01/11/2025
I did a thing. 😳
Warning - Long rambling self indulgent post 😊
I’ve been setting riding goals for a long time now and slowly making my way through them, with the help of some wonderful coaches. 💕
But this was special. So special that I was wracked by nerves and couldn’t remember a test and got lost, even with a caller!
Yesterday I rode Advanced tests on Blue. 🎉🎉🎉
For context, I chose to ride in jodphurs for many years past the point where ten year olds were riding in breeches at pony club, 😳 because I was stubbornly bent on refusing to buy white breeches until I rode my first Medium test! (That was the previous riding goal 😁)
It’s taken so many years to reach the point where I felt ready to ride an Advanced test in public, that I wasn’t prepared to wait any longer - Blue has turned 20 after all 😝 - but I still felt so unprepared!
But that still doesn’t explain my anxiety and fear these past few days. 🙄
After talking to Sophie Anderson, I realised I was nervous because I was worried I would make a fool of myself, and, perhaps, shame my instructors. 🤷♀️
When I realised it was all about my own ego, I managed to calm down a little bit. 😝
And all the worry was all a waste of energy anyway. We did ok!
😁😅🎉
Blue was amazing; forward, obedient, and so relaxed!
I’m so grateful to have him.
As my strapper, gofer, therapist and all round moral support, (Sophie) pointed out, he is second generation homebred and I’ve trained him myself, (which is why it took me 16yrs to get to this point!) and that is something I should be proud of.
Before néeding to teach them to Blue, I had never ridden a medium trot, canter pirouette, piaffe, and the incredibly fun passage. 💕
So while it’s my fault he consistently has late changes, I can take credit that we nailed the 3 and 4 time changes yesterday 🎉
So, if you have a riding goal in your life, go for it. 🎉
Find someone as amazing as my daughter to help you through the really difficult days, and just go for it!
You’ll be so glad you did! 💕
Thank you Sophie 🤗😘🥰