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Congratulations to Hazel and mum Hannah for completing Flare Dogs Puppy Pathways training programme. It has been a huge ...
01/04/2025

Congratulations to Hazel and mum Hannah for completing Flare Dogs Puppy Pathways training programme. It has been a huge pleasure and most rewarding to see the relationship between Hannah and Hazel. Hazel has been learning many important skills through playing games and having fun. Of course training is ongoing because dogs are never done and if they aren't learning from you they are teaching themselves and learning from the environment which can then often lead to undesired behaviours. It is about always making the value with you. Well done Hazel and Hannah!

30/03/2025

There is a question I get asked constantly:

“Bart, should I play fetch with my dog every day? He LOVES it!”

And my answer is always the same:
No. Especially not with working breeds like the Malinois, German Shepherd, Dutch Shepherd, or any other high-prey-drive dog, like hunting dogs, Agility dogs, etc.

This answer is often met with surprise, sometimes with resistance. I get it—your dog brings you the ball, eyes bright, body full of energy, practically begging you to throw it. It feels like bonding. It feels like exercise. It feels like the right thing to do.

But from a scientific, behavioral, and neurobiological perspective—it’s not. In fact, it may be one of the most harmful daily habits for your dog’s mental health and nervous system regulation that no one is warning you about.

Let me break it down for you in detail. This will be long, but if you have a working dog, you need to understand this.

Working dogs like the Malinois and German Shepherd were selected over generations for their intensity, persistence, and drive to engage in behaviors tied to the prey sequence: orient, stalk, chase, grab, bite, kill. In their role as police, protection, herding, or military dogs, these genetically encoded motor patterns are partially utilized—but directed toward human-defined tasks.

Fetch is an artificial mimicry of this prey sequence.
• Ball = prey
• Throwing = movement stimulus
• Chase = reinforcement
• Grab and return = closure and Reward - Reinforecment again.

Every time you throw that ball, you’re not just giving your dog “exercise.” You are triggering an evolutionary motor pattern that was designed to result in the death of prey. But here’s the twist:

The "kill bite" never comes.
There’s no closure. No end. No satisfaction, Except when he start chewing on the ball by himself, which lead to even more problems. So the dog is neurologically left in a state of arousal.

When your dog sees that ball, his brain lights up with dopamine. Anticipation, motivation, drive. When you throw it, adrenaline kicks in. It becomes a cocktail of high arousal and primal intensity.

Dopamine is not the reward chemical—it’s the pursuit chemical. It creates the urge to chase, to repeat the behavior. Adrenaline and cortisol, stress hormones, spike during the chase. Even though the dog “gets the ball,” the biological closure never really happens—because the pattern is reset, again and again, with each throw.

Now imagine doing this every single day.
The dog’s brain begins to wire itself for a constant state of high alert, constantly expecting arousal, movement, and stimulation. This is how we create chronic stress.

The autonomic nervous system has two main branches:

• Sympathetic Nervous System – “Fight, flight, chase”

• Parasympathetic Nervous System – “Rest, digest, recover”

Fetch, as a prey-driven game, stimulates the sympathetic system. The problem? Most owners never help the dog come down from that state.
There’s no decompression, no parasympathetic activation, no transition into rest.

Chronic sympathetic dominance leads to:
• Panting, pacing, inability to settle
• Destructive behaviors
• Hypervigilance
• Reactivity to movement
• Obsession with balls, toys, other dogs
• Poor sleep cycles
• Digestive issues
• A weakened immune system over time
• Behavioral burnout

In essence, we’re creating a dog who is neurologically trapped in the primal mind—always hunting, never resting.

Expectation Is a Form of Pressure!!!!!!

When fetch becomes a daily ritual, your dog begins to expect it.This is no longer “fun.” It’s a conditioned need. And when that need is not met?

Stress. Frustration. Obsession.

A dog who expects to chase every day but doesn’t get it may begin redirecting that drive elsewhere—chasing shadows, lights, children, other dogs, cars.
This is how pathological behavior patterns form.

Many people use fetch as a shortcut for physical exercise.

But movement is not the same as regulation.
Throwing a ball 100 times does not tire out a working dog—it wires him tighter.

What these dogs need is:
• Cognitive engagement
• Problem solving
• Relationship-based training
• Impulse control and on/off switches
• Scentwork or tracking to satisfy the nose-brain connection
• Regulated physical outlets like structured walks, swimming, tug with rules, or balanced sport work
• Recovery time in a calm environment

But What About Drive Fulfillment? Don’t They Need an Outlet?

Yes, and here’s the nuance:

Drive should be fulfilled strategically, not passively or impulsively. This is where real training philosophy comes in.

Instead of free-for-all ball throwing, I recommend:
• Tug with rules of out, impulse control, and handler engagement

• Controlled prey play with a flirt pole, used sparingly

• Engagement-based drive work with clear start and stop signals

• Training sessions that integrate drive, control, and reward

• Activities like search games, mantrailing, or protection sport with balance

• Working on “down in drive” — the ability to switch from arousal to rest

This builds a thinking dog, not a reactive one. The Bottom Line: Just Because He Loves It Doesn’t Mean It’s Good for Him

Your Malinois, German Shepherd, Dutchie, or other working dog may love the ball. He may bring it to you with joy. But the question is not what he likes—it’s what he needs.

A child may love candy every day, but a good parent knows better. As a trainer, handler, and caretaker, it’s your responsibility to think long term.
You’re not raising a dog for this moment. You’re developing a life companion, a regulated athlete, a resilient thinker.

So no—I don’t recommend playing ball every day.
Because every throw is a reinforcement of the primal mind.

And the primal mind, unchecked, cannot be reasoned with. It cannot self-regulate. It becomes a slave to its own instincts.

Train your dog to engage with you, not just the object. Teach arousal with control, play with purpose, and rest with confidence.

Your dog deserves better than obsession.He deserves balance. He deserves you—not just the ball.


Bart De Gols

30/03/2025

This is very powerful and very true. Whatever other people say about you and your dog, let them. You are your dog’s advocate, you know best, you are doing the best you can and you should not be disempowered. When it comes to reactive dogs, they are not being difficult on purpose, they are having a difficult time, and they deserve to be out and about as much as any other dog and that is how they will learn. Of course it is important to be mindful of situations you place your dog in if it is struggling and does not yet have the skills to cope. Games based concept training trains “for” the situation and teaches important life skills through the power of fun and games.

24/03/2025

Let us celebrate puppies. Where would we be without our puppies and dogs? I am a day late I must admit (National Puppy Day was yesterday on 23 March). My mind was elsewhere remembering our beautiful girl Flare who left us 7 years ago. Her birthday was yesterday which would have made her 19. We never knew Chance as a puppy because we rescued him when he was around 6 years old. Puppies can be challenging because they are babies and are learning. At the same time we love them dearly, they become part of us and we have the privilege of sharing life with them for many years. It is important to teach puppies valuable life skills as soon as they come into your life because the earlier they can start learning the better.

24/03/2025

Check out Roo playing Toy Switch for the first time with his mum. This is a great game for the fun being with his mum and for disengaging from other things in the environment, as well as teaching an out or a leave it. Notice how something did catch Roo's attention but he made the choice to stay with his mum. Nice job!

A really good, important, very true and worthwhile read in the very best interest and welfare of all dogs.
23/03/2025

A really good, important, very true and worthwhile read in the very best interest and welfare of all dogs.

Real dog trainers evolve by changing their minds and methods. Trust is the new “obedience”. Crossing over takes courage.

Switching from aversive methods to a positive reinforcement, neuroaffirming approach is a courageous journey.

As a crossover trainer, you’re not just learning new techniques, you’re embracing a new mindset.

The first objective in dog training isn’t to get the behavior; it’s to build trust.

In positive, neuro affirming training, success starts with a confident, trusting dog who wants to work with you, not a dog who obeys out of fear of correction. Accept this.

Crossing over is more than just swapping tools, it’s a change in worldview, and it’s not always easy. Be kind to yourself during this transition.

Feeling a bit unsure or slipping into old habits now and then is part of the learning process. What matters is that you’re committed to evolving toward a stronger bond with the dogs you work with.

A dog’s behavior is a mirror of their emotional state. When we see undesirable behaviors, it helps to ask: What is my dog feeling right now? Stress, fear, or confusion often manifest as reactivity or non-compliance.

If we address those underlying emotions, the behaviors begin to change in a sustainable way.

While punishment might momentarily stop a behavior, but it doesn’t resolve the fear or stress driving it. In fact, fear can shut down your dog’s ability to learn, making real progress harder. On the other hand, modern methods focus on acknowledging a dog’s emotional status at all times and build more genuine understanding between a person and a dog.

Over time, you can literally change your dog’s emotional response from fear to confidence, leading to lasting behavioral improvement and a stronger partnership built on trust.

In practical terms, this means sometimes you’ll focus on comfort and safety before asking for a cue. (For example, if your dog is nervous about strangers, you might spend sessions just pairing new people with low-key enjoyable experiences, before expecting a perfect “sit” for greetings.) By prioritizing your dog’s feelings, you set the stage for learning that sticks.

Spend time bonding in low-pressure ways. Play games, explore new places at your dog’s pace, or just relax together. Seek out environments where your dog is comfortable and not overwhelmed at first.
Some crossover trainers even put formal obedience on hold and teach fun tricks instead.

Trick training is great because it improves your timing and planning as a trainer, without any pressure on you or your dog.

Your dog is always “talking” through signals like yawning, tail position, ear posture, lip-licking, etc. Pay attention to signs of stress or comfort. If you notice your dog getting uneasy (like turning away or tensing up during an exercise), ease up and give them a break or more distance.

Noticing your dog’s stress doesn’t mean you’ve failed. In fact, it means you’re growing. Take a breath, reset, and try again.

By respecting their signals, you show your dog that you’re listening, which builds trust. And that’s what a real relationship is, a two-way street.

Keep your training upbeat and your reactions calm. If you’ve committed to avoiding leash pops or harsh corrections, stay consistent, even if your dog makes a mistake. View slip-ups as valuable information to guide future sessions, never as moments to punish.

Over time, your dog will realize that your hands bring guidance and fun, not corrections. That reliability helps them feel safe and free to try new things.

Regularly check in on your dog’s state of mind: Is the training environment causing stress? Are you feeling impatient or frustrated? These feelings are normal, it takes insight and strength to recognize and respond thoughtfully to them. These are the hallmarks of the most talented dog trainers in the world.

It’s perfectly fine to shorten a session or skip a cue if your dog (or you) is having an off day. Sometimes just a calm few moments of soft petting or a play break mid-session can reset the tone.

Prioritizing your dog’s comfort instead of “pushing through” a training drill shows them you’re attuned to their feelings. This emotional safety empowers your dog to confidently explore and learn without fear, an approach far more powerful than many initially realize. These are smart animals. Let them use their brains in productive, confident, proactive ways.

Transitioning to positive training is an evolution, not an overnight change. You’re not alone on this path; many trainers and dog guardians have stood where you are, feeling that mix of doubt and hope, and have come out the other side with stronger partnerships than ever.

When setbacks happen, remind yourself how far you’ve come and the positive changes you’ve already seen.

This week, focus on one trust-building activity like playing or teaching a trick and observe how it affects your dog’s attitude, and yours too!

Good luck! And share your stories below!

22/03/2025

Morty is 12 weeks old and is learning to be happy and confident around novelty. The big wide world IS novelty!

19/03/2025
Yes! and let's ditch the rescue label too.  A dog is a dog with its own individual needs. Yes everything needs to be con...
18/03/2025

Yes! and let's ditch the rescue label too. A dog is a dog with its own individual needs. Yes everything needs to be considered but at the end of the day every dog can be helped, yes some cases will be more complex than others, every dog can be trained and every dog needs to be understood. Behaviour happens for a reason. Behaviour is communication. Behaviour is often a coping strategy. Of course many factors impact and determine behaviour. Once a rescue dog has been homed, it is no longer a rescue dog. It 'used' to be a rescue dog. Labels can be very disempowering and affect our mindset and how we train. Every dog has the right and ability to thrive.

🐶 Why We Are So Passionate About Ethical Rescue Dog Rehabilitation 🐾

Rescue dogs aren’t “broken.” They don’t need to be “fixed.” They need to be understood.

For years, the dog industry has focused on obedience and control, but what if we stopped trying to make dogs behave and started helping them feel safe enough to heal?

That’s why Canine Principles advocates for cognitive-led, ethical rehabilitation.

Because every dog deserves:
✅ The freedom to express themselves without fear
✅ Support to rebuild trust and confidence
✅ A rehab approach that respects their past and empowers their future

If this resonates with you, keep your eyes peeled. We have something exciting coming for you this week .... and it's FREE!

I would like to congratulate an amazing hairdresser and friend of mine on officially opening the doors of her new salon ...
18/03/2025

I would like to congratulate an amazing hairdresser and friend of mine on officially opening the doors of her new salon today! Many of you will know Kristy from Masquerade Hair Studio. Well she has embarked on a new adventure under her new name Serene Hair by Kristy on Granite Belt Road at The Summit, so she's not far away. I have known Kristy since I moved to Stanthorpe four years ago. Of course I needed a hairdresser and my did I choose the right one! She is truly fantastic and passionate about what she does, very caring and to be honest I don't just go for the hair, I go to relax, have a chat, have a cuppa (there are many complimentary beverages) and enjoy the time I am there in comfortable surroundings.

So what does this have to do with dog training? Well you could argue nothing. On the other hand I need to feel and look my best for myself, my clients and the dogs I teach. The better I feel, the better I perform. Plus I want to support my friend on her new venture. Needless to say I highly recommend Kristy and not forgetting Maddie who is also a very talented hairdresser who does a wonderful head massage! Kristy and Maddie are indeed a great team so if you need a hairdresser absolutely remember Serene Hair by Kristy . I have seen the new salon and it certainly has flair (true but I also couldn't resist the pun!). Well done Kristy - you are an inspiration and I wish you every continued success.

A huge thank you to Zuko's mum for this review. The review was hidden so it was a very nice surprise to discover it. I c...
17/03/2025

A huge thank you to Zuko's mum for this review. The review was hidden so it was a very nice surprise to discover it. I cannot emphasise enough the progress this boy has made and how far he has come. Zuko was worried about a lot of things, including going to the vet. It has taken time, over a year in fact as things don't happen overnight, but with commitment, dedication, patience, understanding and consistency from Zuko's dad and mum he is now a much, much more confident dog and less worried. Zuko always looks to his dad for guidance and the bond and trust between them is truly amazing. Training and management is ongoing, that is part of being a dog owner, and Zuko is much happier dog enjoying life. I am very proud of him.

Bailey is continuing to grow his skills in self control and tolerating frustration as well as listening to his mum. Leav...
17/03/2025

Bailey is continuing to grow his skills in self control and tolerating frustration as well as listening to his mum. Leaving and disengaging from something of value to him (in this case a piece of food and even more so when it is exposed) is really difficult to do yet here he is doing just that. He even managed to drop his toy with the "Leave It" verbal cue which was a huge ask and really not expected of him today yet we gave it a go and again Bailey showed off his skills. Remembering not to do too much in one go and not make it a challenge for the dog all of the time as it still need to be rewarding. Leaving something still needs to be a good deal and followed up with something else such as a scatter feed or play. Amazing work Bailey, really well done!

I had a fabulous time with Henry today! His dad says "he is a different dog" compared to a few months ago. He is calmer ...
17/03/2025

I had a fabulous time with Henry today! His dad says "he is a different dog" compared to a few months ago. He is calmer and is able to control his excitement and jumpiness around visitors so much more, as well as listening to and looking to his dad. He is an expert at the middle position too. Today we continued working with two front paws onto an object. Henry knows this well however we are moving to a much smaller object, such as a small towel, that can easily be taken and used out and about. Henry also did really well at staying and offering some self control, especially staying where he was (this is challenging as remaining still for too long is difficult for many dogs, so being mindful not to set the dog up for failure and asking for a stay for too long) while I moved quite a bit further away. Then on visual cue of me bringing the arm I had raised above me down to my side, he recalled to me. Very impressed with you today Henry, very well done indeed!

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