat, Poles and Jump from anywhere in the world. All you need is someone to record your lesson and a set of wireless headphones.

If this doesn't suit you, possibly because of signal problems or Load Shedding, then a video analysis session is another option. Both types of lessons include an initial introduction, goal setting and structure to help you succeed.

We are currently offering 25% off....DM us for more details and to customize your plan.

How do I get my lazy horse to be more enthusiastic about work?❌ Whips and Spurs - would NOT be my answer ❌We need to giv...
06/07/2023

How do I get my lazy horse to be more enthusiastic about work?

❌ Whips and Spurs - would NOT be my answer ❌

We need to give our horse a reason for wanting to go forward, a better understanding. This method makes you so much more aware of your horse's way of going and your reactions.

Be reactive to what your horse does or is telling you, don't be so automatic that there becomes no difference.

PRESSURE and RELSEASE (the reward)
As you ask your pony to move forward with a gentle squeeze, the moment you get a response ensure you release the pressure regardless of what you believe is going to happen next. If your horse doesn't respond, you then build up the pressure and the moment you get the response - STOP. Even if the walk may seem slow, you need to allow your horse the time just to walk at his pace and be left alone, no KICK KICK KICK which is ultimately what causes them to become 'dead to the leg'. A bit further down the school, apply a bit of pressure again and gradually increase to get the response of a more forward work. But again stop asking the moment you get more forward energy. If the horse goes to slow down you can then react with the press of the leg once. If we are consistent with the release, giving our horse a reason for going forward as the pressure goes away then we will soon have a horse that is more responsive to the leg. This exercise can make a difference within the first session if you are consistent and listen to the slightest response from your horse.

If you found this interesting or would like advice on anything else then please do get in contact. We will soon be launching our Patreon page for Training videos, Podcasts, advice and so much more! Our first video will go more into detail about creating a sharper response from your lazy horses. Make sure you are following to find out more soon!

27/06/2023
Welcome back to friends new and old. We have been quiet for a couple of years as we introduced a new little cowboy to th...
25/06/2023

Welcome back to friends new and old.

We have been quiet for a couple of years as we introduced a new little cowboy to the family, so I thought this brand new chapter would be the perfect time for us to all reintroduce ourselves, reconnect and get to know one another a little better. I'll go first, but please help me out and tell me something fun about you, in the comments.

🙋🏼‍♀️I'm Amber. I'm a horse loving mum and wife, during the week i work at a Grammar School and run Refined Horsemanship during my spare time.

At Refined Horsemanship UK we are seeking to help people understand why horses act like they do and how we can act around them to gain a greater response, understanding and ultimately working bond with our equine friends, on the ground or in the saddle, no matter what the discipline.

Soon this page will have a bit of a facelift with new things to come so stay tuned!

Ok, you're turn. Please don't leave me hanging! Tell me all about you!

Are you a competitive rider? A happy hacker? A horsemanship enthusiast?

What made you follow us? What do we have in common?




















Groundwork is so underrated by many equestrians. It is so beneficial to create confidence and trust in the horse/human r...
24/06/2023

Groundwork is so underrated by many equestrians. It is so beneficial to create confidence and trust in the horse/human relationship.

What is your horse or pony like? and what do you like to do with them?

Exciting things coming soon....
23/06/2023

Exciting things coming soon....

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