07/28/2024
A wise friend once said “It starts at the door…” when asked about impulse control in day to day life & sport. That gem of a sentence will never leave me 💎
Do you and your dog struggle with impulse control in real-life situations? What happens at your doorway, gate, or car when your dog is REALLY excited about going outside? What about when you're arriving at a hiking trail and about to open the crate in the car? Does your dog forget all their leash skills when you arrive at a hiking trail or beach? What happens when guests arrive and your dog is over-the-top excited to see them?
Teaching impulse control is more than just a training exercise; it’s a way of life that can be both life-saving and relationship-saving for your dog.
Here are some environments and situations where demonstrating impulse control and a calm frame of mind is essential.
💎 Remember, it’s not just about the actual physical behaviour but the dogs mindset & emotions behind it. 💎
1. Doorways:
No one wants to deal with the stress of dogs bolting out the door at every opportunity. Teaching your dog to wait calmly at the door can prevent dangerous situations like running into traffic. It also allows you to calmly leash and or allow house guests in.
2. Indoor Crates:
How dogs enter & exit crates in the home is so important. I want my dog to feel calm and happy about exiting their crate Vs all the emotions and feelings that come with an over aroused barging out the door exit.
3. Car Doors and Car Crates:
- The last thing you want when arriving at a destination such as a hiking trail, beach, or friend's house is a bunch of over-aroused dogs. We all have our “pet peeve thing” and this one is mine. Barking, whining, vocalizing upon arrival to locations results in a reattempt of arriving. It only takes once or twice for dogs to realize screaming in joy because we’ve arrived somewhere is a no fly zone. An inability to arrive / behave calmly makes it a training session and I put together a training plan to help my dog gain confidence in this area. If you let your dog rehearse vocializatiob and over arousal - guess what? They will get really good at exactly that. It also limits their fun. Many dog sports have no barking in car rules. Some hiking trail heads are in quiet neighborhoods etc.
4. Yard Gates:
If your dog rushes through yard gates, it can lead to dangerous situations like running into the street or getting into conflicts with other dogs.
✏️ Best Practices:
- Make impulse control more than a training drill. Make it a way of life.
- Use the Premack Principle when working on these skills.
- Rewards matter, but be careful what you’re accidentally or purposefully rewarding. Dogs are REALLY smart and can reverse shape us to reward a bunch of things we don’t mean to 😜
- If you’re unable to achieve the desired result in a situation, break it down into smaller pieces. It all starts at home long before being taken on the road.
Don’t get me wrong - my dogs live plenty of their life indulging in fun, non regulated fun. Life isn’t one big sit stay exercise. And everyone will focus on what is important to them. For example car manners is really important to me - however my bestie is fine with all sorts of sounds upon arriving to a location 😂 but her dogs demonstrate impulse control in ways that maybe I chose to not focus on. One thing I don’t overly stress about 100% of the time is completely J shaped loose leashes 🤷🏼♀️ but to other trainers - that is a must. There is no right /wrong way to tackle this. It’s just about exploring the dogs emotional mindset behind arousal inducing moments in day to day life. Just work on a little bit each day in simple real life ways.
Example today - the puppy featured below spent 2-5 minutes each time we parked working through her feelings of bursting through the crate door. We also tackled her paw slamming to make me open it faster 😂. By the fourth location arrival we had an automatic down being offered. No cookies, no cues - just problem solving. 💁🏼♀️
By teaching and reinforcing impulse control, you’re providing your dog with the tools they need to stay safe and calm in important real-life situations. This training is not just about obedience; it's about ensuring their well-being and making impulse control a way of life.