15/01/2025
The Difficult One:
Today I had a conversation with a lovely dog who is guiding his person to stay true to herself, regardless of those around her. Growing up, she was the responsible one, caring for her siblings and always doing the right thing. This sense of responsibility taught her compassion and consideration for others, and a sense of independence that has served her well. It also guided her to put the needs and comfort of others before her own.
Then came along a not-so-little dog who has out energized several trainers, and stayed true to his hearts calling. He is vibrant, playful, joyous, and wild. He does not have a desire to conform to what others believe is a “good boy.”
For the most part, he and his person get along famously, just as they are. However; When other people are around, she can feel quite embarrassed by his exuberance, and people often tell her that her dog “owns” her, not the other way around.
His response?
“Why do you care? It’s not your life I’m influencing, it’s hers!”
Society has determined what a “good dog” is, just as it has determined what a “good kid” is.
I so appreciated the tenacity of this guy in staying true to himself and his lessons for his person. He told her to remind others to create their own boundaries rather than asking her to change him so that they can feel better… and to stay joyful and free!
The ‘difficult one’ reminds us to stay true to ourselves, regardless of what other’s think… after all, it’s not your life they’re living!
(Photo of another little being I know who shares this sentiment).