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Mia is a Trust Technique Practitioner for all animals, a Holistic Dog Coach, an Animal Hospice Care Educator & Mentor as well as an author.

4 weeks ago Lenny seemed at death's doorstep. ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒˆ The day after, he started a homeopathy cancer protocol. His body respon...
10/02/2025

4 weeks ago Lenny seemed at death's doorstep. ๐Ÿพ๐ŸŒˆ The day after, he started a homeopathy cancer protocol. His body responded in a favourable whisper - meaning some miniscule positive changes. A week later, I added redox molecules to his regime (which also includes Artaban h**p oil products, essential oil massages and tuning fork sound therapy).

I am still unsure if he is going into remission or if all of the above 'just" manages his symptoms. It doesn't really matter. Only time will tell.

Although he still is very flat energy-wise, he is more with it all again. ๐Ÿ’™ He seems content and at peace. Today for the first time in probably 7 weeks he came along for a (very short) walk again just down the road. ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿถ

Doyly and Mr B got to spend some time together today. ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŒณ๐ŸŽ So now there is a foundation for them to share space permanent...
04/02/2025

Doyly and Mr B got to spend some time together today. ๐ŸŽ๐ŸŒณ๐ŸŽ So now there is a foundation for them to share space permanently. โค

Their carer's heart is full and happy. Little steps over a few months lead up to this moment. โœจ

It was beautiful to witness Doyly to lower his head into the halter this morning when he used to run off just seeing it. ๐Ÿ™

February is   Month. The term responsible dog ownership is usually discussed in regards to effective off-lead control ov...
01/02/2025

February is Month.

The term responsible dog ownership is usually discussed in regards to effective off-lead control over dogs in public but to me it covers all well-fare issues, including a dogโ€™s weight. The number of overweight and obese dogs is rising. Just like with humans, this brings with it serious health problems, especially longterm heaviness: Joint injuries, diabetes, breathing difficulties, cancer, arthritis, high blood pressure, heart failure, the list goes on. Being overweight has an impact on quality of life as well as lifespan.

Are you happy with your pet's weight? Is it easy to keep it in the healthy range?

Here's a blog article I wrote on the topic you might find useful. ๐Ÿพ

https://unhurried.com.au/canine-well-being-whats-the-right-weight-for-my-dog-2/

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Building, changing, deepening a relationship takes time and steadfastness. It takes willingness to look at oneself, not ...
29/01/2025

Building, changing, deepening a relationship takes time and steadfastness. It takes willingness to look at oneself, not only the other.

You might remember from earlier posts that Thoroughbred Doyly's human of over a decade has not been able to look after him in a while and a family member stepped in. The new carer was utterly daunted by it all and reached out to me for help. Much has happened since. Patience, constany and inner work has transformed taking care of Doyly from an overwhelming chore to a source of peace, a haven of tranquility. ๐Ÿ’–

Just before things fell apart, Doyly's human adopted another ex-racehorse, Mr B. Mr B has been agisted and cared for elsewhere up until now but that came to a sudden end recently and he's now on the same property as Doyly.

Now we are working on the "new" carer's confidence around Mr B and hopefully soon the two horses will be paddock mates. ๐ŸŽ ๐ŸŽ

It brings me such deep joy to guide and support this journey. โค

I am finding myself in the shoes of my animal hospice care clients: my dog Lenny is approaching the end of his life. In ...
15/01/2025

I am finding myself in the shoes of my animal hospice care clients: my dog Lenny is approaching the end of his life.

In the past month he has been declining rapidly. It has become clear that the partial laryngeal paralysis he was diagnosed recently with is not a stand-alone condition but an effect of cancer in the area.

Because he still eats his meals and likes to splash into the dam - albeit in a geriatric version of his former self - he's on a homeopathic cancer protocol rather than solely palliative care. And now we'll wait and see. It's great to see one symptom diminished for now. And his moments of struggle soothed effectively.

He's always been a tough nut. Can he harness his great perseverance (aka pigheadedness) to go on living a little longer? We are taking it one moment at a time. โค

I forgot how taxing this time can be! I am grateful for all I know but that doesn't eliminate the intense nature of dying. It does, however, help me to more effectively navigate it. ๐Ÿ™

Please, do not leave any pitying comments - Lenny is highly allergic to pity. He does, however, appreciate cheering, kindness and warmth. ๐Ÿถ

This is Kaiba. He's a rescue who has come a looooong way, however, he is reactive towards other dogs. His life is going ...
08/01/2025

This is Kaiba. He's a rescue who has come a looooong way, however, he is reactive towards other dogs. His life is going to change as his human is getting married and the new human has a dog companion too. Luckily, there is no rush and their setup allows safe, separate areas for both dogs to live happy lives. ๐Ÿ™

I've helped Kaiba's human with their horse, Rocky. You might have seen my posts. We've also started a little while ago to help Kaiba with his many anxieties.

Here's an update I received this morning from Kaiba's human:

"Hi Mia,
Just a little update on Kaiba. I feel he is making such good progress.
I am currently dosing the h**p oil at 5 drops 2x day.
I think he is less stiff and gets up better.
I have also seen such improvement in his behaviour. When we see dogs on our walks at a distance he doesn't react at all (where he would previously have started to look at it and focus on it and grown bigger in size and started to get defensive). Of course, there are still instances where he barks at them when they are too close for his liking, but so so much better.
The crate training has come along even more. I get the impression that he really understands it as his safe and calm place now. I put him in there a few times when he was barking at something outside. Not as a punishment but to help him settle. It worked. I even have seen him opting to go in it when he felt stressed. Winning."

How good is that? ๐Ÿฅฐ

Next week, Kaiba will meet his new fur brother for the first time. Their humans have a plan and know how to proceed no matter how the dogs will behave during their first meeting. - Which will be being in the same room, each in their crate, and their humans supporting them to let go fear and anxiety, and perhaps even already find some peace in each other's presence.

Instead of "good luck", I wish them patience and persistence. โค

Time flies! Happy Pawsday, Marvel! ๐ŸŽ‚ 7 years old today. Here she is snoozing in the sun this morning. ๐Ÿถ She has a very s...
02/01/2025

Time flies! Happy Pawsday, Marvel! ๐ŸŽ‚ 7 years old today. Here she is snoozing in the sun this morning. ๐Ÿถ

She has a very strong but also a very soft side. She can be fierce and direct, and also cuddly and snuggly. She makes me smile often, and sometimes she exasperates me. She loves food, dislikes getting wet - unless she feels hot. She has a knack for befriending the grumpy. She is persistent - but gentle - when she wants something. I love her to the moon and back. โค

Goodbye, 2024! ๐Ÿ‘‹Looking back - this year was a slow one. ๐ŸŒ I know I am great at what I am doing but not so great at prom...
31/12/2024

Goodbye, 2024! ๐Ÿ‘‹

Looking back - this year was a slow one. ๐ŸŒ

I know I am great at what I am doing but not so great at promoting my business. Yet all I found was marketing that drains the soul with its insincere and pushy strategies. ๐Ÿ˜’๐Ÿ™„

The heart of my business (how I guide people) is about leaving behind coercion and pressure. So why would I want to use these methods to reach people who need and want what I have to offer?

Imagine my joy when I recently found an approach to marketing that is effective (it works), ethical (it feels genuinely good to all involved) and beautiful (it touches the soul and feeds life). ๐Ÿ™๐ŸŽ‰๐Ÿ’›

So, in 2025 I will learn and apply this way that so resonates with me personally and professionally! Where? โžก Marketing for Hippies

Picture of Marvel, her bestie Pali and I this morning at the beach. ๐ŸŒž๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ‘ฃ๐ŸŒŠ

Happy 10. birthday, Russell!!! ๐ŸŽ‚It was so much fun to host your Pawsday Party. ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’™ Marvel, Lenny, Henry and Pali loved sh...
28/12/2024

Happy 10. birthday, Russell!!! ๐ŸŽ‚

It was so much fun to host your Pawsday Party. ๐Ÿพ๐Ÿ’™ Marvel, Lenny, Henry and Pali loved sharing your special day with you. ๐Ÿถ I think it's the best doggy birthday cake I have ever created. ๐Ÿค—

I love your quirky nature, you've got a special space in my heart. You neither look nor act your age. I hope we'll be celebrating many more of your pawsdays. โญ

Following is some Earthworm wisdom. Read it with openness. Where does it land in you?Earthworm's Transmission on HUmilit...
25/12/2024

Following is some Earthworm wisdom. Read it with openness. Where does it land in you?

Earthworm's Transmission on HUmility:

Sentience takes care of itself.
You are not needed.
You are not needed.
You are not needed,
in the way you think you are.

Breathe this in.

Do you feel a dance of resistance to this Truth -
the HUmbling, freeing Truth
that you are not needed,
that Sentience takes care of All perfectly, brilliantly
with Supreme Intelligence...

Now
rest your weary head
on this soft compost pillow
of Truth.

- with Limitless Love,
Earthworm,
Sabina and Herd of Light

(Original post as a link in comments below.)

When reading Earthworm's message was there a, โ€œYes, but โ€ฆโ€?

Yes, but that doesnโ€™t apply to the animals we care for? They depend on us for certain things, for sure. But what about the rest? When does doing / helping become interfering? Overcaring?

โ€œOvercare is when our initial feelings of care about something or someone turn into obsessive worry, anxiety, or projecting the worstโ€”this usually escalates into emotional depletion and the obvious stress load that follows. Our care is one of our highest assets, but when our care turns into overcare, it drains our energy and our health bears the consequences. Managing our care nurtures us and others, while overcare hinders our effectiveness with energy-draining mind loops even when our intentions are well-meaning.โ€

This last paragraph is from a HeartMath article, its link in a comment below.

Where can we let go? Can we rest our weary head on this soft compost pillow of truth?

โญ Be merry & bright! โญ
25/12/2024

โญ Be merry & bright! โญ

Marvel & I got some Vitamin Sea today! ๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ˜€
24/12/2024

Marvel & I got some Vitamin Sea today! ๐ŸŒž๐Ÿ˜€

On those days when you miss someone the most, as though your memories are sharp enough to slice through skin and bone, r...
20/12/2024

On those days when you miss someone the most, as though your memories are sharp enough to slice through skin and bone, remember how they loved you.

Remember how they loved you and do that, for yourself.

In their name, in their honour.

Love yourself, as they loved you.

They would like that.

On those days when you miss someone the most,

love yourself harder.
โค๏ธ

~Donna Ashworth

It's going to be the 5th Christmas without Louie. ๐Ÿถ Whom are you missing this Christmas?

Among the staff of his agistment Doyly is known as a horse that's difficult to put the halter on. Of course, they alread...
19/12/2024

Among the staff of his agistment Doyly is known as a horse that's difficult to put the halter on. Of course, they already bring that expectation to every interaction with him. And, of course, they work with/under pressure.

We have shown Doyly another way: relaxation. When the nervous system can switch from sympathetic (fight/flight) to parasympathetic (connection, safety, trust) communication and cooperation are easy! โœจ

Yes, but this takes too long, you might think. Well, yes, the first time - a few months ago - it took about 30 minutes until Doyly relaxed and was good with having the halter put on. Today it all happened in less than 3 minutes. ๐ŸŽ The beauty is that everyone feels at ease.

The staff do their thing and continue to struggle with him. I feel glad that Doyly's person can have a different experience with him. Which allows her to think of him differently ... not as naughty, stubborn, bad-mannered. As sensitive, deserving of consideration and kindness. When we know better, we can do better. ๐Ÿ’–

Today we earmarked for shaft cleaning. Yes, some horse wi***es need to be cleaned from time to time. Doyly's person felt a bit anxious, having never done that before. Once again we worked with relaxation instead of pressure and the job got done with ease.

Then Doyly got hosed down which he loves on hot days like today. It's a special treat for him to drink the water straight from the hose. ๐Ÿ˜Š

You can see it in all our faces how enjoyable a time together we had. โค

Hello from Rocky who lives in Western Australia. ๐ŸŽ I work with him and his human via Zoom. Technology is amazing that wa...
18/12/2024

Hello from Rocky who lives in Western Australia. ๐ŸŽ I work with him and his human via Zoom. Technology is amazing that way. You can find help and support you resonate with regardless of geographical distance. ๐Ÿค—โœจ

The big reveal of Mr Elf's creation. I give youโ„ FROZEN SANTA PAWS โ›„for all doggies (and their humans!) who live in the ...
14/12/2024

The big reveal of Mr Elf's creation. I give you

โ„ FROZEN SANTA PAWS โ›„

for all doggies (and their humans!) who live in the Southern hemisphere and therefore have Christmas in summer. ๐Ÿ˜Š

Henry, Marvel and Lenny found them gobblety-yum-scrumptastic. - Their words not mine. ๐Ÿ˜€

Mr Elf's workshop in our kitchen. ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿง๐Ÿช๐Ÿฆโœจ  What is he up to??? Can you guess? ๐Ÿค”Henry really wants to know! ๐Ÿพ
13/12/2024

Mr Elf's workshop in our kitchen. ๐ŸŽ„๐Ÿง๐Ÿช๐Ÿฆโœจ

What is he up to???

Can you guess? ๐Ÿค”

Henry really wants to know! ๐Ÿพ

โ€œWords can't describe our gratitude to you, Mia. That phone call with you was the difference between allowing Bella to r...
10/12/2024

โ€œWords can't describe our gratitude to you, Mia. That phone call with you was the difference between allowing Bella to recuperate and rushing her back to emergency. You are a rockstar! Seriously, the strength you gave us yesterday made us comfortable to trust Bella to guide us and tell us how she's feeling.โ€

What happened? Bella had been unwell for a few days. Her humans were very concerned when there was bloody diarrhoea and took her to a vet emergency hospital at 4 am. The diagnosis was colitis - an acute inflammation of the colon. Two days later she was sent home. By then, she hadnโ€™t eaten in 3 days and the vet told her humans that if she still wouldnโ€™t eat that night to bring her back for more infusions.

Bellaโ€™s humans phoned me and asked for my thoughts on the situation.

Bella is an anxious dog. She has come a long way but when she feels distressed, she loses her appetite. Considering what she had just been through it was no real surprise that she didnโ€™t want to eat.

Not eating is a huge trigger for many people, conjuring up the worst scenarios. It makes us very worried. It has been forgotten that fasting is part of the bodyโ€™s wisdom, a healing response. There is another underrated aspect of healing: allowing time in stillness. Modern medicine offers ever escalating interventions, no time to rest & digest - physically, emotionally and mentally.

Home from the hospital, Bella seemed tired and quiet, and stayed on her bed. However, her tail wagged happily when her human came home and she still tilted her head in response to her name.

Our conversation helped to slow down their anxious and racing minds and consider the big picture, to take the foot off the accelerator, become unhurried and able to think clearly again. Knowing their dog and assessing her current condition in the light of it, helped them to come to a decision that felt right: to give Bella another nightโ€™s rest before taking any further measures.

Bella also had a cone on her head. The vet wanted to make sure sheโ€™d leave her red and raw backend alone. When supervised, many dogs will leave the areas alone they are not supposed to lick or bite. I suggested to try and see what Bella would do with the cone off. As expected, she left it alone. I also suggested to get a donut-shaped pillow instead of the traditional cone for when Bella would be unsupervised. They are much less vexing and work well in most cases.

The next morning I received this message,

"Bella was resting all day yesterday. Close to midnight she started whimpering loudly. I first thought it could be some pain but then we took her for a walk maybe she wanted to do her business. She had a big wee and surprisingly a little p**p which was not liquid, a little jelly like. Then came home and had a big drink of water herself, slept 8 hours without any incident. She woke up just now, we had a short 5 min walk for her to wee. As soon as we came back I offered her some chicken which she ate quite quickly!"

HOORAY! โค

I am not sure what to call this service I am providing for my clients. I do know that it is invaluable. โœจ I donโ€™t have vet training, so I do not give medical advice. What I do is support people to have agency with regards to their animalโ€™s health and well-being. Agency is the sense of control we feel in our life, our capacity to influence our own thoughts and behaviour. Itโ€™s trusting our ability to handle a situation. Agency helps us to be psychologically stable, allowing us to be flexible in the face of adversity. We take back responsibility for our animal and consider expert advice in our decision making. Being able to do that helps feeling satisfied when looking back (no matter the outcome) instead of being filled with regrets.

If anyone has a suggestion what I could call this type of support, letโ€™s hear it, please! ๐Ÿ˜Š

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Louie, Fiorenzo, Lenny & Marvel - four rescue dogs and their human - Mia - are sharing their ways of improving canine-human relationships. From struggle to appreciation and fun. Too many dogs find an untimely end because of behavioural issues. This is our small way of making the world a better place.

Four years ago Mia adopted Louie (Kelpie X) who had been found as a stray. He is now at least 11 years old (thatโ€™s based on the best of 3 vetโ€™s guesses of how old he is) and the spokesman of The Dependable Companion.

Three years ago Lenny (Blue Heeler X) joined the pack. He is four years old. His expertise lies in the athletic division. He specializes in frisbees. He also enjoys trick training and other fun activities. This has not always been so. When we first met him he was pretty much scared of everything. Heโ€™s apprenticing to one day become spokesman.

A year and a half ago Fiorenzo (Cane Corso) found his furever home with Mia. Heโ€™s almost four years old. His stunning looks draws attention to him wherever we go. Heโ€™s a big boofhead and a great success in his role as therapy dog.