09/19/2025
✨ Honest Moment ✨
There’s a big misconception out there: that dog trainers live with “perfect” dogs.
But here’s the truth—“perfect” doesn’t exist.
We all have things we’re working on, and our dogs are no different. Perfect is simply what works for your family. For some, that’s a boisterous greeting at the door, tail wags and jumping included. For others, it’s calm cuddles on the couch and keeping the wild side outdoors. There’s no right or wrong—it’s about what makes your home happy.
Even trainers face struggles. Our homes can be just as chaotic as anyone else’s. Our dogs have quirks, big personalities, and needs that don’t always fit into tidy boxes. And sometimes? Training takes the back seat to life.
When Zara arrived, our house flipped upside down. She’s timid and gentle, while Moo—our excitable teenager—shows love with the subtlety of a freight train. Penny, our 10-year-old Mastiff, was a breeze.
But Moo’s big energy didn’t exactly make Zara feel welcomed. It was more like being hugged by a stranger at the grocery store—well-intentioned, but way too much, way too soon.
Now, a week later, we’re starting to see the beginning of a beautiful friendship. But it’s been messy, imperfect, and very real. Some days I wore my trainer hat and things flowed. Other days I wore my “mom hat” and felt completely overwhelmed.
That’s why I’m sharing our journey—not just the highlight reel, but the struggles too. If you’re having a hard time with your dog, you’re not alone.
I hope Zara’s story, and everything we’re learning along the way, brings you a little comfort and support. 🐾💛
