03/09/2025
Leashes and Harnesses
I have a thing about harnesses. I hate them. I totally get the reason that people use them: their dog pulls, and they don’t want to strangle the dog or possibly injure him, so they get a harness that will “gently” correct him. Maybe. Harnesses that reduce the dog’s desire to pull do so by making the dog uncomfortable if he pulls. And while uncomfortable is a step up from strangled, I suggest that you take a step back for a moment.
If your dog is pulling, so are you.
Anyone who has walked with me and my dogs knows that I regularly walk two, three or even more dogs, any two of which outweigh me. And they have a lower center of gravity, and better traction. They would win any tug of war, which is why I don’t let them pull. And I do this with a simple leash and collar. As it happens, I usually use a slip or “choke” collar. But since the leash is almost always slack, the dog is never strangled. (The method works equally well with a buckle collar, but I don’t have the patience to keep buckling and unbuckling collars.)
So try this. Attach a leash to your dog’s collar and just hold the handle of the leash. Repeat after me: “Excuse me; we’re attached.” If your dog pulls, resist while you say “Excuse me.” And then - this is the important part! - relax your hand and let the leash have a little slack while you say “We’re attached.” At first you will probably have to repeat the action several times before your dog gives up and stops pulling, and he will pull again at the next distraction. After a few times, he will stop pulling after the first or second resist/release.
To make it stick, you have to recognize an implicit contract you are making with your dog. You set the length of the leash and the direction of travel. Your dog is responsible for keeping slack in the leash. If he tightens the leash, you will remind him (excuse me) and then reset the slack (we’re attached). You can call your dog, or move closer to him in order to shorten the leash, but you cannot reel him in, because you are never going to put tension on the leash.