The Equestrienne

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How special does a horse have to be to loosen off the bailing twine and clip their face to a haybag? Sadly the haybag ha...
27/01/2025

How special does a horse have to be to loosen off the bailing twine and clip their face to a haybag? Sadly the haybag has not survived this ordeal, may it rest in peices.

Early start to load up and head home, hopefully beat the worst of the heat. šŸ„µšŸ„µ
26/01/2025

Early start to load up and head home, hopefully beat the worst of the heat. šŸ„µšŸ„µ

ā€œOut of all the horses Iā€™ve helped you with this one is the nicestā€. A huge vote of confidence I really needed. Iā€™ve wav...
26/01/2025

ā€œOut of all the horses Iā€™ve helped you with this one is the nicestā€. A huge vote of confidence I really needed. Iā€™ve wavered a lot with Kat, good days are often followed by days where I end up thinking who am I to buy an unstarted warmblood. Well meaning comments often get to me, poking and prodding the parts tainted with self doubt.

Kat is the fourth horse in 9 years who has come with me to clinics. Arwen, Friday, Eowyn and Kat. Maybe its because Iā€™ve learnt more. Maybe Iā€™ve found myself a horse with less issues. Maybe she has a better temperament or her conformation supports the job I am asking for her. Think its a combination of all of the above, none of which are purely by chance. I carry each lesson Iā€™ve learnt forward even the mistakes. The horses I wish I hadnā€™t started. The horses who were too much. Those I kept going with for far too long.

When Friday and I were here, starting our horsemanship clinics her behaviour was entirely different. She bucked and reared and spun and wouldnā€™t stop. She was a hot mess. A few years later she is entirely different. I carry this journey with me now giving me hope and faith that I can work this out. Iā€™ve done it before with worse, so with time, patience and my mentors I can do it all again.

Exhausted after a huge day and on my way to bed but some massive achievements with today adding to our bank of training ...
25/01/2025

Exhausted after a huge day and on my way to bed but some massive achievements with today adding to our bank of training rather than withdrawing. Kat had some anxiety we were able to work through before Warwick helped me to get her more responsive.

Today showed my journey has deepened again and its become more about how they do things and how they feel when they do. As usual for now I felt a bit like I am a step behind the horse, today showing I definitely need to keep working on my fluidity in training to be quicker to adapt to whats in front of me but we are definitely seeing change.

Today Kat and I made the trek down to Tominbuck Victoria for a clinic with Warwick Schiller. It was an epic journey made...
24/01/2025

Today Kat and I made the trek down to Tominbuck Victoria for a clinic with Warwick Schiller. It was an epic journey made longer by my complete lack of preparation once again being out for most of the week in the lead up to it.

Over the years I have become used to being the furthest traveled person for most of these clinics and somewhere on the Hume highway my mind wandered to ask myself why. Why do I keep doing such long journeys, often feeling under prepared and at such a great cost of resources?

While my mind wandered again and I never really did answer myself, my musings became clear that I keep coming back because these clinics have fundamentally changed me. They have changed how I view horses. Changed my relationship with my horses and myself. So much so horsemanship clinics are almost a right of passage for all my performance horses. Thereā€™s just something in helping a horse find relaxation in movement within the pressure of being away from home, among other unknown horses while people watch your every move.

Iā€™m somewhat nervous and apprehensive about what the days to come will bring. I put Kat out for a break after Equitana and somewhere between the heat and life happenings lost all motivation and capacity for the greener members of the herd. But we are here, just as we are and I have no doubt that what ever follows will be just what we need.

Its been a tough end to 2024 and an equally tough start to 2025. Sick and heartbroken Iā€™ve spent some time away and some...
20/01/2025

Its been a tough end to 2024 and an equally tough start to 2025. Sick and heartbroken Iā€™ve spent some time away and some time reflecting on what Iā€™d like to invest my time and energy in and what Iā€™d like to let go of and spend less time and resources on.

A lot of what I have done in the past has been driven by the desire to share what I have learnt, a more harmonious peaceful path. A path that can feel good to both horse and rider. I felt shaken. My confidence and motivation took a big hit and its been a hard road to find my way recently. Starting two more horses has also been looming a bit over my head and I just havenā€™t had the capacity.

Slowly things are beginning to change again. Light is beginning to peak between the dark clouds that have been hanging around. What you focus on you attract more of, so for now I am chasing the light. The little peaks of joy and glimmerings that are present in my day. The little rush of endorphins after pilates. The pure look of delight on Dobbyā€™s face as he lays purring like a chainsaw in my lap. The pride in creating an artwork, even on crappy paper that peels with crappy cheap penciļæ¼ls. The love for the small chestnut pony, an underdog in a world of performance horses and above all things the knowledge that if I can survive this, if I can find joy in this, I have the resilience and grit to do anything.

First horses on site. Last to leave. Thatā€™s a wrap on EQUITANA Australia 2024. Looking forward to being home and I have ...
18/11/2024

First horses on site. Last to leave.

Thatā€™s a wrap on EQUITANA Australia 2024. Looking forward to being home and I have no doubt the girls will be too. Its been a big week and a half but overall its been another fabulous experience for us all.

Today the girls got a bit of love from Matt Horsehelp in his demo which incorporated bodywork techniques to assist the h...
17/11/2024

Today the girls got a bit of love from Matt Horsehelp in his demo which incorporated bodywork techniques to assist the horses feeling comfortable for trimming and shoeing.

What a place to hang out! šŸ¤©
16/11/2024

What a place to hang out! šŸ¤©

Thrilled! šŸ¤©Its one thing to take your horse to Equitana as a first outing. Its another thing to give your horse to anoth...
16/11/2024

Thrilled! šŸ¤©

Its one thing to take your horse to Equitana as a first outing. Its another thing to give your horse to another trainer who hasnā€™t touched her for 6 months after only a weekā€™s training.

Great to see Kat and Adam put each other through their paces today. Kat could not have handled herself better. If I have learnt anything from watching the Way of the Horse, its time to get a little help and get out of my own head.

Hugely thankful to Adam Sutton Allround Horsemanship for showing me what I couldnā€™t quite see today. Thereā€™s something really special here.

We are on our way to Adam Sutton Allround Horsemanshipā€™s demo at EQUITANA Australia.
16/11/2024

We are on our way to Adam Sutton Allround Horsemanshipā€™s demo at EQUITANA Australia.

Another great lesson on adjustability and balance from Chloe Phillips-Harris:  Adventurer. The more I listen to people, ...
16/11/2024

Another great lesson on adjustability and balance from Chloe Phillips-Harris: Adventurer.

The more I listen to people, the more I hear the same things in different words. Energy and balance. The principles of training transcend discipline.

Super proud of the girls. Its been a massive lesson in resilience for Kat, who in 6 months hasnā€™t been anywhere to then ...
15/11/2024

Super proud of the girls. Its been a massive lesson in resilience for Kat, who in 6 months hasnā€™t been anywhere to then land herself in the midst of Equitana. Its building resilience for me too.

The instinct is to protect those we love from discomfort including our horses but if we try to save them from the discomfort entirely their world gets smaller and their capacity to handle the pressure of life in a human world diminishes.

Not being completely out of herself and completely overwhelmed I gave her the chance to settle helping her where I could. Its the clarity and consistency that come with using tools to get through experiences like this over time which build trust and capacity in the partnership.

Fantastic lesson from Will Rogers in the dressage masterclass helping the 4 year old relax in the environment through co...
15/11/2024

Fantastic lesson from Will Rogers in the dressage masterclass helping the 4 year old relax in the environment through connection and movement. Great to see Will normalising hopping off and working on what the horse needs in the moment and the feel of release and relaxation in ourselves first.

Snuck away from the stable managers office to see a little of The Way of the Horse. Great message from Adam Sutton Allro...
14/11/2024

Snuck away from the stable managers office to see a little of The Way of the Horse. Great message from Adam Sutton Allround Horsemanship on clarity and having a clear picture of what it is we want when we ask anything of our horses.

This is where I see so many riders getting stuck particularly when learning something new. We focus on whats happening with us or around us and forget about where we going, what we would like to feel and embodying that intent.

Just a little pony in the big city. Really glad I have been able to give Friday the experience of a royal staying at the...
11/11/2024

Just a little pony in the big city. Really glad I have been able to give Friday the experience of a royal staying at the showground without the pressure of competing at one.

Chunking down what are often considered normal tasks is a huge part of my training program for competition horses. I never expect them to be ok with a competition day before they have gone through each step of it on its own without the added pressure of competing so by the time they do compete nothing about the experience is new.

Well the girls and I have made it to EQUITANA Australia. Melbourne Showground is transforming all around us as we prepar...
11/11/2024

Well the girls and I have made it to EQUITANA Australia. Melbourne Showground is transforming all around us as we prepare for about 500 horses to come and go over the event.

Are you coming? Who is on your list to see? Whatā€™s on your list to buy?

Proud the work has paid off. Two tests over 70% for a third overall in a big field. šŸ¤©Huge thank you to Cedar Lodge Equin...
09/11/2024

Proud the work has paid off. Two tests over 70% for a third overall in a big field. šŸ¤©

Huge thank you to Cedar Lodge Equine Products for the awesome prize that went towards more gate guards for the champion little houdini.

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