01/07/2023
This is a story to honour and celebrate the life of Charlie Brumby. Please enjoy his story.
Charlie's Story
Charlie's Mum (Dorothy-Daisy - "Dottie") brought him into my life around the time of the Brisbane floods in 2001. She just appeared one day at my fence, clearly having had kittens somewhere. Dottie was emaciated, anxious, cautious and in desperate need for acceptance, care, affection and food. Dottie came and went every day for the next couple of weeks, routinely arriving late in the afternoon for her daily food which I willingly provided and she frantically consumed. It wasn't until a few weeks later that I began to realise that Dottie seemed to be assessing my suitability to be her human mum and a carer for her son which I was yet to meet! I was worried that Dottie would come to grief on the roads, however, I could not contain her due to her having kittens somewhere, probably in the industrial site not far from my home.
Then in early April 2011, right on midnight, I heard Dottie meowing outside of my bedroom window. I went out to greet her. I opened the laundry door and to my amazement in bounced a tiny, noisy ginger kitten, eyes wide open, friendly not "feral", active and clearly very hungry. He fitted into the palm of my hand. He seemed to be about 5-6 weeks old. I instantly fell in love with him! Dottie seemed quite happy to allow this little boy to be nursed by myself. I proceeded to prepare food for Dottie and also made up a special concoction of "kitten-friendly" milk and food. He ate and drank, ate and drank! Dottie ate and drank, ate and drank! After about 30 minutes, Dottie proceeded to carry him in her mouth to the fence, probably trying to take him back to where she had given birth. I was worried that both would come to grief, so I kept him safely with me that night. I did not sleep, just cuddled and comforted him as he was cold. He slept peacefully in a blanket in my arms for the entire night. I could not contain Dottie as she probably had other kittens somewhere and containing her would lead to their demise. She was free to go and she did, leaving her son in my "temporary" care.
For the next two to three weeks, Dottie continued to come and go after eating and staying for several hours feeding, sleeping and playing with Charlie. She found feeding him difficult , having a low milk supply. I, as Charlie's "other mum", stepped in and helped her to care for him with her permission. Then, after her coming and going for those additional few weeks, Dottie finally stayed at my home, not ever leaving again. Dottie and Charlie had found their "forever home". If Dottie did have other kittens, she did not ever bring them to be with Charlie. I presume they either did not exist in the first place, or were negatively impacted by the floods or had succumbed to poor health. I will never know.
Charlie and Dottie seemed willing to give me a chance to be their human mum and that was certainly fine with me. For the next 11 plus years, both have been the love of my life and fitted harmoniously into my household which has always had multiple loving pets, all mostly living well living for well lover 15 years.
Without my beloved pets over the decades, my bank account would certainly be healthier, my house would certainly be cleaner and tidier, however, my heart would certainly be empty. An empty heart is never an option!
Charlie in particular, has been the love of my life for over 11 years...emotionally-giving, non-judgmental, happy, content, healthy, loving, carefree, compliant, gorgeous disposition, with a voracious appetite for Australian tiger prawns (Jumbo-sized) and desiring only the best of other food and bedding arrangements! No second-grade food or bedding for this boy or his mum! In fact, Charlie and his mum have routinely had several jumbo-sized tiger prawns every single morning for their first breakfast course for over 11 years.
Charlie developed early-stage kidney disease around age 9-10 years, in the absence of any other health issues. Over time, despite intensive veterinary care, his health gradually declined. Renal failure is such a torturous, heart-breaking health condition for cats. Why Charlie developed kidney problems at a younger age, I will never know...probably, he was genetically disposed. Many of my dearly departed cats over the past 40 years also developed kidney disease, however, all at a much older age than dear Charlie.
Charlie fought hard with dignity, stamina and without complaint. I found the fight equally difficult and painful to endure, however, on 29th August 2022, I said goodbye to my beloved Charlie. My love for and memories of darling Charlie will stay in my heart forever. I thank Charlie for being in my life for over 11 years. Dottie clearly is missing Charlie, however, I hope with support and comfort she can grieve and adjust to now being a solo cat. Together we will grieve and continue on with life. That is certainly what Charlie would want!
Charlie is now resting at Pets Eternal Greenbank and Burleigh ("The Pet Cemetery"), Greenbank, Queensland, in the company of my other departed pets (24 cats and 2 dogs).
My relationship with Pets Eternal goes back serval decades. All staff over the years have been wonderful towards me and all of my "babies" - caring, compassionate, accommodating, thoughtful, emotionally-validating. For that, I will always be thankful, as will Charlie and those before him.
With love from Charlie's "Mum".
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