08/06/2026
Six months after losing my beautiful boy Romeo, I finally welcomed a new puppy into my life – little Batman.
At just 9 weeks old, he’s only been home for three days, but the work has already started.
My goal is simple: I want Batman to live his very best life. I don’t want him growing up with unnecessary anxiety, stress, or dependence. I want him to feel safe, confident, and secure whether I’m with him or not.
What many people don’t realise is that the relationship starts long before the puppy comes home.
I’ve been visiting Batman every week for the last four weeks. During those visits, I wasn’t getting him overexcited or encouraging him to become dependent on my attention. Instead, I was calm, composed, and consistent. I wanted him to start understanding my energy, my leadership, and my presence.
For me, every relationship with a dog starts in a calm, controlled, leadership-focused manner. Dogs are constantly reading us, and I believe it’s important they feel stability and confidence from the very beginning. Staying calm, composed, and not becoming overly excited around a puppy is one of the keys to building a balanced relationship and achieving great results.
The first night was tough. There was plenty of crying in his playpen and very little sleep for me. I’d get up, toilet him, settle him back in, and the crying would start again.
The next day, we got to work.
We spent a lot of time practising separation in both the playpen and crate. There were protests, there were tears, and there was plenty of learning. At first, he’d cry himself to sleep, but slowly he started settling faster and faster.
Night two was noticeably better.
We repeated the same work the following day, and by night three, there was no crying at all. The only time he woke me was when he genuinely needed to go to the toilet. Straight out, straight back to bed.
A huge success.
What happens at night is often a reflection of the work you put in during the day.
Of course, Batman has had lots of cuddles, but he’s also learning important life skills. He’s learning how to play appropriately, how to settle, and how to think. I don’t encourage over-excitement because a calm dog is far more likely to become a balanced dog.
He’s already met some doggy friends, joined me for coffee, gone on little outings, started getting used to his collar and lead, and is showing great engagement.
We’ve introduced:
• Come
• Sit
• Heel
• Stay
• Drop
• Scatter feeding
• Play with an “off” command
All of these activities are designed to mentally tire him out. During his short waking periods, I focus on engaging his brain rather than simply trying to exhaust him physically.
Today he’s starting boundary work and impulse control. He’s learning that an open door doesn’t automatically mean he can walk through it. He’s learning to self-soothe, make good choices, and regulate himself.
Another area where Batman is making incredible progress is toilet training.
At just 9 weeks old, he’s already very close to being reliably toilet trained, and that isn’t luck. It’s the result of consistency, supervision, and management.
One of the biggest mistakes people make is giving puppies too much freedom too soon. Batman doesn’t free roam the house. If he’s outside of his crate or playpen, he’s being actively supervised. If I can’t supervise him, he’s safely contained.
That means I’m able to recognise when he needs to toilet, take him to the right place, and set him up for success every single time.
In my experience, too much freedom too early often creates problems that people later struggle to fix. Puppies that are allowed to wander the house unsupervised are more likely to develop toileting habits indoors, become overly dependent on constant access to their owners, and develop behaviours that stem from a lack of structure and guidance.
The best part? He’s already choosing to retreat to his crate on his own when he’s tired.
I’ll continue sharing Batman’s journey. If you’ve recently welcomed a puppy into your family, follow along. There’ll be plenty of free information, tips, and real-life examples that may help you raise your own confident, balanced dog.
And before anyone asks, Batman won’t be attending puppy school. As a professional dog trainer, I prefer to carefully control his experiences and social interactions, ensuring they’re positive, structured, and appropriate for his development.
Three days in, and this little guy is already making me proud. 🖤🐾 #🖤🐾 #🖤🐾