28/08/2025
This is an extremely important message.
People tell me that their dog has suddenly started biting, barking, behaving badly, become reactive, showing aggression etc.. there was nothing sudden about it.
There were many moments leading up to it, you just didn’t see it or think it meant anything.
There are always messages in your dogs behaviour, good or bad. You just have to take the time to know your dog.
The frustration from my point of view as a trainer, people wait for things to be so bad before reaching out.
Bad behaviour doesn’t go away in its own, it will intensify.
Everything matters, believe me!
I can’t stress the importance of understanding this concept enough.
Smart dog trainers are keenly tuned-in to all the little moments, and they see them for the profoundly big stuff that they are.
Owners often don’t see these moments as anything of serious value, as far as the impact they have on their dog’s behavior and their relationship in general.
The primary success recipe — whether that be for bratty pups with poor manners, or dogs with more serious but not dangerous behavioral issues, or dogs with the truly big ugly and dangerous stuff — the strategy is always this.
Find the small moments where impulse control is non-existent, where respect is obviously not occuring, where dogs reveal their personality/attitude/demeanor… but they do so in tiny little ways that often seem benign to owners — but ways that are tied into foundational personality issues that are fueling the behavior issues… and go after them… firmly.
Said another way, find the small emanations of personality, attitude, demeanor that have the same “flavor” or motivation that are causing the behavior issues… and go after them.
As crafty as dogs are, they don’t realize that they tip their hands on the regular. And to the watchful eye, they provide a precise behavioral roadmap for owners and trainers to follow, if you only learn to see all the points of connection/overlap.