12/11/2024
๐ด ๐๐๐ญ๐ข๐๐ง๐ญ ๐๐ซ ๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐๐จ๐ซ๐ง? ๐ด
Iโll admit, Iโm patient in my work but my nearest and dearest might also say that I have a stubborn streakโฆ๐
So how do we differentiate during time spent with our horses and why is it important to know the difference?
๐ Patienceโฆis taking a deep breath in and a slow breath out, patience feels like softening our body.
โซ Stubbornnessโฆis holding your breath, shallow breaths or exasperated sighs, stubbornness feels like tensing our body.
Stubbornness creates resistance, brace and tension and can easily escalate a situationโฆpatience encourages softness, willingness and motivation and can diffuse a situation.
Itโs important to feel the difference, and if we get really good at our own body awareness and control, we might even be able to stop stubbornness in its tracks and replace it with patience!
If youโre unable to find a better, more positive energy, walk away and try again tomorrow!
Noโฆyour horse hasnโt โwonโ, youโve just avoided an antagonistic situation that was unlikely to have a positive outcome for either of you!
Happy Horsing! Katrina โบ