
24/04/2025
I’ve read about compassion fatigue and rescue burnout but, until recently, had never put two and two together and figured out that’s what is going on with me. It's characterized by emotional exhaustion, reduced empathy, and physical symptoms like fatigue and headaches. Burnout can also lead to feelings of guilt, anger, and cynicism. It’s been just over 12 years since I took in my first two foster babies, Simon and Garfunkel, closely followed by CJ and Rocky. Another 250 or so cats and kittens have passed through our house since then. I’ve learned a lot about cat illnesses and behaviours, kept a few along the way and met some amazing like minded people. On the down side I’ve spoken to some awful people, people that try to guilt you into taking on their cats, people that threaten to kill cats if you don’t take them, people that beg you to take them before their partner kills them, people that have started out with a couple of cats and before they knew it they had 20 and had no idea what to do. It is heartbreaking to know that people still treat cats as a throw away commodity, that people still refuse to desex and contain their cats, to vaccinate and parasite treat them and that they are still left on the side of a country road tied up in a shopping bag or taped up in a box. It is heartbreaking to beg local government and large, well funded rescues for help with hoarding situations only to be turned away. And the thing that finally broke me, some unsupported young people that started out with some cute giveaway kittens and ended up with an out of control number of cats and kittens, some dying, some needing desperate vet work and all needing to be desexed. Late night text messages telling me that another kitten had died and knowing that I could only do so much to help. I’ve absolutely loved fostering kittens and seeing them into their forever homes but I feel the time has come for me to step away. I’ll keep this page as a way to remember all of the cats that have passed through and to share the occasional photo of the cats that remain with me. Thanks for following along with my foster journey.
Photo is Simon, Garfunkel and CJ (now Lily)