17/09/2024
Q&A with ‘The Paw Man’ (2,160) – The First Wrong Step, Followed By More Mis-steps.
Carol Danvers
Hi what would you suggest, I have two male intact 11 month old pups (brothers), they have started to fight to the point of one drawing blood. I have separated them, but am unsure where to go from here, and if I can stop them from doing this. Any suggestions would be great. Thank you.
Paw Man
So, it would be safe to assume that you knew nothing about litter-mate syndrome (LS). ☹ If not, then please Google it.
How much time do these dogs ever spend apart (before the problems started)?
Carol
They are brothers from the same litter, and have lived together in the same yard for about 6 months closely, even sleeping together.
Paw Man
So, hopefully if you have Googled LS and now understand that and can now see that getting litter-mates greatly increases the odds of conflict between the dogs.
Two litter-mate entire males going through puberty at the same time…. what could possibly go wrong? ☹ Hormones are very powerful things and having two males going thru puberty at the same time also increases the odds of conflict.
How much formal training have these dogs received?
Carol
They have not received formal training; however they do sit before feeding, come when called and when we walk they stay close by.
Paw Man
Dogs are not born domesticated. We domesticate dogs through a process called ‘training’. The better job you do of training them, the more suitable they are for our domestic environments. But if the training that you give the dog is minimal then they will have minimal suitability for our domestic environment.
How do you currently discipline your dogs when they do something seriously wrong?
Carol
They don’t usually do anything bad and the times they have chewed my lounge or annoyed me, I’ve separated them.
Paw Man
So let me get this right….. to punish your dogs for annoying you or damaging your furniture, you separate them from each other? I am having difficulty seeing how any dog could see that as being in any way a punishment.
OK, here we go… without realising the possible problems, you got two same s*x litter-mates, didn’t de-s*x them and gave them only minimal informal training….. and on top of that, when they do something wrong, you do something that no dog on the planet would ever perceive as a punishment… so effectively they have never been punished, which means that you have never enforced rules, boundaries or limitations upon your dogs.
You very urgently need a good 4 hours of teaching about what a dog is, how to train it, how to instill rules, boundaries and limitations, and most importantly, how to extinguish unwanted or unsafe behaviors the correct way. I’m sorry but I cannot convey that 4 hours of essential knowledge to you in the answer to this question… it takes me 4 hours to do it verbally and I type a LOT slower than I talk.
You need to seek out the services of a Balanced Dog Trainer and get them to teach you the things mentioned in the previous paragraph.