07/03/2025
Your horse has needs. And it's our job to understand them. 🤯
If your horse is ignoring your cues, stressed about going onto the trailer, or acting out in your groundwork, changes are, it's not just some sort of "disrespect." He could be stuck at the base of Maslow's pyramid, wondering when feeding time is or why Barry the gelding got moved to the next paddock over. 😩
That’s right—your horse has needs, and no amount of liberty circles will matter if they’re not met in order.
Let's start at the bottom:
🌾 Physiological Needs—food, water, shelter, rest. If your horse is dehydrated, hungry, or sleep-deprived from pacing all night, he’s not going to care about your seat aids.
No hay = no harmony.
Next:
🛡 Safety Needs—physical safety, protection from harm, a stable environment. If your horse doesn’t feel safe—if he’s worried about footing, tack, or the “scary corner” of the arena—you’ll be trying to train through tension.
Now the warm fuzzies:
🤝 Love & Belonging—herd bonding, grooming, connection. Horses are herd animals. Isolation harms. It causes distress. They don’t just like company. They need it.
Then:
🏅 Esteem Needs—confidence, positive reinforcement, independence. This is where good training shines. Your horse learns he can succeed, and suddenly the world isn’t so scary.
And finally, the holy grail:
🎯 Self-Actualization—Now obviously this looks a little bit different for horses than humans, but here's where purposeful activity, expression, and harmony happen. It’s not fluff. It’s those moments when training feels like dancing. Your horse is offering more than you ask. You're in it together.
But here’s the catch:
You can’t skip steps.
You don’t build harmony by ignoring hunger. You don’t build confidence by overriding fear. You build it by stacking each level—clearly, patiently, intentionally.
So next time your horse “acts up,” check the pyramid before you check your ego.
He might not need more pressure.
He might need water.
Or a friend.
Or just five quiet minutes where you don’t ask for something.
Real horsemanship doesn’t live at the top of the triangle.
It’s built from the ground up.