
09/12/2025
More of dogs past: Foxy Lady was part of this page originally. What most don’t know is that she was supposed to be a behavioral euthanasia, and I think that’s important on several levels
The first is that her previous family was not wrong. Behavioral euthanasia is stigmatized, but some dogs just are not right and it is dangerous. Fox had multiple homes already. She had severe resource guarding issues. I had to utilize barriers at meal times in the beginning. She was severely dog aggressive, taking the other dogs in the home on 2 at a time - and she was winning. By a lot. When we took her in we had to finish treating a scratch on her eye. The other dogs had drains in their wounds. This family was dealing with all of this with young children in the house
To be frank, I wouldn’t have taken her on. But she chose my then boyfriend. New to dogs in general, he did not fully understand the depth of her issues. So we started working on it
And this is the second important part, that I think a lot of people who want to place one of these dogs need to hear:
We could not fix her
There was something wrong in her brain. She was also being mismanaged. She did improve. Once she was in a stable environment and simply left alone, she began to trust. After some months of work I could safely hand her food and trade with her. Eventually she started to just avoid other dogs rather than reacting. We never stopped working on everything. Training, handling, muzzle conditioning… She relaxed into a happy dog and due to her preference of being left alone she was easy to rotate with the others. I’ve always said we weren’t the right home for her, but she thought we were. And there sure wasn’t anyone else. Who is out there with behavioral training experience and only wants one dog who is kinda a liability and doesn’t really want to do anything?
Still, she never gave appropriate communication signals, which made it nearly impossible to socialize her with dogs. She could walk in a group muzzled but if left free something silly would eventually trigger her and she’d launch, which wasn’t healthy for anyone so I gave it up. I had to manage her anxiety. She walked in circles, just compulsive circles to the right, sometimes tight, sometimes large
So it went. She was also a very fun dog in many ways. For the most part she loved people. My only dog to ever care for her toys. She would line them up or sort them by type. I couldn’t get her to do anything else with that behavior, it was her terms only, but it was fascinating. Loved her walks, always. Loved snow. When she was much older she did accept a couple very specific dog friends. Just a couple. She would work cooperatively with Ember even though they were never free together
I do miss her all the time, but I do not miss living with her. It was just luck our paths crossed when they did. Anything can happen raising dogs but I will never knowingly enter this situation again