
04/17/2025
Someone asked a really good question in class last weekend:
Her puppy would often get very snappy and would show aggressive behaviours when another dog was coming over excitingly to meet her. The other puppy is just being friendly, so how can she make it so her dog doesn't act that way when meeting?
I think that's a great question. Its good to look at *why* the behaviour is happening. When calm puppies came by for a little nose sniff she reciprocated, but when the very excited puppy came over she would snap and lunge when they jumped on her. We can assuming she is using those more 'aggressive' behaviours to say "BACK THE HELL OFF I DONT LIKE THAT!" So I wouldn't assume that there is something we can do to make her like that kind of approach. If a stranger off the street walked into class and ran towards me to give me a hug, you better believe that will be met with aggression from me.
What CAN we do?
You can look at the function of the behaviour. The aggressive behaviours are a way to STOP the overwhelming greetings from happening and get space away from them. You are going to take over that role for your dog . You are going to make sure they have the space they need so that they don't feel like they need to proactively defend themselves. You also have an idea of the type of dogs she can meet without feeling overwhelmed. So when a calm dog strolls by and seems slow and happy and indifferent, that might be an okay greeting to let happen. But if you see a dog straining at the end of the leash, walking on two legs trying to pull over to say hi, you are going to intervene. "Sorry, we aren't saying hi today!" Physically moving and walking away if they keep coming over to you. You want your dog to know that you are going to deal with the situation, so they don't need to worry about taking matters into their own paws.
One thing I see a lot of people doing is "seeing what happens". When the dog is only lashing out sometimes, with every greeting you're just ready to see how it goes. We as dog owners need to be far more proactive with our dogs and those we let them meet. If you can look at the dogs and their body language and you can tell that the vibes are off .. DON'T DO IT!