02/21/2023
This is what Brene Brown had to say about Maya Angelou’s quote:
“Don't walk through the world looking for evidence that you don't belong because you will always find it. Don't walk through the word looking for evidence that you are not enough, because you will always find it. Our worth and our belonging are not negotiated with other people. We carry those inside of our hearts. True belonging is a spiritual practice, and it's about the ability to find sacredness in both being a part of something but also the courage to stand alone. And for those of us who struggle to stand alone, especially when we know that it risks, we’re risking that sense of being a part of something because we disagree, because we have a different opinion, because we love something different. That's the mark of true belonging; to be able to say yes, I am a part of something bigger but I also will stand alone when I need to. You belong everywhere and nowhere. That is liberation.”
What does this quote mean to you?
For me, I seem to find myself in situations, careers, lifestyles that are often not the common choice. Whether it's being vegan, an artist, an equestrian, EAL facilitator, farmer, or being the black sheep in my family, I often feel like I have had to walk alone. That the courage or the struggle for me is to feel part of something, to connect. But as I continue to put myself in uncomfortable situations, making myself vulnerable, speaking up and asking others to walk with me, I am starting to understand what it means to be everywhere and nowhere.