Are they “with you”? (Are you even with them?)
For the first time in three weeks training this mare was finally with me. I’ve ground worked, liberty worked, played on obstacles, ridden hard and sweaty, ridden technically and hung out just loving on her… But in all that time she was never fully with me. I was with her the whole time, but I could feel she was never with me.
I started this girl as a handled 10 yo a few years back and she’s been in a paddock since. She’s done amazing to take on so much information and new physical work in a short time late in life but it’s been emotionally hard for her and I empathise with her a lot.
By having (a leap of) faith in her I loaded her up by herself to take her out mustering before she was really telling me she was ready. Unloading her in the paddock and saddling her up she was sweaty, wide eyed and stressed by being so uncertain and under so much pressure by herself and in a strange place about to work hard.
Before getting on I gave her a hug.
She let down. Fully. She finally realised she wasn’t alone, she wasn’t under pressure. I was with her and she was with me. She didn’t need to be with another horse or anywhere else because we were together as a herd finally fully in the moment together. The ride and muster was faultless and she was finally happy.
Clients horse and a boring (good horse training is mostly boring) explanation of some steady work in between higher pressure cattle work. This horse is off the track a while ago and the owner has done a great job of training him.
He’s here doing some cattle work and getting extra exposure that he can’t at home and has excelled in his new role very quickly.
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On Instagram? Sharing mostly on there these days.
If you’re not it’s a much nicer, positive and funny platform.
Horses don’t need sweaty saddle pads!! (Pay me to train your horse over the internet instead)
No, but every good Horseman/Woman in the world say they need thousands of rides to become broke. One good days work can be as good as 50 play rides.
Some horses retire not even coming close to what their potential could have been as a broke horse.
Whenever you get the chance, put a big day, two days, even a solid half days work on a big ride out. Out in your local forest or reserve (an hours drive is part of the work day too) or an endurance ride etc.
But properly work your horse, not walk for hours chatting with a friend and think the odd trot is a trail ride.
If you’ve never worked your horse to a happy sweaty saddle pad, you may be surprised at the version of your horse you’ll meet out there.
(That’ll just be a quarter of your wage for more online coaching)
PD.