11/10/2025
So much this!!!!
They call it “aura farming”. . .
You’ve probably seen that phrase floating around online lately. It’s the kind of thing people say as a joke. Like a lot of things in life, we laugh because it’s funny and we laugh because it’s true.
In the world of horses, it’s especially true.
Let me share a recent example.
Amy was teaching a groundwork lesson. The horse she used was a veteran; quiet, honest, knows exactly what to do. Perfect beginner horse. The student is brand-new.
To demonstrate the lunging exercise, Amy sends the horse out onto the circle. The rope feeds out, the horse finds the circle, energetic and easy departure. Then she hands the line to the beginner.
Same cues.
Same steps.
Same rope.
Same horse.
Different aura.
The student lifts her hand, tries to send the horse off — and the horse just melts toward her, leaning in, crowding her space.
The student is confused. She can’t get the horse to move away.
Now she’s having to use a TON more pressure and even s***k the horse to get it to move, when all Amy needed was finger point.
Why?
It’s not a question of strength. It’s not even a question of technique.
It’s presence.
Every cell in the student’s body was saying “please” and “oh nonono oh gawd don’t mess this up. . . instead of “GO.”
And the horse heard it loud and clear.
Communication always resides underneath the physical aid or cue. The cue is just the punctuation mark at the end of the sentence your body’s already been writing.
Before you move, before you speak, before the rope tightens — the horse has already read your posture, your focus, your intention.
When your thoughts, eyes, and body point in the same direction, that’s when the horse believes you.
We call this “congruency” — total alignment of belief, intention, and action.
Call it leadership, or communication, or presence, or attunement, or convergence, or concillience, or whatever term you want to use.
Call it “aura”, even.
But it’s the oldest communication technology on Earth.
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