15/04/2024
Sitting with a morning coffee, thinking how horses love a consistent program, but sometimes we need to cater for that horses needs, his mind set and his body.
I recently added a new horse to our team, a big OTT gelding. I'm busting to start him on the program straight away,
I was humbled pretty quick and decided it's best he had a little let down time, learnt to settle in and be a horse, away from all he has known with his busy race life.
Twice I pulled the saddle out ( be the third wk here this wk) and twice he showed me he wasn't really coping with the different type of busy here, with young horses being started under saddle, sometimes there is a lot going on.
Instead, we started playing with some ground work, learning to regulate himself in stressful situations, and that it's better to ask questions then get above himself.
By doing this, taking away the fact I REAALLLYYY wanted to get started in the saddle, I have a lot happier horse, ( yes, it's going to take time and being consistent) then if I had just got on him, and found these few things in the saddle.
Sometimes backwards is actually forwards, and it was a nice reminder that it's not about me, and what I want all the time. It's about meeting the horses needs, giving him tools that will make the ridden work easier for both of us.
It's going to be longer then I had planned ( my first lesson with this stunner) but I feel a shift in him when he comes in every few days, and a big personality is starting to come out ( most horses here kick the ball round in the saddle- this guy uses his nose instead🤣)
His attitude is changing, he is the first to meet me at the gate in the morning, with a bit of love in his eyes, dropping his head, relaxing as I rub his eyes and face.
I'm glad I bit the bullet, admitted to myself he just wasn't ready for what I wanted just yet and to be fair to him( only raced 3 wks ago)
Because I will have a better, more level head to work with as we now poke along.
The program will stay the same, but the time frame has gone now. It's lovely to look out the window, seeing him eating in the paddock( waiting for his feed as well) and laying down in the grass, relaxed .
Yesterday I caught him- no agenda except saddle up and mess round in the yard with another quiet OTT gelding. He was great!, positive attitude, asking questions and generally taking it all in, not worrying bout the other horse cantering round the yard, but looking for me and what I was asking.
Quick ride, showing him in the walk how to travel, and carry himself, how to move off the leg. Bit of trot and canter, not many conditions put on this bar try, and hosed( that 10 min walk got him hot the most from using his head)and tied to the round yard to dry. Even this was better, standing, only his head moving round.
Time will tell how we will progress, but for now, we poke along, till he says he is ready. Yes, we will still have disagreements in the saddle, but they won't be as strong as if I'd just climbed on, jammed him up and said do it like this.