Teaching a DROP
This is a fun little exercise to play with your kids & dog.
Keys to success:
1. Keep it fun
2. Keep it fast
3. Keep it simple
To start, get some of your dogs favourite food treats. Next, say the word drop and through a handful of SMALL treats on the floor.
Point out to your dog where the treats are (not because they can't find them, but so that they get used to your hand coming in close after hearing "drop")
Do this over and over again and take turns with your kids. You're teaching your dog that the word 'drop' means good things are coming. After you've practiced a few times and your dog is getting the hang of it, have them holding an item that they would normally give up pretty easily (don't start with their most treasured item).
Use your 'drop' word and toss the food as usual. This time, when they go for the food, pickup the item that they would have put down in order to get the food.
**Please note: if your dog struggles with resource guarding, DO NOT practice this exercise. Seek professional help BEFORE starting this game**
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Walk BEFORE you run...
This isn't a new idea. From a young age learning to roll back and forth, then progressing to an army crawl, the worm, or some variation. Then the crawling starts, and before long pulling oneself up and starting the road to balance and walking...
This process takes weeks, months and even years to get to the place where running without face planing is possible. (think about every 2 year old you've ever seen on a sidewalk running) -- It's not long before they're toppled over and screaming.
What does this have to do with training dogs? Well... EVERYTHING.
As humans, we like to see results. And, we like to see them fast! This isn't all bad. It's great to see progress in order to feel a sense of accomplishment and keep us motivated.
BUT...
It often plays out in a way which is unhelpful in how we train our dogs. We start off with the best intentions, but if things don't go to plan, we quickly get discouraged and label the dog as a lost cause.
So why do we treat our children with love and patience, but our dogs with an almost impossible expectation that they'll be "obedient" and never make mistakes, and learn perfectly at an accelerated pace.
Today, I want you to take a breath. I want you to look at your dog and tell everyone ONE thing that you absolutely LOVE about them. Then, I want you to look your dog in the eyes (not right up in their face) and tell them you're sorry for all the times you were impatient, pushy, and struggled to offer grace while they were and still are learning. Today, you get a fresh start. Today we get to choose to walk BEFORE we run.
Your dog is a gift. Embrace your life together, and if you're feeling stuck, reach out to someone for help. There is SO much available to help you move forward.
Here's to our dogs. The most patient family members on the planet!
Happy Training!
PS. I don't exclude myself from the reality of what I've said and I make it a point to apologize to my dogs regularly.
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VANJIE - She's ready to be adopted...
Did you know... Vanjie has lived with our family for over 6 months?
She's come a long way in her training and is waiting for her FurEVER home.
Do you know someone who might be interested in adopting. Send them over @taffyslegacycaninerescue
To find out more about Vanjie or other adoptable, checkout the link
NIXON'S JOURNEY - PART 3 - THE FINALE!
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What is the "good life" and how do you get it?
Merriam Websters dictionary describes it as
"A happy and enjoyable life"
I can't argue with that, but what does it mean to be truly happy and how do you know when you've arrived?
Life has so many twists and turns. From the awkward young adult all the way to retirement planning and beyond. We're all searching for that "good life"
For me and the stage of life I'm at, I would say the good life is knowing that I'm loved, being free to love others, and enjoy the simple things in life. Like a walk in the sunshine with the dogs, the shapes of the clouds or a day at the beach with family. It looks like hearing about our teenagers getting their first meaningful jobs to watching graduations. Even seeing our youngest kids marvel at their own handiwork when they beat me at a board game. (it happens a lot).
What does the dog life mean to you? Have you arrived at happiness?
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NIXON'S JOURNEY - PART 2
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Multi dog household? Checkout this video on play time!
You can ask one dog to wait patiently while the other has a turn. This is especially valuable if your dogs fight when they're over aroused. Teaching impulse control is SUPER important.
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NIXONS JOURNEY - PART 1
Last week we introduced Nixon. Watch now to learn where his journey started!
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Ever want to see what it's like behind the scenes?
If you've been following me for awhile, you'll know that I post videos of working with the foster dog regularly.
What about client dogs?
Here, you'll see Duncan practicing his scatter recalls. He's a young pup who is quick to learn and eager to please.
Drop a video in the comments of something you're practicing with your dog right now.
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Over excited - Vanjie Practices
Anyone struggle when their dog gets over excited seeing another dog?
Helping your dog doesn't mean flooding them with more of the same negative experience. Take it slow... Give your dog space and reward them when they get it right!
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When it all goes RIGHT ——> VOLUME ON
Vanjie is the dog we are fostering until she is adopted to her forever home. She struggles with over excitement and rough, rude greetings to other dogs…
This weekend, we had Bruno the 9 month old Great Pyrenees / Rottweiler mix boarding at our home. The intention was to leave all the dogs (we have Jersey our 3 year old Golden Doodle here as well) separate and not really interacting. After a day, we could see Bruno and Vanjie greeting nicely through the pen in our living room. Their body language was loose and happy and they didn’t seem to set each other off.
BUT…
I didn’t let them meet because I wanted to be sure Bruno’s stay was peaceful. On Saturday, they showed interest in each other and I decided to let them meet and greet with leashes on (but on the floor). I also had a spray water bottle with clean water near by just in case they took things too far (a spray bottle is a very effective way to break up low level scuffles).
THEY DID GREAT!
Early in their interactions, I stepped in quickly as they got a little excited to ensure they could break quickly and understand my expectations. They took breaks from play and took turns being ‘on top’ they really got on well. Bruno, being a puppy would sometimes come back in while Vanjie was resting and would require a reminder that it was break time. Both dogs had a lot of fun and were able to play they way they like — Rough and tumble.
You may be wondering about Jersey… Well, she was in the other room having NOTHING to do with any of the action. She doesn’t enjoy rough play and much prefers human attention. Knowing this, we gave her a safe space away from all the excitement.
Our younger kids (4 & 7 yrs old) were instructed to be still on the couch and watch, not to get up for any reason without asking dad first.
Setting up the environment so that EVERYONE can be happy and stay safe is the easiest way to success. Knowing who should be where and
Bruno is getting some supper after the kids made a trail trip of food for him to follow. Thanks to Gracen for his excellent video skills. #dogboarding #dogtraining
SEE BAILEY PUTTING HER NEW SKILLS TO WORK!
I’ve been working with a client lately who has made HUGE progress. I want to share with you what that’s been like because I know there are many others struggling in similar ways and it’s likely that you will find hope in the success of Bailey and her guardians.
Bailey is a happy-go-lucky three and a half year old golden retriever. She’s smart, loves to play ball and has a lot of basic skills and training due to her guardians efforts instilling the fundamentals as she grew up from a pup. Bailey took puppy classes early in life which included socialization with other dogs and people.
Bailey’s guardians called because she has been reacting to dogs that pass in the park beside their home and when out on walks she is either barking / lunging or moving far away, even to the other side of her people.
Bailey is unsure of other dogs she doesn’t know and to make matters worse, when she’s out walking she will see dogs who are barking or lunging at her…
Bailey’s journey with training started with teaching her parents about leadership (as it relates to dogs) Helping them see things from Bailey’s perspective and giving them the tools to show her that they understand and will advocate for her.
Next, Bailey learned some new skills to help her become more comfortable when new things come into her environment. She excelled at learning the new games and quickly generalized these skills when out on a walk.
On our most recent visit, my golden doodle (Jersey) came with us to practice and give Bailey the opportunity to feel less stressed around new dogs. Before long, we were able to walk within 6 feet of each other just happily moving along.
Bailey didn’t show her usual signs of barking, lunging, stiffening of her body or having her hackles up.
We know that Bailey isn’t “fixed” as it takes a lot of time and generalization of the new skill, PLUS a lot of positive experiences to re-write the old emotional
I lay awake feeling uncomfortable. My sleep was interrupted by pain felt in my shoulder, my entire body aches. My skin is on fire and I am sweating even as I write this.
As I lay, I tell myself to be grateful to have received a second dose of vaccine that will protect me and others from getting Covid-19. The side effects of this vaccine on my body will be short lived.
You see I wasn’t terribly concerned about catching covid myself (and I haven’t caught it), but I know I couldn’t live with my decision to remain unvaccinated if I caused another to become ill and even die.
My thoughts shift to wondering what I would feel if I had gotten Covid-19. By this point I personally know at least a handful of people who had been infected. While they received care and did not die, so many others haven’t had the same fortune.
I look inside myself and realize that if I had gotten covid, I would feel a deep shame. As if I had done something I shouldn’t have. Questioning my decisions leading to this point. Visiting a friend on the porch, going to the store, visiting a client.
Of course on the surface I know that it’s not a game of fault, but I can’t help wonder how many people who have contracted covid feel isolated, ashamed, alone. Unable to share their thoughts or feelings of disparity….
My thinking shifts again to a place of thanksgiving and praise for our Lord Jesus Christ. Through him all things are made possible. Through Christ, we wear a coat like Joseph’s, full of vibrancy, joy and life.
No matter our circumstances, one thing stands true. Where we are and what we’re experiencing, is not WHO we are. It does not define out identify.
Thank you Father, that your love far surpasses anything we could do to bring comfort to those who are suffering. But let us see where we can stand in the gap, where we can advocate for those without words.
To love like Jesus.
RUN before you walk
Run Before You Walk…
We all know the saying (and yes, the title is on purpose). Running before you walk will almost ALWAYS end up in a face plant.
In dog training, raising kids, setting exercise goals, no matter what we do it seems humans (myself included) like to RUN before we walk. We set goals that are unattainable, we get frustrated when the dog wont listen, the kids are making poor choices, or we STILL can’t run a 5k (even though we just started training for it a week ago).
The mindset is SO important in the way we show up in all aspects of our lives. Why should you care?
A little back story for those of you who don’t know. Our family has been fostering Vanjie, a one and a half year old Australian shepherd / Akita cross for about 12 weeks. We got her in the winter and I remember the first time we tried to take her for a walk I was frustrated. See, we were using this walk as a way to introduce her to our resident dog Jersey. The goal was to have them do parallel walking in an effort to help them build some trust and get to know each other on mutual ground. This is normal practice and a great way for new dogs to meet without the expectation of playing.
Vanjie had different plans… She pulled and pulled and pulled. She was not able to focus on anything and just did whatever she pleased. I was not impressed. She was messing with the game plan.
This is where mindset comes to play. If I could not adapt my thinking there was NO way Vanjie would ever walk nicely beside anyone. Needless to say, we ended the walk and didn’t use traditional leash walks for quite some time.
Instead, to help Vanjie with her walking we spent time each day (ok, we missed a few) and worked on loose leash walking principles. Primarily, she was learning how to follow and offer attention to the person holding the leash. In return, she was granted lovely food which helped her motivation. Now just because we weren’t doing traditional walks, doesn’t mean she didn’t get out.
When you’re feeling like your dog just wont pay attention, as if EVERYTHING else is more interesting than you…
What do you do?
I like to go back to the fundamentals of giving dogs choice. Watch as Vanjie makes decisions with distractions (kids doing at home learning) but ends up choosing her bed.
Full disclosure, this isn’t our first time practicing. But it is our first time under increased distraction and thats what causes her to take longer to choose the bed.
Remember to always work at your dogs pace.
Keeping The Calm - Kids AND Dogs
Helping our dogs make good choices by limiting their access to kids when they’re playing is a win - win for everyone… Mom & Dad included.
Don’t forget to make sure your dog gets their needs met before settling them for alone time.
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Scent Work Indicator Training
Jersey has been practicing her scent work and is starting to learn how to hover to indicate.
Sit, Down, Stand
Some training action today. A special thanks to my 4 year old daughter Hope for taking the video!
Practicing sit, down, stand with our 1 year old foster dog Vanjie (Akita / Australian Shephard mix)
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