28/09/2021
A lovely piece of writing about sharing public spaces.
AWARENESS CALL OUT - RESPECT TO BE RESPECTED
Today I'm going to discuss a topic that is probably the most common worry of all within the people (and dogs) I work with.
Hopefully, this will bring some awareness to all.
The topic is "Unwanted interactions between dogs" (Some will label this problem as "off lead dogs", although this is not the problem, and I will expand this later on in this article)
So yes, unwanted interactions between dogs...
This week I experienced two different situations when unwanted interactions between dogs happened, which to be honest could have been avoided IF every person would be more attentive and aware.
Let me first share with you both situations and then expand on each one of them.
Earlier this week I took my dog for a walk, and unfortunately in that day he was not feeling great (we have been fighthing against Arthritis for some months now). For that reason the plan was to keep the walk short and easy, no off lead time, and no play time with other dogs - to avoid more discomfort and pain later on.
But on the way back to the car, I see two ladies at a distance interacting with their dogs. So I slow down and make sure they see me well before we cross paths, and notice that my dog is on the lead.
Their 4 dogs were not on the lead, and as soon as they saw me, they came charging all together at a fast speed. This started at about 30m distance from me and my dog, and there was plenty of time for the ladies to recall their dogs (or at least try). But they did not. They kept chatting with each other as if that whole situation was just fine.
In the end my dog and their dogs had an unwanted interaction, for the reasons mentioned above, and as usual, my dog started jumping around in a happy manner playing with these dogs, which was not ideal in that day. (If you are not aware of Arthritis in Dogs, you can easily find info on a google search)
I tried to keep the interactions as short as possible and kept walking once I had the chance, my dog followed me shortly after, but then there was this one dog in the group that kept following us and this was disturbing me even more, as again, my dog was trying to play with that dog again. We finally made our way to the car by the end and the ladies and their 4 dogs continued their walk.
Later this week I met a client and his dog who was showing reactive responses towards some humans and dogs, and by the end of our session, I see a woman walking her dog off the lead, at about 50m or more, and I moved to the side to give them enough space to walk by without any complications.
Just a few seconds after this dog came charging at us, and my client's dog started lunging, barking and snarling at that dog (for obvious reasons). I held on the lead and did my part, while this woman whistled 2 times with no response from her dog.
At this point I make eye contact with her showing my unpleased face.
Her dog kept running around myself and my client's dog, and eventually started barking at us, for several minutes before she could finally catch her dog. It was a sad comedy (seeing this woman calling, shouting, running, and falling while trying to catch her dog). That luckily did not end up badly for anyone, but it would, if it was my client holding the lead of his dog, and not me.
In this situation, the person in question did not admit their fault as well and I end up turning my back and leave.
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So, is the problem in fact due to dogs being off the lead?
No, not at all.
I see many dogs off the lead daily, and many of them do not cause any problems.
So what is really the problem?
The problem is when a dog owner does not work on basic social skills with their dogs and does not have the proper understanding regarding sharing public places with others.
The problem is NOT thinking about the next person and dog, and how your dog may cause problems IF certain skills/habits/behaviours are not in place.
So how can we improve this problems between dogs and people?
Well, first of all, think that not everyone is in the same position as you, and that your behaviour, and your dog's behaviour, may cause problems to someone else. Obviously, there is some common sense involved here. No one should stop their life because of others, but...
For instance, if you see a dog on the lead, think that your dog should not approach that dog without permission from the other owner.
Think that if a dog is on the lead, you should keep your dog under control, physically or verbally, until you fully understand the position of the other dog and owner.
Think that a public place will have different people, and different dogs, and it is fair for everyone to use it safely.
I think it does not take much attention and awareness to make things work for everyone, as long as you care.
Luckily, I've seen this many times, and experienced it as well, where other dog owners show their compassion and care about the next owner and dog, even when they do not know them.
So think about it, put yourself in someone else's shoes, and do what's right.
Thank you for reading.