30/08/2025
🤕 Where we started ➡️ ➡️ and where we got to 💪
Meet Ralph - a 38kg two-nager with big voiced opinions about dogs and... birds. 🦅
No punishment.
No intimidation.
Just good old-fashioned positive reinforcement. 😱
Things to take note of:
🔸 Ralph’s mum is in the room with him, always, both visually and emotionally.
🔸 She’s positioned so Ralph never has to take his eyes off the birds (would you take your eyes off a spider? 🕷️)
🔸 Ralph is working on a long line. His choices remain his.
🔸 Ralph is the puppeteer; his mum, the puppet - her actions, all that you see here, are very intentional (when to put her hand in the pouch, when to stay still vs step away, where to aim the treat when she throws it, her breathing, how she is holding her body, when to verbally communicate), and follow his choices.
🔸 She works to his speed, whilst maintaining her own speed within the pattern.
🔸In the face of environmental unpredictability, she helps Ralph by creating some parameters by using predictability with a pattern game. This predictability builds stability and as a result confidence.
🔸 We’re not here to suppress Ralph’s needs - his need to chase is real and valid. But chasing birds (especially magpies - they will haunt you for eternity 👻) isn’t appropriate.
So, off the cue of the birds and within the boundaries of a pattern game, she gives Ralph another opportunity to express that need in a positive, appropriate way.
🔸 Ralph’s mum is a rockstar. 🤘
Behaviour change doesn’t require force. Just clarity, compassion, and good communication 💛💡