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I recently tried relief vet work for the first time, and it was a great experience. 🥰If you’re feeling burnt out, wantin...
14/09/2025

I recently tried relief vet work for the first time, and it was a great experience. 🥰

If you’re feeling burnt out, wanting more shifts, or just craving something different, consider giving relief work a shot. You might love it more than you expect.

While I won’t be picking up shifts for a while due to being primary care for my youngest, I am glad I tried it. It’s good to know this is an easy option when or if future plans change. 🤍🥰

Reflecting back on these hard truths, these were the lessons I learned that will help you transition into working parent...
08/09/2025

Reflecting back on these hard truths, these were the lessons I learned that will help you transition into working parent life:

1️⃣ Make moments count – Put the phone down and be present with your kids.

2️⃣ Set work boundaries – Emails and calls can wait; family time is sacred.

3️⃣ Plan ahead for care – Daycare waitlists are long (get on them when you find out your pregnant!); have backup plans for sick days.

4️⃣ Prioritize your partner – Date nights matter, even at home.

5️⃣ Fill your own cup – Your wellbeing isn’t selfish, it’s survival.

For now, stay-at-home parent life has won out, but work will always be there, and part of this journey is learning to adapt based on your circumstances. 💛

Time has flown by, but my heart still feels the same as it did on 8.29.15 🤍 Looking back on that beautiful day fills me ...
29/08/2025

Time has flown by, but my heart still feels the same as it did on 8.29.15 🤍 Looking back on that beautiful day fills me with so much joy, and I love that people still talk about how fun the wedding was for them too. 🥂

Thank you to my husband…my greatest blessing, my best friend, and my forever love. Life with you is what I always dreamed of, and I’m endlessly grateful that I get to walk through it by your side. 🤍 Cheers.

🎂 Spot the Lie! 37 truths + 1 lie in honor of my 38th birthday today. Comment the number you think is the lie. 🙃✨
20/08/2025

🎂 Spot the Lie! 37 truths + 1 lie in honor of my 38th birthday today. Comment the number you think is the lie. 🙃✨

✨ Birthday tomorrow calls for…reflecting back over the last 365 days ✨Another year older, another year wiser… but also a...
19/08/2025

✨ Birthday tomorrow calls for…reflecting back over the last 365 days ✨

Another year older, another year wiser… but also another year braver. This past year has stretched me in ways I didn’t expect: balancing motherhood, my identity as a veterinarian, and my own health and happiness.

I’ve learned that sometimes strength doesn’t look like pushing harder… it looks like pressing pause. Burnout reminded me that I can’t pour from an empty cup, and that my worth isn’t measured by how much I do but by who I am becoming.

For my birthday tomorrow, I’m choosing gratitude. Gratitude for the lessons, the little moments, and the people who remind me that while work is replaceable, our presence with those we love is everything. ❤️

So here’s to walking into this next chapter lighter, more grounded, and ready to give myself the same compassion I’d offer anyone else.

🌱 Your worth is not tied to your title. Rest is not weakness. Growth is not linear. 🌱

👉 What’s one lesson you’re carrying into your next year on this planet?

People often think freedom means making more money. But real freedom comes from what you do with the money and opportuni...
12/08/2025

People often think freedom means making more money. But real freedom comes from what you do with the money and opportunities you already have.

Here are the smart moves that have given us the flexibility to travel, have a stay-at-home season, and working life on our own terms:

1️⃣ Don’t upgrade just because you can.
Our cars are paid off, and even though our house feels small for our growing family, we’re staying put with a low mortgage. When we sold our first home, its appreciation gave us a nice boost to reinvest in our future.

2️⃣ Side hustles matter…especially in vet med.
It can be tough to make a salary that covers everything you want. For us, side hustles have been essential: mine in social media and product sales, my husband’s in e-commerce. That extra income goes straight to savings, investments, or big life goals, not lifestyle creep.

3️⃣ Benefits are hidden income…don’t overlook them.
I’ve taken nearly 10 months of paid parental leave over the last four years. Without that income, we’d have been set back financially. Paid leave, 401k matches, equity, PTO…these perks add up and give you time and money back.

4️⃣ We maximize every perk. From credit card points paying for flights and vacations to owning LLCs for appropriate write-offs, these can help more than you think.

💬 Freedom isn’t about never working. It’s about making smart choices that create space to live on your own terms.

I spent two days visiting a preschool with my dog, teaching little ones how to safely interact with dogs, and it reminde...
06/08/2025

I spent two days visiting a preschool with my dog, teaching little ones how to safely interact with dogs, and it reminded me: these lessons aren’t just for kids.

Whether you’re a parent, teacher, or fellow vet professional, let’s make these skills part of every child’s upbringing. Because when kids learn to respect animals, they grow into kinder humans. 💛

🐾 Save this for your next school visit or family talk!

📕 Featured book: Grits the Puggle’s Tummy Troubles

I used to run a 24/7 emergency pet hospital as a medical director. It was intense, fulfilling, and also *a lot*. Working...
01/08/2025

I used to run a 24/7 emergency pet hospital as a medical director. It was intense, fulfilling, and also *a lot*. Working full time with two littles took everything out of me, and I was grateful for the chance to transition to SAHM to be fully present at home while my kids are little. Since making that decision, I wondered if I’d lost my edge, my clinical rhythm, and my confidence.

This week, after almost 3.5 years away from appointments, I picked up two general practice relief shifts… and it was like riding a bike. Smooth. Natural. Empowering. I didn’t just survive the day… I enjoyed it!

So here’s what I want to say to any vet out there feeling stuck, burned out, or unsure of what’s next:

👉 You’re allowed to pivot.
👉 You’re allowed to rest.
👉 You’re allowed to return when you’re ready, and you’ll still know what to do.
👉 You are not your title. You are your talent, your compassion, your purpose.

Vet med will always be here. And so will the rest of your life. 💙

Take the leap. Book the trip. Try the thing. Start the shift. Write the next chapter on your terms.

Because this life? It’s yours. And it’s yours to decide.


Keep doing you, future of vet med. 💙 You are just what we need in our profession. Follow  for mentorship and support.
22/07/2025

Keep doing you, future of vet med. 💙 You are just what we need in our profession.

Follow for mentorship and support.

Why is “doing nothing” so hard?! 😩 Millennial guilt and a vet school overachiever complex? Yeah… I’m working on it.Tag a...
18/07/2025

Why is “doing nothing” so hard?! 😩 Millennial guilt and a vet school overachiever complex? Yeah… I’m working on it.

Tag a friend who gets it or show some love if you feel this. 💙🐢💤

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