01/09/2024
How to have a gender appropriate conversation with your horse
Growing up in a sailing family in the north of Germany and not “getting” the idea of always being wet and cold and in the wind ….. didn’t seem to be my ‘thing’.
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Horse and Rider Education,
Whether you're seeking private lessons or intensive workshops, we aim to instil confidence and trust from the very foundations of your training. Early on I started pestering my parents (a lot) that I would like to learn how to ride. Once I convinced them, the rest is history! Escaping on my bike to the delicious smell of horses, their soft noses and their gentle nature.
Most horses become your friend and offer so much for me, they always come first and the sport second. Most horses give you everything without a second thought of their own well-being
You look into their faces and you can see their facial expressions. They are curious and yes, the first instinct is to run, but the second is to come and investigate and be noisy! The safer they feel, the more they are happy to hang around and learn. Horses that are in balance and harmony with their rider are such a pleasure to watch. The horse starts to shine and dance with a sparkle in their eyes. They look after their rider and, as long as the rider looks after them, it is an astonishing and ever-growing partnership. For me, horses have the great ability to make everything complete- having an excellent way of communicating without saying a word. They are incredibly forgiving and don’t have ‘agenda’, they are in the here and now
Horses are the original masters of Mindfulness! If you treat them with respect, you have a friend for life. By now you can tell my work is my passion and I have spent years acquiring knowledge on all aspects of the horse as well as the art of riding. I keep studying and learning, to improve my own skills to help my students riding and their horses. Subjects like biomechanics, physiology, neurology, mindset, movement, Feldenkrais, saddle fit, soundness, hoof care and conformation are some of my interests. My approach is always holistic for both horse and rider. Horses and riders that are in balance and harmony are a joy and pleasure to follow. As a rider, I am always looking to fine-tune my own skills as well as others. I don’t just teach, I ride. If you are seeking an authentic partnership with your horse or simply want to improve your riding, please call me on
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How to have a gender appropriate conversation with your horse
Explore the Long Game: The Power of Consistent Training
We've all been there - that feeling of frustration when progress seems slow, when we're pouring hours into perfecting a single movement without seeing instant results. It's tempting to rush through and move on, especially with a competition looming on the horizon.
But here's the secret: consistent, purposeful training is the key to creating a horse that's truly strong and balanced. Those countless hours spent honing movements, perfecting techniques, and working through every part of your horse's body are what forges an unbreakable partnership and equips you to tackle any challenge that comes your way.
The rewards of this approach far outweigh the struggles. A well-trained horse gives you more than just the quick fix - it delivers lasting results. You become adept at spotting and fixing potential issues before they escalate. You gain the confidence and skills to adapt and enhance, understanding that each small step forward contributes to a healthier, happier horse. And when the big day arrives, you can step into the spotlight, proud of the hard-earned fruits of your labor.
Lucky there is coffee and horses
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… just be you 🙂🙃
Positive Experience 🐴
Every small achievement leads to bigger ones, and it's all about building a smooth progression with a willing partner. Even the smartest horse might throw in some curveballs, and that's just part of the conversation.
I’ve noticed that when horses come in for training, the way they accept the bridle can reveal a lot. Sometimes, they expect the beginning of an uncomfortable sequence of events, or perhaps they’ve had an unpleasant experience in the past.
Let's take simple tasks like putting on the bridle. To make it a positive experience,
🤎 start by making sure your horse is comfortable with each step.
🤎Begin by getting your horse used to having their face touched, then move on to gently handling their ears.
🤎Next, work on teaching them to open their mouth willingly and be at ease with the buckle closures.
🩶Remember, bridle training is a skill for your horse too.
🩶Short, positive sessions will help them get used to the feel of the bit, just like we might acclimate to different sensations in our mouths after a visit to the dentist.
🩶Allowing your horse to wear the bridle for a bit can help them explore the new sensation at their own pace, making the overall process smoother and more comfortable.
Breaking down the task like this helps you build a strong foundation of trust and understanding, leading to a more cooperative experience. Each little step forward is part of a bigger journey, and it all begins with the basics.
We often get so focused on the neck—after all, it’s right in front of us, easy to see and adjust. But there’s so much more to the horse than just the neck!
I just love this picture—it perfectly illustrates the idea that nothing in the horse is an orphan!
🐴 We have to look at the whole horse, how everything interacts, and make sure we have a harmonious picture without any brace or tension.
🧡 Think of it like this: we align the horse from front to back, starting with the head, moving through the neck, shoulders, ribcage, and hind end—even the tail is part of the equation!
🖤 Everything works together, from the alignment of the teeth to the angle of the hooves and the balance throughout the body.
🤎 Now, let’s add the rider, saddle, and bridle to the mix. We need to sit steady yet fluent with the movement, and that’s when we can really organize the movement. Communication with our horse comes through our seat, weight shifts, legs, torso, and hands.
🩶 When everything aligns, that’s when the magic happens! ✨
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There’s a fine line between being a guide and being a problem solver. It’s the difference between stepping in to fix a problem.
I often think about teaching my kids to tie their shoelaces. It was easy for me—I’d been tying laces for a while. But for them, it was a whole new challenge. They struggled, got frustrated, and couldn’t quite make their fingers do what they wanted. It would have been so easy for me to just tie their laces for them and move on. But I knew that wouldn’t help them in the long run.
Instead, I showed them, over and over again, guiding their hands until, one day, it clicked. They were so proud when they finally got it on their own. Not only did they master tying their shoes, but they also improved their coordination and body awareness in the process. And once the shoes were on securely, they could run in all sorts of weather or terrain.
This is much like working with horses—and with horse owners. It’s tempting to step in and take over when a horse is being difficult or when things aren’t going right. But that’s not the path to true understanding and partnership. Real horse skills take time and commitment. It’s about learning to communicate with a horse in a way that builds trust and respect.
My goal is to guide owners to become better partners with their horses. To help them develop the subtle skills needed to understand their horse’s needs and behaviors. It’s not always easy, and there’s often frustration along the way, just like with those shoelaces. But when that connection finally happens, the sense of achievement is worth every bit of the struggle.
So, let’s focus on guiding, not just fixing. Let’s teach, not just solve. Because when you and your horse find that rhythm together, it’s a beautiful thing.
A collection of photos
Consistent work shows in the horse's body and demeanour.
The more balanced the body, the more balanced the mind
Midweek Motivation,
Why does this remind me of certain friends 😉
I really enjoy working with riders and horses.
🤎 Riding can be challenging, but the way we approach those challenges can make all the difference.
🤎Repeating the same difficult task over and over doesn’t make it easier—it just frustrates both the rider and the horse.
🤎 Instead, I love breaking things down into small, manageable steps, seeing where the gaps are, and figuring out how to fill them in 🕳️. Explaining it to the horse in a clear and simple way often brings better results than just riding their legs off.
🤎 When both the horse and rider start getting tired, concentration and strength fade, and that’s when frustration creeps in.
🤎 I’ll never forget a lesson I had with a high-level rider. The only instruction he gave me was, “More.” I asked, “More of what?” and he replied, “More of everything.” That was so unhelpful! I had no idea how to translate that into something my horse could understand. We both ended up confused and frustrated.
🤎 That’s why I’m all about providing clear expectations. Communicating the significance of foundational work, like groundwork, helps riders see that these basics are essential building blocks. Developing trust and communication with the horse from the ground up improves overall riding ability. It may not seem glamorous, but it’s vital for real progress!
🤎 The key is to make each step as simple and clear as possible so that the horse can understand. That way, when you get back in the saddle, both horse and rider are confident and ready to move forward together. 🤎🐴
It is always great to have other professionals working with you, so thank you very much for sharing this experience, Apryl.
I appreciate it—the other thing. I don’t think you have a horrible seat; quite the opposite. I believe you have an excellent seat for what you do because you need to be able to go with your horse when you start them. Later on, you use your seat to shape the horse to stay within a frame. I would like the horse to stay.
When you just start the education of a young horse you need them feel comfortableand go with them.
Later part of the education, you ask them to stay with you.
Anyone with horses should be always seeking to improve themselves and their knowledge…. Continuously until the day we die or god forbid decide not to own horses anymore!😳
Currently, I am seeking to improve my communication in the saddle by improving my seat and aids.
First up for me was breathing, and learning some tools to become aware of my (shocking) posture🥴
Thank you Anke Hawke Balanced Dressage, I truly believe you have your work cut out in shaping up this old cowgirl, looking forward to more🙏🏼
Photo credit PP’s Photography 🐴
Another great clinic! It is almost time
A REMINDER ....
If you live on the east coast of NSW, Australia there are a couple of spots still available for my 2 day clinic in Minimbah. It will be a new clinic for me, so I will focus on helping people understand the idea of directing a horse's thoughts and how to develop focus, clarity and softness both mentally and physically. For me, nothing is more fundamental that those concepts no matter what the discipline or what level of training. Come along and find out firsthand what it is that I talk so much about in my posts.
I'd love to see some of your fun pictures!
🎠What kind of activities do you enjoy doing with your horse?
Promoting a Growth Mindset in Equestrian Training
Showing up and taking small steps forward is the key to progress. Whether you’re in the saddle or working from the ground, every effort counts. There’s absolutely no shame in taking the time to be on the ground, helping your horse understand your requests before mounting up again with renewed confidence.
Improvement doesn’t always come in leaps and bounds—it often comes through consistent effort and learning. I emphasize celebrating the little improvements along the way, because those small victories build the foundation for greater success. Focusing on perseverance and determination allows us to grow as riders and partners with our horses.
By embracing this approach, we develop resilience and a positive outlook on challenges, knowing that every step forward, no matter how small, is progress.
Building trust with a horse isn’t a weekend task—it takes time, patience, and a lot of care. By observing their body language and reactions, you can truly understand your horse’s personality. Remember, slow and meaningful training beats rushing every time. Give your horse the time and space they need to feel comfortable, and respect their unique perspective. With empathy and steady progress, you’ll build a lasting bond based on trust.
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Horses on High Alert: What It Means and How It Affects Their Movement
Ever notice a horse that seems to be on high alert, where every little thing triggers a reaction? These horses often feel tight in their bodies, and while they may move easily with just a small aid, it doesn’t always mean they’re truly “forward-going.”
Another thing you’ll notice is that these horses are often more distracted than focused. Ask them a question, and before they can even begin to think it through, their mind has already reacted to something else. This constant shift in attention makes it hard for them to settle on any one request, leading to a lack of progress in their training or making techniques feel like they just aren’t working.
It can feel like you’re starting from scratch every day, asking the same questions because they’re reacting rather than understanding. Their minds are so busy that they struggle to absorb and retain the information.
While you’re grooming, go ahead and check the hooves, and look the horse over for any cuts or issues. Knocking all of this out in one go saves you the hassle of doing separate checks later.
Teamwork with horses,
keep the big picture in mind but break things down into simple, manageable steps.
Each small step builds towards bigger ones, and the process becomes smoother with a willing partner.
A smart horse may offer you counter-responses, and that’s part of the conversation.
Take something as routine as bridling your horse. To make this experience positive, start by assuring your horse is comfortable with each part of the process. Begin by getting your horse used to having their face touched, then move on to gently handling their ears.
From there, work on teaching them to open their mouth willingly and be at ease with the action of closing buckles.
Remember, bridling is a skill for your horse too.
Short, positive sessions will help them get accustomed to the feel of the bridle, just as we might fiddle with the different sensations in our mouths after a visit to the dentist.
Leaving the bridle on for a bit can allow your horse to explore the new sensation at their own pace, making the overall process smoother and more comfortable.
By breaking down the task into these smaller steps, you create a foundation of trust and understanding, which leads to a more cooperative experience. Each step forward is part of a bigger journey, and it all starts with the basics.
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Understanding the Value of Your Horse Being Calm and Focused
It’s surprising how often this important aspect is overlooked. When your horse is calm, focused, and stays with the task without shutting down, it makes a big difference:
🩶 Safety first. A calm and focused horse keeps both of you safe.
🩶 It shows that your horse is comfortable and at ease with the situation. This calmness is essential for a good interaction between you and your horse.
🩶 When your horse is relaxed and focused, everything becomes easier. Tasks that seemed difficult are much more manageable.
If your horse isn’t calm and focused, it’s a sign to pay attention. It’s their way of communicating discomfort with the situation.
This weekend, I took my young horse to his first official outing. My only goal was for him to be okay with the new environment, stay focused, and not get overwhelmed.
Of course I forgot to take pictures
Here is us all wrapped up 🩶🎩
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Here is the schedule for Bettina's full tour in Oz. Contact the organisers for a spot
26/27 October Perth Turnbull
29/30 October or 30/31 October Sunshine Coast Scott
2/3 November Minimbah Anke Hawke Balanced Dressage
5/6 Minimbah Anke Hawke Balanced Dressage
9/10 November Melbourne Morton
13/14 November Adelaide @ Castel
16/17 November Canberra
-Anne Shepherd
Looking forward to working with all of you ⚜️🎓🐴
💥Amazing opportunity to learn the Academic Art of Riding!
Join us for a 2 Day clinic with licensed Bent Branderup, Academic Art of Riding Trainer Bettina Biolik from Poland.
Date: Saturday 26th & Sunday 27th October 2024
Venue: Equine Industries Australia (formerly Sunninghill Equestrian)
The Clinic runs over 2 days commencing at approximately 8.30am and finishing around 5-6pm each day. The format for Bettina's clinic is three individual 30-45 minute lessons for each rider over the course of the two days (2 Lessons on day one and 1 lesson on day two)
There will also be theory sessions during the clinic on topics chosen by the clinic participants.
Theory topics could include:
🔷Train the brain: learning, stress and thresholds in dressage
🔷The red thread in horse education: foundations and steps of dressage training
🔷Understanding and developing side movements
🔷How to become a centaur: introduction to the academic seat
🔷Hand, leg, rein: feel and timing of the secondary aids
RIDERS:
Will be limited to eight. Riders can choose to focus on groundwork and/or riding.
SPECTATORS:
Limited number of seats are available. All spectator tickets must be pre-booked - NO tickets available on the day!
For more information or to book your place, simply follow the link
🔗https://loom.ly/GGpLzk8
Midweek Motivation!
Yep every time
🟫Education Exploration
Deciphering the Language of Horse and Rider Dynamic
Embarking on the learning journey of horse and rider dynamics is like deciphering a new language—clarity isn’t achieved by shouting. Overcoming challenges, such as transitioning an Off the Track (OTT) racehorse to Dressage, is similar to shifting from marathon running to competitive dancing. Our focus is on rectifying muscle groups affected by improper training and addressing issues like ill-fitting tack and misuse. A crucial aspect of this journey is building trust, which involves navigating anxieties related to relocating to a new yard and avoiding the pitfalls of overtaxing both horses and riders with excessive demands or premature requests.
🟫Heartfelt Connection
Building Empathy Through Biomechanics and Groundwork
Cultivating empathy involves understanding your horse’s biomechanics and shaping them through precise groundwork and riding techniques. This includes exercises that influence posture, such as lifting the back, opening the chest, guiding hip rotation, and strategically placing the hind legs. Recognizing limitations imposed by unbalanced conformation, prior injuries, and anxiety is essential. Progress is made through incremental steps, with a keen focus on developing the ability to truly "read" the horse.
🟫Equilibrium Mastery
The Rider’s Role in Achieving Balance
Maintaining balance involves both the rider’s position and their influence on the horse’s performance. During in-hand work, the significance of the rider’s posture is paramount. Understanding the timing of aids, their targeted influence on specific parts of the horse’s body, and the purpose behind each action are essential elements. Off the horse, efforts are dedicated to achieving personal physical balance. Recognizing miscommunication and patiently navigating through challenges are integral parts of the learning process.
🟫Enthusiastic Devotion
Core Values in Balanced Dressage
Balanced Dressage strives to instill core values:
Ethics in Sport:
Prioritizing the longevity and well-being of both horse and rider in physical, mental, and emotional aspects.
- Continuous Learning:
Embracing curiosity and understanding how the partnership unfolds for both participants in the journey.
- Patience and Perspective:
Being ready to step back occasionally for a more profound leap forward.
- Embracing Imperfection:
Infusing playfulness into the training routine and prioritizing the horse’s welfare.
- Fairness:Upholding fairness, particularly in competitive scenarios, and recognizing the horse’s innate sense of justice.
- Control over Nerves:
Mastering control over nerves and adrenaline, preventing the dominance of ambition, and ensuring a harmonious partnership.
Thank you, Phoebe, for the lovely images of horses, big and small
Had a great chat with a client today about training horses and managing expectations. It varies. If you have a young horse that's sound in both body and mind and has had a good upbringing, training can feel almost effortless. Right now, I have a young horse here who picks things up quickly and makes it all look so easy.
But I've also had horses of the same age with great starts that revealed underlying soundness issues, making training tough. It's important to remember that training horses isn’t a weekend sport. While some trainers can make it look easy with their skill and timing, most horses need time to adjust and learn.
Horses, like people, have their own timelines. Sometimes, they need to observe and learn by watching before they're ready to engage. Giving them time to settle in and become part of the routine is crucial. Once they feel comfortable, you can build that connection and start assessing their learning ability and potential.
Not every horse is destined for the top levels, just like not every person will make it to the world elite. But every step forward, no matter how small, is a victory. It's all about progress, not perfection.
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Woohoo - It is so lovely when the mud disappears and all fun outside activities return. We even have access to more paddocks. As we all know, grass is always greener on the other side 😉
We’re well past the halfway point through the year, and as the days grow longer, we can finally see the light at the end of winter’s cold, wet tunnel. How has your equine journey unfolded so far?
It is amazing to call her my friend, client, and best of all, she has a magic touch at her fingertips. Receiving this message really cheered me up and keeps me motivated. 🙏 I have been working with Anke for several years now, and she is absolutely the glue that holds my training together. Being a bodyworker and generally working from a rehab point of view, it's so important to me that the work we do is truly beneficial to the horse and can improve their quality of life as well as their actual performance. Anke can get as technical as I want when I'm trying to nail down a specific exercise, but can also go back to the very basics when I get (yet) another thoroughbred off the track. @Isabelle Chandler @Fusion Equine Bodywork #HorseRehabilitation #EquineWellness #Friendship #ClientAppreciation #Motivation #EquineCommunity
Feeling in the rein always room for improvement The goal is to receive a slight elasticity moving forward in the reins. This indicates that the horse is responsive to guidance through weight shifts and the opening and closing of your leg aids. It is essential for the rider to have proper rotation through the pelvis and self-carriage to achieve this. In the initial stages, maintaining a consistent rein contact may pose some challenges. Any alterations in balance or when the horse becomes crooked can impact rein contact. Consistency in rein contact develops gradually as the horse undergoes training. I am benefiting greatly from Bettina's guidance and am experiencing improved balance in the seat, focusing on small weight shifts and minor adjustments. It is essential to remember that the learning process is continuous. Delving deeper into the nuances by spending substantial time in the saddle and gaining experience riding different horses contributes to our ability to influence them. I am in the fortunate position of working with both an older, educated horse that appreciates a slower pace and a younger, less experienced one that is learning the ropes. Each presents unique challenges: the older horse finds it challenging to maintain good posture, while the younger one is still developing balance, straightness, tempo, rhythm, and suppleness in both body and mind.
In Dressage, it's crucial to keep breathing steadily as it affects both your tension and clarity of thought. It can be tough to shake off the habit of holding your breath. Try to take two or three deep breaths before you start a movement sequence, and do the same after finishing each segment. By reminding yourself to breathe at these key moments, you may start to notice improvements in your focus, relaxation, and concentration.
Academic Art of Riding - Bettina Biolik tour down under October & November 🦘⚜️ Looking forward to hosting Bettina It feels more like picking up a good friend from the airport and continuing our learning journey with a great group of peers. As life moves forward, opportunities may arise for enthusiastic participants to join and discover the art of riding. 26/27 October Perth @Andrew Turnbull 29/30 October or 30/31 October Sunshine Coast @Lynn Scott 2/3 November Minimbah Anke 6/7 November Coffs Habour @Terri Campbell 9/10 November Melbourne @Lisa Roper @Marina Morton 13/14 November Adelaide @ @Susan Castel 16/17 November Canberra @Lee-Anne Shepherd Dressage is not abusive. It’s a kind and ethical training. . Dressage is not flashy. It’s about correct posture and spinal alignment. . Dressage is not exhausting. It's about lightness and motivation. . Dressage is not about getting fast results. It is quiet and humble. . Dressage is not about external validation. It’s an art. . Dressage is not for building up your ego. It’s a journey of self-discovery. . Dressage doesn’t wear out the joints. It keeps your horse fit until old age. . Dressage doesn’t shut down the horse or cause anxiety. It is about a human and a horse connecting on a deep level, from heart to heart. . . #academicartofriding #bentbranderuptrainer #kindhorsetraining
How Can You Elevate Performance In Your Horse? Think of your horse as a high-performance athlete. Achieving this partnership and harmony takes dedication, persistence and consistent work. Effortless collection: A horse that is balanced carries itself, allowing for powerful yet controlled movement. Improved flexibility through the topline translates to smoother movement and better bend. Precision and responsiveness: Clear communication leads to a horse that readily responds to your aids, enhancing performance in movements and transitions. Horses and riders that are in balance, and in harmony, are a joy and pleasure to watch. Question:❓What aspect of your horse's dressage performance are you currently struggling with? Share your thoughts in the comments below, and let's discuss how we can help you achieve your goals.
Growing up in a sailing family in the north of Germany and really not getting the idea of always being wet and cold and in the wind ….. didn’t seem to be my thing.
Basically I started pestering my parents a lot. That I would like to learn how to ride .... well once I convinced them the rest is history. I wasn’t much home anymore mainly escaping on my bike to the delicious smell of horses , there soft noses and their gentle nature.
And all of a sudden life started making sense getting up early and working. Riding in all sorts of weather rain hail or shine. In the arena or on trails. Luckily we lived near a forest where I could go and ride for hours.
Riding my bike to the stables helped with balance, as often it was cold and my hands were much warmer inside my jacket pocket, out of the wind rain or snow. Naturally I learned to steer with my balance similar as with riding the more balanced your seat the more balanced your horse.
Years later when I had my first lease horse I rode him home into our backyard. And I found a picture being taken from the upstairs window from a safe distance. As my mum was a bit scared of horses.
While my sister came out with carrots �
Unfortunately, my parents didn’t quite understand the horse addiction. There were encouraging.... my mum was terrified of horses and when she came to watch lessons, she would go straight to the arena and avoid any stables, where horses might had their bum / hooves pointing her way. The front end was a bit better. Still I got reminded a lot that school and homework is important and occasionally I got an unscheduled pick up from the stables. Later on some advice on job choices. So I ended up in Asia as a quality controller in the garment industries. I loved the job and the traveling but horses where always in the back of my mind
The dream of being around horses and making them a part of my life is a decision that I made from my heart. (and a nudge from my husband to take the plunge! I think he had no idea in the beginning how big and adventures this journey will become), it just feels right, turning into work is a challenge for many reasons most of the time it doesn’t feel like work and a lot of the clients become your friend. Most horses become your friend, and it is very sad to see them move away. They offer so much for me, and once they feel the positive change of being in balance, they become proud and look forward to the next session, they always come first and the sport second.
Most horses give you everything without a second thought of their own well-being. You look into their faces, you can see they have facial expressions. They are curious and yes the first instinct is to run but the second is to come and investigate and be noisy and the safer they feel the more they are happy to hang around and learn.
Horses that are in balance and in harmony with their rider are a pleasure to watch. The horse starts to shine and dance with a sparkle in their eyes.
And they look after their rider as long as the rider looks after them it is a partnership.
Horses have the great ability to make everything better, they have an excellent way of communication without saying a word. They are incredible forgiving and don’t have agenda they are in the here and now. If you threat them with respect you have a friend for life. So they suit my no, nonsense attitude very well.
They unfortunately have one small disadvantage you can’t take them home ..... not yet. Working on it.
Therefore you need a dog so you have your dog at home to give you companionship.