06/09/2022
Planning makes Perfect. Dogs and Storks and Dogs and Kids available at Two Brown Dogs.
When a baby begins facing outward, their eyes are large, facing straight on. They go from being in someone's arms and being rocked to facing forward and looking all around very quickly, this can be a very big change for many dogs. Newborns and young babies’ eyes are very intense and they hone in! Having a baby sitting up on your lap facing outward could be the first point of discomfort for some dogs.
It can be easy (and totally normal) to think that your dog is “fine” or adjusted to everything. But, the word “fine”, doesn't mean that your dog is comfortable, even if they still have gotten up and moved away or growled in an uncomfortable situation. Help us shift this thinking to:
What can we do to prepare, plan and prevent situations? What can we do to set up our dog and child for success?
Instead of having your baby face straight on directly at your dog, you can move your body or position the baby so that their side is towards the dog.
NEVER allowing a child to crawl up to or on, reach for or grab the family dog. Invites decrease bites!!!
We also have to change our expectations that our family dog should tolerate or put up with uncomfortable situations. They're constantly giving us subtle signals, but we can learn what to look for and how they communicate so that we are able to recognize and intervene when we see signs of stress and discomfort. Increasing our Dog Aware skills is a life long learning experience!
Did baby start to move in the direction of the dog and their ears perked up? Did they yawn? Lip lick? That’s giving information, time to intervene. Knowing what you are seeing is the first step!