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Meet DeDay!Dee is a 16hh, 13yo OTTB Gelding. He is here to work on his anxiety (inc separation anxiety) by giving him so...
23/09/2024

Meet DeDay!

Dee is a 16hh, 13yo OTTB Gelding. He is here to work on his anxiety (inc separation anxiety) by giving him some tools to use, and a fresh perspective on what humans are here for. The last few days have been about quiet interactions, allowing him to settle in and introducing myself. I have played around with energy and proximity in the paddock. Asking him to feel things, and let me know his thoughts. Opening up a conversation, asking him for his opinions. Today we came out of the paddock and did some work around the property. We had lots of conversations about lots of things, but I really felt him finally bounce back into his body and sit in a nice place of peace by the end. We just stood, and coexisted. Something that he would not do at the start of the session - lots of fidgeting and head butting. This was him looking for an active connection, as coexistence was not sufficient for his busy little brain. Something really clicked for him today and we had an excellent time just being together, away from the other horses. This in itself, is a huge step forward for his anxiety.

DeDay is owned by Jorgia P.

Amazing golden hour tonight, and to top it off Orion was perfect for our ride. Video coming. 🥰❤️Orion is owned by Gillia...
19/09/2024

Amazing golden hour tonight, and to top it off Orion was perfect for our ride. Video coming. 🥰❤️

Orion is owned by Gillian H.

‼️ VACANCY AVAILABLE ‼️A training spot has opened up! Here at HH, we believe in modern, ethical, science-backed methods ...
15/09/2024

‼️ VACANCY AVAILABLE ‼️

A training spot has opened up! Here at HH, we believe in modern, ethical, science-backed methods that prioritise mutual respect and open communication. We offer this in the form of groundwork/ridden training, starting under saddle, float training, problem solving, etc. We care deeply about our clients and wish to support both the horse and human in their amazing, unique journeys together. This includes post-training support where you can message or call us for any troubleshooting, new ideas or simply for someone to talk to. Every horse and human have their own special story, and we would be honoured to be a part of it. If this is something you feel you or your horse could benefit from, please feel free to send us a message to arrange your booking. We are located in the Perth Hills.

13/09/2024

Establishing a rapport.

This is from Orion’s first few days here, where we were working on establishing a rapport and finding out each other’s communication styles. With any horse that comes to HH, the first week is all about fostering a curiosity towards a connection and feel with the handler. I want Orion to know people are here to help him if he ever gets nervous or uncomfortable, and as a new person, I want to give him a great impression. If there is anything he’d like to tell me, I will take his words on board and respond accordingly. Not punishing a horse for sharing his thoughts, allows a horse to feel safe expressing his concerns. This means you’re already doing damage control if something happens, and the horse can look to support from the human instead of worrying that the human will make the situation worse. This is where you get horses that “dump and run”. Ditch the extra weight, it was only going to make things worse anyway, right?

Not at HH. I truly believe that we should serve our horses, not the other way around. And there is difference between saying you are willing to serve your horse, and actually doing it. Where we consciously take up the responsibility of an animal’s life, we take up the responsibility of their mental state. Escalating pressure where a horse provides the incorrect response is largely ineffective, so instead I allow the horse to make mistakes, feel those feelings, and come back to me when they are ready. To me, there are no incorrect answers. Only efforts. It’s important to recognise and thank the horse for the try. When they do find the desired response, this is what it can look like. A total state of peace, deep connection, and effortless coexistence. This is what being around horses really means to me, something I lost a few years ago to the competitive world, but now I have it back, I hope to share this information and inspire others. There is so much your horse can offer you, but you need to offer them more of yourself. More vulnerability. More accountability. More transparency. Don’t feel guilty about it; feel a desire to grow. Actively prioritise your self-growth, and your results + your horse will reflect that.

Meet Tora Orion!Orion is a 15.3 ½hh, 3yo Arabian Warmblood Gelding here to be started under saddle. Very excited to work...
03/09/2024

Meet Tora Orion!

Orion is a 15.3 ½hh, 3yo Arabian Warmblood Gelding here to be started under saddle. Very excited to work with a horse of his breeding (boasting Tora Sardeeka; Chip Chase Sadaqa). So far he seems to be very laid back and sensible. A sensitive, kind young fellow. Looking forward to working with him!

Orion is owned by Gillian H.

Empathy is the most powerful tool of all. It is more powerful than metal, and it is far more powerful than what one may ...
24/06/2024

Empathy is the most powerful tool of all. It is more powerful than metal, and it is far more powerful than what one may think they know.

HH Verdical Flight (Peggy) and I having some quiet conversations today.

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Kaz's Flags & Tail Bags

18/06/2024

10 minutes difference.

Context is important with this one. Peggy is a 13yo OTTB mare, who has already had quite a ridden career, having trained to medium dressage and ~90cm jumping. She brought home a plethora of rugs, ribbons and rosettes, so she is certainly educated and decorated.

Peggy also deals with anxiety. She may have been performing well on paper, but she was quite “hot” and “trigger happy” most of the time. Which isn’t really a personality trait of her, but a result of anxiety. Anxiety can come in many forms, which can often be labelled as quirks (-where it can then be perceived in a negative light). Head tossing, rushing jumps, pawing, and so on. These are not “naughty” behaviours, and they’re certainly not a personality trait. They are the result of what the horse is dealing with externally and internally - and you have a great deal of influence on the severity of that.

I speak about this very regularly with my clients; trigger stacking can start as far as the night before. Sometimes there are actually some pretty good reasons for why your horse may be having a “bad day”. They may have been experiencing trigger stacking. Humans experience this too.

A bird flies out in front of the horse’s face and spooks them.

You nearly hit an animal while driving and it leaves you feeling unsettled.

A horse steps on a rock and develops a bit of stone bruise.

You roll your ankle badly, and now it’s aching.

A horse gets handled a bit firmer than usual due to their unsettled behaviour and they won’t stand still.

You get yelled at your boss at work, leaving you feeling unheard and distressed.

After all that, imagine if your boss asked you to complete another difficult task that required mental and physical effort, while you are feeling mentally and physically down in the dumps that day. You can imagine how this is exacerbated by a language barrier between human and horse.

So how did we stop Peggy going into such a state of alarm when going into the canter?

Acknowledging her stresses, thanking her for her effort and clear communication, and allowing her time to breathe and recoup.

Imagine if, after you had a scare and then got hurt, when you went to work, your boss asked you how you felt, offered you support, and let you have a quieter day than usual? Instead of demanding you “respect” them more when you try to communicate with them. Instead of commanding you to “stop avoiding work” when you falter.

You definitely wouldn’t look forward to going to work the next day.

If you were to be that unforgiving boss to a horse, you can imagine how they won’t look forward to seeing you.

This turns into anxiety around work, anticipation, conflict, and at the very least inconveniences like catching issues. It is actually in the handler’s best interests to prioritise their horse’s enjoyment during work anyway.

Time to treat our horses better than some of our bosses treat us!

Meet some of my external clients!Peggy - 16.2hh, 11yo OTTB GeldingWorking on getting him to think for himself a bit and ...
24/04/2024

Meet some of my external clients!

Peggy - 16.2hh, 11yo OTTB Gelding
Working on getting him to think for himself a bit and open up more, and also dealing with a bit of anticipation. So we try to keep him on his toes while giving him the flexibility to contribute to decision making in regards to what we get up to. Overall just working on making him a bit more mentally flexible!

Reeva - 14.1hh, 5yo ASH X Paint Mare
This little lady is working on finding the forward, as well as general straightness as she is still quite green. Making sure we keep things as light as possible for her as she is a bit dull to the aids, so we do a lot of asking for small efforts and really thanking her for those.

Mumma/Toffee - 12.2hh, 6yo Welsh X Andalusian Mare
We are doing general groundwork with her, getting her confident and calm with my questions and asking her to contribute with suggestions, plus making sure she feels heard. May end up slowly starting her over time, we shall see where her training goes.

Thoroughly enjoying these 3! All totally different horses, but so fun to work with and great personalities.

Peggy, Reeva and Toffee are owned by Danielle S.

31/03/2024

Easifa’s first experience with the saddle on. 🤩 She was fantastic! She was so present and willing to try new things this session. She has been a little apprehensive about things going over her back and hanging from both sides, but I feel like she had a huge lightbulb moment and suddenly she found the confidence in herself to overcome anything! I introduced a few new things to her this day and she took to them so kindly. Very happy with her!

Easifa is owned by Yallaroo Endurance Arabians.

Easifa looking beautiful the other night. She had the saddle on for the first time today, as well as her first experienc...
29/03/2024

Easifa looking beautiful the other night. She had the saddle on for the first time today, as well as her first experiences with a hose! Could not have gone better. The hose was scary at first, but we followed our formula, and sure enough

Meet Yallaroo Easifa! Easifa is a 15.2hh rising 5yo arabian mare. She is here to be started under saddle. So far she has...
16/03/2024

Meet Yallaroo Easifa! Easifa is a 15.2hh rising 5yo arabian mare. She is here to be started under saddle. So far she has been proven to be very mature and sensible, with a great personality! 🥰

Easifa is owned by Yallaroo Endurance Arabians.

Happy new year everyone! ☀️This year, we will be operating from our 50 acre property in Gidgegannup which is very exciti...
02/01/2024

Happy new year everyone! ☀️

This year, we will be operating from our 50 acre property in Gidgegannup which is very exciting. This allows for so many more exciting opportunities as well as the Perth clientele. We are still in the process of building more paddocks, a round yard and an arena, but will hopefully be taking clients very soon.

If anyone is interested in float training, groundwork, starting, general education, working on manners, developing your relationship with your horse, or bringing your horse back into work etc please don’t hesitate to send a message and I can let you know when we are available. If you are local to the Gidgegannup area, I can also travel to you.

Fingers crossed for a great 2024.

Pictured is the lovely friesian warmblood mare, Calliope, owned by Jayne T.

3 ½ months difference.•Quinta came to me having been clearly neglected by the spell agistment she came from. The owner w...
21/11/2023

3 ½ months difference.
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Quinta came to me having been clearly neglected by the spell agistment she came from. The owner was, not once, informed of her true condition. Once we realised what state she was in, her half-sibling (owned by the same person) was very briefly picked up as well, who was also in the same condition. 😞 He was with me for 4 weeks to help get some condition on before moving him to a safe place of agistment.

Quinta was also left with an ill fitting rug on by the agistment (who clearly did not check the fit or that it wasn’t rubbing), which you can see rubbed her shoulder terribly. She was infested with worms, had sand in her gut, ulcers, was ~200kg underweight, was very stiff and sore and consequently her feet need fixing up, too. 💔

I have not used omeprazole on her, or any typical commercial supplements.

She has been “treated” with hay, small homemade feeds (no premixed, commercial feed brands), herbs (these I owe most of the transformation to), bodywork, love, patience and time. You don’t need to give them 3 massive feeds a day, omeprazole paste/injections, bute etc to deal with the problems that result in an unhappy, uncomfortable horse. If you can be patient, you can treat in a more holistic manner and avoid the side effects associated with those things.

In the last 18 months I’ve really switched gears and converted to treating things in a more natural way, and I can’t see myself looking back. I find the results are achieved in a much gentler way, and subsequently they’re significantly more effective in the first place.

Of course each to their own, but if you’re here then perhaps you are interested in my 2 cents. 😉
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⚜️ HH Veridical Flight ⚜️•Introducing HH Veridical Flight, fondly known as “Peggy” who raced under Bridge Pegasus. Peggy...
05/11/2023

⚜️ HH Veridical Flight ⚜️
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Introducing HH Veridical Flight, fondly known as “Peggy” who raced under Bridge Pegasus. Peggy is a 15.1 ½hh 13yo ottb mare, who has previously schooled up to medium dressage and 80-90cm showjumping, being relatively competitive in the showjumping arena in particular. She is a project horse and will be sold in due time.
For now, I am allowing her to settle in to the new property and, as a routine habit of my project horses, treating for ulcers and boosting her gut health. I will do groundwork with her before getting back on, to build some topline and ensure she can be as happy + confident as possible when she comes back into work after 2 ½ years off.
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“Tiny has been so relaxed since she’s come home. She’s let’s me scratch and pat her all over which is awesome! I gave he...
11/10/2023

“Tiny has been so relaxed since she’s come home. She’s let’s me scratch and pat her all over which is awesome! I gave her a bath today with positive reinforcement and she did amazing! The other agistees and agistment owner have all commented how relaxed she is.”

Thank you to Tiny’s mum for the review. I love hearing how the horses are going once they’re back home. 🥰

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11/10/2023

I thought this was worth posting. This is Quinta! She is a nearly-4yo WB x TB filly. She has been here for a few months gaining condition and recovering from being neglected on spell... The owner was not informed of her true condition by the agistment who unfortunately never actually checked on her, or under her rug while she was there. Needless to say we were both disappointed and shocked when she came off the truck. She’s finally coming around a few months later and is feeling so much better. We have just started some light groundwork and she is really fun to work with! When she first came here she wanted absolutely nothing to do with me, so I’ve been eating my lunch with her, sitting in her paddock, giving her carrots and just simply spending undemanding time with her. We have fixed the huge worm burden, the sand in her gut, the ulcers, the rug rubs have grown out, her weight is coming along, and now her mind is more at ease too. She is a very sensitive little thing and very strong-minded, but she has really opened up and started displaying some curiosity towards me. Can’t wait to see how she turns out. She will be coming back to Gidgegannup with us and being started once she is settled in there.
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Quinta is owned by Emmaleigh E.
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30/09/2023

Tiny left 3 days ago, but I thought I should post this. What a big difference from the start of this session to the end! Tiny is definitely a pony that warms up as the session goes along but this day she really showed a little more trust in my intentions. I would let her walk forward when she got worried so she didn’t feel boxed in, and this greatly improved her confidence. At the end, I could swing the blanket up and onto her while she stood really well. So proud of this little filly. She was nothing short of a delight to have!
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Tiny is owned by Hayley W.
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24/09/2023

Tiny Update!

We’ve been working on her confidence and letting her know I respect her boundaries, and it’s okay for her to not feel okay. Initially, she was quite concerned about me patting her back and bum, and would usually scoot out from underneath my hand, flinch or try to turn away from me. I always kept a fairly loose contact on her but I was very careful in where I positioned myself, to allow her to have her reactions and be able to remove herself from the situation if she felt the need to. I don’t like the idea of holding them still while doing desensitisation as it can make them shut down and can create a sense of learned helplessness. This is where you get horses that freeze then explode.

If I felt she was moving away slightly but not abruptly I’d guide her with the rope into a little more of an inside bend to encourage her to look for a place of peace and softness while she was worried. Occasionally I will manage her slightly and ask for a little more “still”, just so she knows she can do it. But, I never put her in a box where she has nowhere to go. You can see she had a little moment where she hu**ed up at the sensation, and I hardly reacted, because “That’s okay, you’re allowed to feel that way”. I simply asked her to take a few steps back and then moved her into the other side while being as non-confrontational as possible, then allowed her to stop and stand to think about it. Since that, she became a lot more confident with me patting her back and bum. Now it has actually become a support for her, as she is familiar and comfortable with the exercise!

This came in handy when I started training with the blanket, as she was quite scared at first. She was trying to run away from it a bit, so we did R+ and every time she interacted with it, there was a reward. To begin with I couldn’t stand at her side with it, or lift it up without upsetting her, but by the end of the session she took the blanket over well! If she was worried, she would walk a few steps and I’d either place my hands on her back/bum (which she actually found relaxing and it helped to ground her!) or I’d pull her around gently into a stop and reward when she was still for a moment. In the video you can see a good reaction to throwing the blanket over the first time, and the second time she shies away from it when I shift it whilst it’s on her back, but she came back down to a halt off my energy alone. I exhaled, telling her she’s a good girl, and placed my hands on her back and bum to let her know I was there, and she came around soft and stopped quietly. This was a really lovely moment, and I prefer this to the first blanket. It shows she is thinking, and even though we haven’t rewired that initial flinch reaction out of her yet, she doesn’t keep running from the rug. Her body reacts to the stimuli but her mind is very present. I think a lot of people forget to give the babies credit! They are super smart if you let them show you how clever they are. Tiny in particular is a highly intelligent individual and while she is quite sensitive, she’s very curious and thrives off mutual respect and positive reinforcement. She’s a good little sponge.
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Tiny is owned by Hayley W.
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