11/01/2024
🖤 Relationship First, Relationship Second, Relationship Third 🖤
This is a conversation I have daily—heck often multiple times a day—with clients. Your relationship with your dog is THE MOST important part of training. This relationship, or lack thereof, will be the foundation of your entire training program. Your results with your dog - will be dependent on the work you are willing to put into, not just training, but relationship. Engagement, play, connection, joy, and other relationship-building games etc. should be at the center of your training.
Yes, dog training is nuanced. Yes, there are different styles, methods, theories and concepts. Yes, accountability is a necessary part of the process. And no, it’s not black and white or a quick fix. But when you prioritize building a strong relationship with your dog and examine your beliefs about what that relationship should look like, everything else begins to fall into place.
Many clients start with, “I just want my dog to listen to me because I said so (and the first time).” And hey, don’t we all? But if you’re not willing or able to focus on building a relationship, learning to play and train together, and fostering engagement, I have news for you: you might get that “first-time response,” but it will come at a cost and the cost will be that your relationship is more of a dictatorship than partnership.
If you’re going to pick just one “thing” to “train” today - choose to put that 5 minutes into your relationship with your dog. Everything else will be easier because of it.
Thank you to Things Dog Handlers Say for this reminder this morning 🖤