02/09/2025
Who Is Your Dog?
Becoming a pet parent, we may well have dreams of the adventures and lifestyle we will share with our dogs. Life doesn’t always go as planned and the dog you have may not be the one you envisioned.
Did you dream of;
• A social dog, who is happy to meet everybody and every dog.
Instead, your dog is fearful of all new people and reactive towards other dogs.
Yes, these are things that you can work on and improve, for a lot of dogs, though they will never be social butterflies craving the attention of unknown people and dogs.
A new focus could be that you can build up confidence and a feeling of safety, with regular visits from family and friends.
I wish all dogs felt like the world was a good place; however, they navigate going through it.
• A cuddle bug, who craves physical attention.
I think at some point in our lives, we will have had people around us who are mismatched in affection drives. This is a similar negotiation, requiring us to find other ways to bond.
Focus on other ways that you can bond with your dog. If your dog is newly adopted, the drive for affection can change as trust is developed.
• A dog who shares the same level of physical activity
I’m not saying that the only way to meet an active dog's needs is through a ton of exercise. However, if you imagine being out and about all the time with your dog or being out just a little, you may have mismatched drives for physical activity.
For an active dog, focus on both exercise and other forms of entertainment. You may be including calming activities like sniffing. Remember, training is an excellent way of draining energy and building skills that will assist you and your dog with your everyday life and confidence.
• A calm dog. Sometimes you have envisioned your dog being calm and you have ended up with an energiser bunny, who is always busy.
Calmness is a skill that can be taught, reinforce, and watched it grow. Having appropriate outlets for energy, like well-suited play. This play could allow for appropriate bouncing. Yes, some dogs love to bounce and providing your dog with an outlet for this energy will help your dog to be settled for the rest of the day.
While breed can be an indicator of these traits, there will always be dogs that do not conform to the stereotypical examples of their breed.
Just as sometimes the dreams we have for children that don’t become reality, sometimes we have to replace the dreams we have for our dogs with new dreams.
&Ralph