10/10/2023
The Life of Edgar
Dog Ownership and Training Thoughts:
A few days ago I was taking my 5-month -old puppy for a walk. They’re very short distances because he can’t manage the concept of a loose lead consistently out in public yet.
As we neared a corner, a rather large dog of traditionally friendly breed, without a lead, came around the corner and … stopped and looked at us.
Now, we live in a town where people will let their dogs walk off-lead because the dogs are friendly, well-behaved and their owners trust them.
But here’s the problem.
There are at least two dogs involved in any encounter, with different personalities, abilities and experiences.
My puppy has immense, gorgeous, poor-boundary-recognition enthusiasm, which is normal for his age and he needs guidance so he can make as many friends as he likes politely. Dogs don’t like rude dogs and won't make friends with them.
I don’t know the dog that just appeared. I don’t know how it will behave with a puppy.
So we turned around started walking back the way we came, and this dog started following us.
So I turned, said “Get outta here!”, which is fairly standard across dog trainers’ suggestions for letting dogs know they shouldn’t follow you, and then crossed the road as it continued to approach. (How would it react to a boisterous puppy leaping up in its face to say hello?)
These encounters when you remove your puppy from an older dog should NOT create fear in your puppy about other dogs, but as the puppy’s guardian you have a responsibility to keep your puppy safe.
And you don’t know that other dog.
The dog’s owner arrived, walking calmly some distance behind him, and told me firmly I had nothing to worry about, the dog is gentle and wouldn’t hurt a soul.
That last time I heard that was just before my previous dog was attacked by the ‘friendly’ dog.
(For the record, this dog showed no unfriendly behaviours at any time.)
So now you have previous experience playing its role in the encounter.
I said, in as friendly and neutral way as possible, that by law the dog should be on lead. (See the Companion Animals Act NSW).
The owner gave a defence for their dog being off-lead, in a rather belligerent tone:
- already been walking them for two hours (really?)
- dog weighs 40+kg and pulls (perhaps it's time to choose better tools: this includes lots of boring, messy loose-lead-walking practice and possibly mechanical help from specialised equipment)
- the owner knows the law and didn’t need me telling them (I’m not even going to start discussing that particular statement)
I replied, truthfully, that I wouldn’t like them to get into trouble.
Trouble from being fined, were that to happen.
Trouble from a less trustworthy off-lead dog suddenly taking a dislike to theirs.
Trouble from something unexpected frightening their dog, causing it to run onto the road.
Trouble from other mishaps that could be avoided were the dog on lead.
Don’t have unnecessary arguments with anyone when an argument, not a discussion, is all you’re going to get.
I looked at my puppy, said “Come on, love“ and we kept walking. It was a beautiful morning with plenty for us to enjoy.
“You’re raising a fearful dog!” were the other dog owner’s parting words.
Am I? With repeated exposure to enough similar encounters that’s entirely possible. However I expose my dog to enough friendly encounters under safe conditions with dogs of different sizes and ages that I don’t think that will be the case.
How much of that parting shot was disappointment that their beautiful dog was not being instantly accepted and loved by everyone who met it, or embarrassment because they were reminded of a rule they were knowingly disregarding, which is intended to keep walks enjoyable and safe for all?
Get your dog out and about. Let them meet other dogs when you and the other owner agree it’s safe to do so.
There also needs to be understanding that not everyone wants their dog to be all other dogs' instant friend. In my view, that's a dangerous and irresponsible attitude, because it fails to recognise that dogs have different personalities, play styles, stages of life and experiences.
Let’s enjoy walking our dogs safely, with thought that creates safety and enjoyment for others as well as ourselves.