12/09/2025
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Got The Barn Sour Trail Horse Blues?
Here are some thoughts on managing, or preventing, a trail horse's anxiety on the way back to the barn, or trailer.
First some tough love: you need to be focused on the trail on your horse, not just talking to friends and checking out. If you don't focus on your horse until they start doing something that calls your attention (usually negative) you have no baseline of communication built - plus, the horse is not looking to you for support, and so they will not look to you when they get anxious if you haven't been there. Trail riding is taking your horse into battle - you need training and partnership to get there!
Some things to do BEFORE trail riding:
- practice teaching your horse to focus (ie YOU focus on them, and help them come with you), and be balanced in a safe place they are not nervous in. You need to be able to get good alignment, good shoulder mobility (moving them easily), and decent bend. Your horse needs to be able to lenghten the stride, shorten, halt well, back up, and have decent transitions.
On the beginning of the trail ride BEFORE anxiety comes up you can:
-make frequent small requests, check in - lenghten the stride a little, shorten it a little, serpentine around natural obstacles, pass your friends and play leap frog so your horse is comfortable in lots of positions, pay attention to the horse and PET THEM sometimes! Let them know they're doing well before they have an issue.
So that ON the trail when you start finding anxiety come up, you can:
- get the horse in alignment first. A rushing horse is crooked, so get them aligned and then -
-make small changes often. Little lengthenings, use the energy theyre giving you productively! Make some bending lines if you have space, leap frog your friends and use the horses in front of you as a bumper (make sure your friends you're riding with are paying attention and have some control of their horses too - try to ride with folks who have calm horses so you can feed off their energy for your horse).
-Don't fight the horse and pull them the whole way! Preparing ahead goes a long way, but in the moment USE the energy for movements, bends, serpentines, keep them focused and help them! Don't just sit and pull the whole way home or you'll really convince the horse this whole deal sucks and they can't wait to get back to the barn to get rid of you.
lastly, when you get back to the barn or trailer, do some work to calm them.
I don't like to put the horse away anxious and convinced anxiety is solved by getting back to the pasture or trailer. Do something they're good at and you know they can focus on easily until they feel a little better, pet them, thank them for their hard efforts, and put them away.
A lot of this anxiety is preventable with better training - but, sometimes it happens from past training or just life getting lifey. How you manage it makes a big difference to your horse.
Ride with good folks who will help you and are paying attention. Don't put your good horse into hot water by riding with people who don't pay attention with neurotic horses they aren't willing or able to help - be smart, stay sharp, and have some empathy : you're riding your horse into battle, and they need some help and some tools. Practice focusing their minds and balancing their bodies in your everyday life and you will find, little by little, their troubles melt away when they're with you -