16/02/2024
#5 LENNY SAYS
Lenny says “GET OFF THE PHONE” - we are meant to be out on a walk, spending time together and bonding, you don’t need your phone!!!
Dogs spend all their time waiting for our attention, we literally are their whole lives, the centre of their world- but the centre of our world has to constantly compete for our focus and attention, and not just from other people- the biggest attention stealer is our phones!!
Before mobile phones, we set out on a walk or to the park, and our sole focus was exercising and having fun with our dog, but now, we are very much distracted, and the time they have waited all day for, is no longer all for them, its no longer quality engaged time.
Most people walk their dogs as they chat on the phone, get to the park and get on their phone, throw the ball while chatting on the phone… there is no quality, there is no bonding, their is very little if any engagement, and we wonder why they run off, get into trouble or just ignore us- because that is what we are doing to them. Why would you want to come back to someone who is barely there anyway.
I always know when I have not paid Lenny enough attention- and not just on my phone, if he comes out on the group walks, he regularly runs off (or as far away as he can) and his recall is s**te 🤦🏼♀️ - he knows my focus is with the other dogs, its not solely on him, I know this because, when it is just us out on a walk, he sticks with me, his recall is great, he checks in, he literally watches me for instruction- he loves our one on one time more than anything, because he gets ME, not me and my phone, not me and a group of dogs- just me, and that time is the best time for both of us.
So GET OFF YOUR PHONE!!! Engage with your dog, initiate play and fun, teach them something new, be present and give them the time they have waited literally all day for- they give you their all the minute you get home, show them they matter to you as much as you do to them, give them the gift of your time, give them your full attention- they deserve it.