03/12/2025
Remember my last post and how I said dogs don’t use leashes with each other? Like soooo much stuff we do with our dogs, they don’t do with each other.
Agility, dog shows, recall…yet we fuss, fight, and pull out our moustaches trying to do the things.
Boundaries though? Dogs legit do this with each other, they “get” boundaries (as in it’s natural for them to set and receive boundaries) AND HUMANS HARDLY PRACTICE BOUNDARIES.
Here’s some boundaries I’ve seen dogs set with each other:
✨ stop being so excited around me
✨don’t touch me
✨ that’s actually my rotting moose leg, thanku
✨ you don’t get to pass me
✨ew don’t lay so close to me, we’re not dating
✨ give me space as I walk out of the house
I could go on and on. Most of those have been demo’d by Garth, our Boundary King. WWGD? Start there.
And because Garth uses his mouth, sassy ears, glares, growling, and “F around and Find Out” energy…how do you implement boundaries without landing yourself on the news?
🖤 Doorways: they can hang out and wait until you give the go ahead
🖤 Vehicle: no entering or exiting without an ok from you
🖤 You sit down and your dog jumps up on the couch with you? Remove them then when they don’t give a s**t about it, invite them up
🖤 Ignore/redirect their excitement when you come home
🖤 Share your moose leg, duh.
Now if you’re reading this like “pishposh you and your boundary theory. It doesn’t matter 💁🏼♀️”
I ask you this: does your dog bolt out of doors, cars; take up your physical space just because; beg for food etc AND ALSO they won’t let you brush them, or trim their nails, or check out their teeth, maybe growl when you try and take something from them?…
Mhmm looks like they have some boundaries set with you….weird…
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