Each dog runs their own value system.
What I mean is not every dog loves their food like the next and some don't care about a tennis ball but if a frisbee comes out - game on.
A client's son told me how he tried to take a bone away from their pup and the pup wasn't a fan.
So here's what we need to teach our kids:
Just because they can take a toy away, or even the food bowl, doesn't necessarily mean they can take everything from your dog.
Hell, we had a puppy bite our oldest's hand when she tried to take a pizza crust away. In her experience, she could take things from him so she didn't know this would be any different.
As adults, we need to observe our dogs and see what they care about then teach our kids the signs and when they should get an adult.
And if you're going, "well sh*t, Amanda, I can't tell the difference?" then you should be the one taking things from the dog 100% of the time.
Dogs are animals afterall.
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One more confusing thing that the dog training world likes to give their viewers grey hairs about: dog's on the bed.
I've been in many homes where the humans have voluntarily "fessed up" that their dog sleeps on their bed, quickly followed up with an "I know they shouldn't be on there..."
My response? If they're not growling over you also being on the bed then I don't care.
Each dog runs their own value system so if after your dog hops up on the bed, then you move in, and they move out of the way or get off the bed completely: then there is nothing to manage. Your dog doesn't care.
Now, if your dog gets on the bed and claims it by growling at you or snapping, then that definitely has to be managed. Those dogs should not be allowed on the bed without permission and if that's not curbing it, then they shouldn't be on the bed at all.
Sometimes people struggle to lead their dog effectively within the home, so even if your dog doesn't care about the bed and they come and go as they please, you can still add structure and manners to it for the sole purpose of leading them more.
The more we lead them throughout the day, the more we're viewed as someone to pay attention to.
Question: How do I fix separation anxiety? Even if we’re inside and the dog is outside he hates it!
My Answer: Practice separation in the home first. Instinctually, he wants to stick near his “pack” so when you go inside and leave him, panic sets in because it’s not normal in the dog world.
If he was living with a group of dogs, they would all travel collectively so separation doesn’t make sense to him.
Teach him “to your bed” or “place” and work on him relaxing on that bed while you move about your house. He’s not allowed to leave without your permission.
Question: How do I fix separation anxiety? Even if we’re inside and the dog is outside he hates it!
My Answer: Practice separation in the home first. Instinctually, he wants to stick near his “pack” so when you go inside and leave him, panic sets in because it’s not normal in the dog world.
If he was living with a group of dogs, they would all travel collectively so separation doesn’t make sense to him.
Teach him “to your bed” or “place” and work on him relaxing on that bed while you move about your house. He’s not allowed to leave without your permission.
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ARF’s Tips for Dogs & Kids
Have a collection of dogs and kids?
Both can be wildly unpredictable, and sometimes trainable, but at the very least? Always entertaining.
Here's a link to my blog to read more about my thoughts on the topic: https://www.arfsdogresources.ca/blog/dogs-and-kids
This reading blew my dang mind.
My meditation with their current dog turned into a group meditation when their deceased dog appeared. Let me be clear: I knew their deceased dog so it ""made sense"" as to why he'd pop in.
So would your deceased dog appear in a meditation with me (and your current dog) without providing a photo, or making me aware of your previous dog history?.....I actually don't know that answer, ha! I suppose they could...I just wouldn't know the significance of the connection. But hey - one thing we do know is that when that moment happens, I'll come on here and start yelling about it!
This reading even got MORE interesting once I sent the reading summary to the humans. ""How Amanda, HOW!?"" you ask? Well, they informed me that the day before his euthanaisia appointment, they went to a local spot by a river and what hung around them for a little bit? AN EAGLE. And what was in the night sky when they had their first night without their beloved dog? Northern Lights!
Meditation: eagle and white horse. Card: eagle, white horse, northern lights
With each reading, I provide all the information that comes forward because I'm really just the middleman (...middlemanda...?!) and I don't know the significance of EVERYTHING. Because my client recieved a photo of the cards that were pulled, she was able to make the northern lights connection and it just brought more confirmation to the message their dog shared.
#dogtrainers #dogtrainerslife #energyinsight #cardreading #dogreading #dogenergy #meditationpractice
Here’s a quick peek into the kind of random stuff that can come up in a reading. From showing a reflection in a well to discovering the deeper meaning behind the dog's fear of winter, all sorts of things can appear!
#dogcrystal #cardreading #cardreadings #dogbehaviourist #dogbehavior #dogtrainerslife #dogtrainersofcanada #dogtrainersofbritishcolumbia #dogcrystalhealing #demeter #demetercard #tarotcard #britishcolumbiacanada #understandyourdog
Q: My dog has started snapping at most dogs… he was always sensitive but getting worse?
A: All he’s doing is communicating he wants space. It’ll really help him if you can manage the other dog before he has to, so he sees you got it.
Usually it starts with a certain look your dog will give this other dog as it gets closer. Once you see him shifting from “this is great” to “...is this asshole really coming over here?” You can intervene by walking into the other dog and blocking them from getting to yours.
If you turn around after getting the space and your dog is still eyeballing that dog, walk into your dog calm and confidently until they snap out of it and sit.
You’re also teaching your dog: when you feel this way, disengage.
By always supervising Garth and Enzo’s initial interactions, I would help Enzo understand what Garth is “saying” and I would help Garth learn there’s other options than just total snap show.
In this video, there’s loads of conversations happening between Garth and Enzo that are super subtle. Which is why most dog conflicts appear to have “came out of nowhere” when really, there’s many warnings taking place and it’s when that’s not respected that our dogs amp it up.
Rain = a great day to learn weave poles!
Thankful for the lean-to though when it came time to run the course 😂
July’s Beginner Agility Class is full but there are some spots left in August’s!
If you want in on the last class of the year, let me know!
If you want to know how subtle dogs can be with each other - watch this video.
I was combing Garth out so I tied Poppy up to stay out of our hair (yuk yuk) and she was enjoying a bone.
Garth and I agreed combing was getting old so he got up and approached Poppy with the bone.
You may have to watch it a couple times to catch it but she’s merrily chewing away and he’s just observing the environment.
Watch his breathing (rib cage and panting). He’s doing it one way then his energy shifts, his breathing really slows, mouth closes, and Poppy stops chewing.
He takes that as his opportunity to approach her and start chewing the bone.
He’s claimed the bone as his for the moment and because of their relationship, she doesn’t argue.
What I always find so interesting is he rarely takes the bone away. He usually enjoys it right where Poppy had it.
Poppy on the other hand will sometimes stay in that spot (like the video) or she’ll leave the area.
It wasn’t explosive, it was silent, and he was confident.
He projected to her that she should stop chewing the bone with just his energy and very little change in body language.
And we think throwing words at our dogs is the only way to communicate with them.
Holy sh*t - it’s been a hot minute since I’ve been active on social media!
I had a look at my “screen time” in my phone settings and it was ridiculous and so here we are.
Anyways, we have a winner for the Mug Draw!
Stephanie Bijl!
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Remember when we talked about intermittent rewarding?
If you’re new here, it’s when we keep the food reward at random. Once your dog is already trained in the “skill” you don’t want to reward with food every.single.time.
(If you want me to tag you in the post that dives more into the theory behind it, let me know!)
But what we can do, is not forget about the food reward altogether.
Our dog’s recall gets tested at random with treats at random. I probably give treats 40% of the time they do come to the house when called.
When I don’t have a treat, I reward with collar scratches, pets, and attention they love.
The next few times I do this there’ll be no treats (but still a reward) and because it’s unpredictable, they keep coming for the off chance there’s food.
Also, watching Garth’s dilemma unfold of New Toy vs Treat was an added bonus.
Wait...maybe they’ve trained ME to do this sh*t...?!
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If you’re wondering how to get entered in the draw for March - stay tuned for details! If you entered in January or February you’re still in it to win it!