10/03/2024
Some feedback from the podcast’s I did with Dr Shelley Appleton Calm Willing Confident Horses and Kathryn Christieson.
I really enjoyed the opportunity.
Canter Therapy Stories - Cat & Bella ❤️
There are a sea of voices, opinions, ideas, and echo chambers in the horse world. It is easy to get lost, distracted, and fall down a rabbit hole of red herrings and gurus with bad ideas.
Kathryn Christieson and I never stop learning, but we have lived, listened, experimented, and observed in the horse world and have clocked up enough experience to work out how to identify the good insights, the interesting ones, and the ones that get people lost.
We decided to do something to point out the good and interesting and decided to record our conversations and call it the Canter Therapy Podcast.
The Canter Therapy Podcast has become bigger than we ever imagined. Every day, we get feedback on how an idea or insight has helped someone. I got this incredible story from one of our listeners, and I asked permission to share it.
I want to introduce you to Cat Choodor and her mare Bella and their story. Cat lives in the UK, and this is how an interview with Ian Leighton Horsemanship transformed her relationship with Bella❤
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By Cat Chooder
I started riding lessons at about 5 years old with the local riding school pony club. That didn't last long, as sadly the riding school closed down. I rode whenever I could in the meantime, but very rarely. I picked it back up again when trying to get into vet school, volunteering at a dressage yard in exchange for riding the naughty lesson pony. Then, once I'd got into uni, I met a friend who was also into riding, and we started going for lessons and shared a few horses.
I graduated 4 years ago now and moved to the mountains of North Wales, where I bought a little house on 5 acres with my almost-husband. Within 3 weeks of moving in, my receptionist convinced me to buy Bella from her daughter. Bella is a 66% Arab X with a smidge of Welsh pony and riding pony. Probably not the best option as a first-time horse owner with no facilities.
Bella had had a difficult start in life; she was part of a huge neglect case locally. By the time the RSPCA found her, she'd been shut in a stable with her mother for 2 years! My receptionist picked her up from a local auction; the knackery man was waiting for her and her companion if they didn't sell. You couldn't touch her, so they spent months getting her back into condition and tamed and finally backed her a few weeks before I bought her. She was not happy moving from her cosy yard to my lonely paddock on the mountain; it took her a good 6 months to stop trying to go home.
I cracked on with riding her, we did some low-level endurance and fun rides. I have no facilities to speak of, and my 'round pen' is a 12'x12' square with a shale surface, so not really of any use at all. As we worked, I started to notice issues developing - catching, mounting, tying, loading, napping, hard mouth/ignoring aids, wouldn't pick up her feet for me, let alone the farrier, and she started biting. I guess I put it all down to her being a stubborn mare and needing me to be stronger and more authoritative as a leader. I knew my riding wasn't amazing, but it wasn't awful either, and we had some good times!
After about 2 years, I got pregnant, and my PGP meant I very quickly couldn't ride. I put Bella in foal on her last cycle of the season, and we both had a year off. I rode occasionally after I'd had my baby, but nothing strenuous as she was starting to get heavy with hers. Eventually, he arrived, 2 weeks early, she foaled out in the paddock by herself! Thankfully, no complications, and he is absolutely gorgeous. I'm totally in love. She was a great mum, and I am determined to do everything right by him, following the guidance from your podcasts and my intuition/experience having done a little work over COVID with my in-laws' youngsters. He is progressing really well and is currently off with my in-laws' herd, learning how to be a horse for a year or so.
So, I got back on Bella. We were both unfit, but the season is starting, and I want to get out and about. We start slow, lots of walk, lots of hills. But she's napping all over the place, throwing her head up, full fire-breathing dragon attitude, typical 'fresh' Arab, I thought. I figured I'd work through it, get her back up to fitness, and we'd be back to where we were. Well, 5 weeks ago, on a long hack after some heavy rain, I stupidly decided to try the canter track. We got halfway up, she wasn't listening to me, ended up galloping way too fast, she slipped, and I came off. We limped home, and I went for an X-ray the next day. Dislocated collarbone. I figured she was probably bruised too, although not lame at all, so we both rested for 3 weeks.
In the meantime, I finally got to episode 66 of your podcast with Ian Leighton, where you clarify a lot of terms. Lightbulb!! I had always thought that a lot of what I'd been taught didn't quite make sense to me, or seemed contradictory to what I thought should happen. Inspired, I started with Bella again. We have a 1km road triangle straight out of our house, so I figured that was a good place to start. Initially, I just played about with some things Ian and yourself had mentioned. Tried not to touch the bit at all, tried to stop with my seat, and if I needed to use the reins, lift, not pull. AND WOW. What a transformation. I used to need loads of leg to move her, shorten the reins all the time, couldn't keep her head down, she'd stamp all over the place at halt... AFTER 2 DAYS, I could leg yield by squeezing a butt cheek, stop her by fixating on a spot on the floor and just thinking 'I'm going to stop on that spot'. A week in, and we have just started getting back into trotting, any leg, and I would get ears back and bucking. Now I can just lift the reins and start posting. I don't mess about with the length of rein; it is the same length all the time. If she wants to hold it, she can; if not, that's ok too. She is resists me occasionally, she will resort to old habits, I think to see if I will too, but I am trying so hard to sit quietly back and lift, not pull. The only other thing I added in was a pre and post-ride stretch and massage to try and relax her a bit.
What has surprised me most is her change in attitude. She will stand tied happily without stamping around. She'll stand for mounting. She doesn't charge off with me. She stops for traffic without piaffing. I can pick up all her feet without her trying to kick me. She comes to the gate when she sees me, and the best little nugget....Yesterday, I went to catch her, and she trotted up to me, which was unusual. I put her headcollar on, and she pretty much pulled out of my hands and galloped back down to the bottom of the field and turned to stare at me. I went down to try and catch her again, and as I got there, she led me over to a sheep who had just freshly lambed, not even dropped her placenta yet, and I hadn't noticed, tucked right down at the bottom of the field. Then she happily let me catch her and carry on as normal.
The transformation and development of trust have been unbelievable, and I feel awful that she has obviously been unhappy with my riding for years.
My key lessons:
- Reins are to say 'hey, can you listen to what my body is asking you, please?' LIFT the reins just to catch their attention, never pull. Looks stupid when you first start as end up with hands by b***s to exaggerate the aid, but occasionally now I only need to lift by an inch, or close my fingers to change the angle of the bit, and that is the eventual goal!
- Washing-line reins are not something to be scared of. They mean the horse isn't taking the contact for some reason. Shortening the reins won't put them on the bit; it means they can't stretch through their back and into the contact and therefore can't work correctly and build those muscles.
- Your pelvis is your accelerator; tilt forwards to go, tilt back to slow down.
- Your belly button is your steering! Point it where you want to go, don't 'use' the reins at all, just keep your shoulders square to your ribcage.
- Before you use your leg, try using your butt cheek!
I'm sure I have many more lessons to learn, but these revelations have changed my riding and relationship with my pony completely. I feel like a magician when I can guide her nicely through spots where she usually naps, or she changes gait just as I think about it! Riding feels more intuitive and actually easier or simpler than it has ever been presented.
So, thank you again, to you and Cat and Ian. I am so excited to see how far we can go with this. I already feel like a Grand Prix rider, and it's only been 2 weeks!
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To listen to episode 66 with Ian Leighton click here:
https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cantertherapy/episodes/66-Good-Horsemanship-with-Ian-Leighton-Part-2-e263k0u