They’re heeeeere
Meet Cupcake,
Cupcake is my old gal, she’s 10 and has been people “reactive” all of her life. I’ve worked with her through the years, and the last shift I made in how I work with fear and anger, has been the most impactful.
What was this change? Being there while she processed her environment and worked through her problems on her own with me there as her shield.
While I do use some food, it isn’t about the food. It’s about trust and safety. About connection and comfort. About being calm to model calm.
I am my dogs protector.
This is the first time she has been in the yard and comfortable with the neighbours being present. She now shows me people, mostly with body language, and even when she does bark first/think second as soon as I show up she feels more comfortable and relaxes her body language, and moves on with her day.
Great job Cupcake!