05/10/2025
Glimmers are out there. Having a reactive dog is tough. It can be emotionally draining, isolating, and often overwhelming. But intentionally adding “glimmers” 🌈 to your dog’s day can make a big difference - not just for them, but for you, too.
Glimmers are those small moments of connection, safety, or calm that help balance out the more difficult ones. They remind both you and your dog that not everything is a threat - that there is joy, safety, and trust to be found in your shared world.
Here are some ways to intentionally add glimmers to a reactive dog’s day:
👃 Sniff stroll: Feed out their leash and let them lead, if they stop, you stop and continue to look at them. Let them explore without the pressure of being moved on prematurely. It’s not about distance - it’s about decompression.
There’s no pressure to “walk properly” or cover ground. Just the joy of following scent trails, gathering info, and being a dog. It’s decompressing and confidence-building.
🥓Food puzzles or scent games: Give them a choice-driven way to stay engaged, calm, and confident. Let their brain work at their pace. It makes a difference. 💛
🛏️ “Yes space” time: A comfy place where nothing is expected of them - no commands, no interactions they didn’t choose.
🤗 Consent-based affection: Invite them into contact, don’t force it. A gentle chest scratch when they lean in? That’s a glimmer.
▶️ Play with rules they understand: Tug, flirt pole, or chase with clear starts and stops can be empowering.
✏️ No-pressure training: Teaching a weird, silly or funky behaviour - just because. This training is not about the behaviour learnt, it’s about the process. It’s just for fun and not for control. It is done in a calm environment using purely positive reinforcement.
❤️ For You, Too:
Remember, you deserve glimmers too.