
04/22/2025
Trying “everything” is not a requirement for considering compassionate euthanasia.
When your pet has health or behaviour concerns, there may come a time when euthanasia is a reasonable outcome. It might be different for each one of us; certainly for each of our pets.
A few weeks ago, I rushed my 6-year-old hedgehog, Fern, to the ER vet due to unexplained bleeding. The ultrasound showed a mass in her uterus. Blood work revealed anemia. I was given options: surgery to remove the mass; pain management and supportive care; or, euthanasia.
Fern had perfect behaviour – she was truly the sweetest hedgehog I’ve known – and her quality of life seemed fair, at least for an exotic pet. Spay surgery is relatively common in hedgehogs. Unfortunately, at her age, with a mass (cancer) and anemia, the prognosis was guarded at best. She might live a few days, weeks, or maybe months.
After a long discussion with the vet, I decided it would be too hard to ensure proper pain management, especially at her age and after major abdominal surgery. They curl up in self-defence, after all. I chose to euthanize her.
More recently, you might have noticed that my dog, Greta, has been sick. We know part of it is neuropathic, and part of it is her pancreas. There may be more. Pancreatitis doesn’t always show up on routine blood tests, so it’s hard to diagnose it when the signs are nonspecific.
Pancreatitis is extremely painful, and each recurrence causes additional damage. Eventually, it can become chronic. The inflamed pancreas leaks digestive enzymes into the abdominal cavity. This causes problems with other organs. Greta is digesting her own body from the inside.
Some treatments may be available, but Greta’s access to veterinary care is complicated by stress and aggression. Even if I believed I could safely change her behaviour, her behaviour is a direct indication of pain and fear. Reducing her behaviour will not relieve her suffering. Living in fear of asking for help is no way to live at all.
I can’t do everything for Greta, and I have to live with that. I can’t do everything, but I can choose kindness. It is kindest to alleviate her suffering.