05/06/2025
So true!!
Itâs easy to label a dogâs behavior as âbad.â
They bark, they pull, they chew, they growl, they ignore cues. And weâre quick to call it disobedience.
But what if we stopped looking at behavior as something to correct⊠and started seeing it as something to understand?
Because the truth is, behaviour is communication.
Itâs your dogâs way of navigating a human world that doesnât always make sense to them.
Itâs how they express their needs, emotions, fears, and excitement. Itâs their voice.
When a dog jumps on guests, they may be overjoyed and unsure how else to say hello.
When they pull on leash, theyâre excited, curious, or possibly anxious.
When they growl, theyâre saying, âIâm uncomfortable, please give me space.â
None of these behaviours are ânaughtyâ or malicious.
Theyâre messages and signals. Opportunities to listen.
Yet too often, these behaviours are punished or shut down without ever asking why theyâre happening. We silence the symptom without addressing the cause.
And in doing so, we risk making things worse: not only suppressing behaviour, but suppressing trust.
When we shift our mindset from "disobedience" to "communication," our entire relationship with our dogs transforms. We move from frustration to empathy.
We need to teach our dogs that they can trust us to listen when theyâre struggling. We become their safe place, not their source of pressure.
So the next time your dog âmisbehaves,â pause.
Ask yourself: What are they trying to tell me?
Because every bark, every growl, every moment of resistance - that's not defiance.
Itâs dialogue. And dogs are desperate for us to hear them.