16/11/2025
I'm often asked if I'll ever quit my office job in order to go full time in the horse industry. My typical response is to give a short hysterical type laugh followed by "and deal with horse people every day? Absolutely no way in hell, I don't have a thick enough hide for that." The originator of the question usually has a laugh in response and walks away not realising that I am in no way joking, not even for a second.
It's a sad reality that I am not alone on this and that the horse industry is not only a physically tough industry to be in but it's a mentally tough industry to make a living from as well. Mental burnout of equine professionals is a real thing, some bounce back stronger than before, others crawl back to just get by and some don't make it back at all and that's sad. To make a living in the horse industry the biggest thing you need is a thick hide, Buffalo thick hide, followed by a sense of humour (albeit somewhat twisted at times) and then talent/knowledge/skills/something to offer.
All the little things add up. It's the unspoken word and actions that can hit hard. The equine professional who does everything they can for a client, is told they're amazing and their help is seemingly appreciated is suddenly dropped for someone else. It's the coming and going of clients for various reasons and, to be honest, some of those reasons can be a real kick in the guts.
Then there's the rumour mill and criticisms that runs hot when something goes awry. The whole "2 sides to the story" thing however the side of the equine professionals is rarely heard unfortunately :( The advice that is misinterpreted and not followed that can taint the reputation of the equine professional. The rumour mill is a vicious and very real part of the game sadly. Horses, much like funerals, can bring out the best AND worst in people.
Surviving the roller coaster ride that is working in the equine industry, no matter how big or small your business is, sure isn't easy and not for the feint of heart. I have a great deal of respect for anyone who does it full time, whilst it can be incredibly rewarding it sure ain't easy.
Of course there are the amazing clients, the ones who make it all worthwhile and it's those precious individuals who help keep the equine professionals going and available in the industry for others.
Equine professionals often present as being fine, tough, hard sort of people but just know that sometimes this is a front they have to put on in order to keep going and keep getting business in order to survive. Be kind and considerate to your equine professional, they are honestly doing their best for both you and your horse and are human too. Whilst it isn't up to anyone to be responsible for the mental health of others it doesn't hurt to be aware of how your actions could impact.