04/08/2022
This has nothing to do with a marketing ploy or trying to use jargon that stimulates action.
This is not about my bottom line.
This is about you and your dog.
As my specialty is working with fearful/anxious/reactive/aggressive dogs I am often faced with calls and intakes with human clients who have met the end of their ropes.
They are exasperated with their dogs Behaviour: frustrated, saddened, emotional, and feel like there’s no hope.
These are all normal feelings. Caring for a dog who may pose a risk to safety, or impede the households quality of life is a challenge. Don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. Alternately, you may be feeling pure sadness and pain knowing your dog is struggling so much. You may want to be doing better for him/her but have no clue how to make that happen. You may watch them daily feeling heartbreak as they try to navigate the confusing world.
Most of my calls are with people in one of these states.
And believe me when I say it breaks my own heart when I have to ask you for time. Time for me to understand everything about the situation. Time for me to understand your dog, the environment, and the best options for you all. And then I ask for more time…more time so I can educate you. Time to put strategies in place for safety. Time to put strategies in place for management. Time to help your dog begin to heal, for your relationship to begin to heal.
Many times it has taken the dog months or years to become who they are in front of us today. Many times the dog has been through trauma. Many times what the dog needs is what the guardian feels they can’t give - more time.
But change doesn’t happen overnight. Your dog is likely not emotionally committed to a resolution as they won’t view the situation the same way. They are just trying to survive. Time is necessary.
I want my clients to feel hopeful there’s a future of success, but to aim for it on a realistic timeline.
It takes time to help a dog overcome their hurdles.
So please, if you are having struggles with anything that resembles fear, anxiety, reactivity, or aggressiveness - seek help early. Don’t wait. Don’t try to Google resolutions.
Call a qualified professional.
If you wait until you cannot take it anymore, you’ll need to somehow muster the strength to find the ability to give more time. And this is when dogs get rehomed, surrendered, or even euthanized.
Canine coaches, trainers, etc are not miracle workers. We find areas where improvement can be made and we coach you how to make them.
Time will be needed.
So don’t wait. Please. And not because of a sale. But because it’s truly in your best interest for you and your dog to not delay the support.
Your dog needs your strength and patience during the therapeutic process.
Get started early for your best possible chance at success.