01/16/2025
"Beginner safe" is an interesting phrase used too often with horses. What do you think it means? It implies that no manner of 3 yo or 70 yo, from 40 lbs to 400 lbs, either kicking wrong, pulling the bit harshly, on the iphone taking selfies, nothing will deter the horse from moseying along, at the exact speed and direction that is has guessed, from mind-melding with the rider, because there is literally no other direction forthcoming from any tangible method. Oh and let's not forget the random dog, car, fireworks, other outer stimulation that a 'beginner safe' horse is expected to manage with no guidance from the rider.
Kind of a crazy notion, when you think about it, isn't it?
Many 'beginner safe' horses have quickly been ruined by humans who don't even try to be fair and kind back, who abuse the patience of the horse until the horse must protect itself, and is blamed in the process.
A horse is a living being, not a machine.
There are horses who are kind to beginners, and must be valued for their charity.
What may be more fair, to all, is to at least state WHO the beginner rider is, and what steps THEY WILL BE TAKING, to no longer be a beginning rider. For example, "I am a newly returning rider in my 50's after 30 years away from riding, raising my family, and so I am rusty, and would like a horse that is mellow enough to forgive my mistakes, while together we take lessons to form a partnership". Now THAT PERSON, I could get behind as a potential adopter. I would also want them to understand that as their skills improved, their horse is still the same relaxed horse, and there may be a danger in the rider outgrowing the horse in abilities. So, actually, I would suggest that potential new adopter take some lessons before adoption, to see if they really want to ride and what kind of riding they may want to do. Many returning riders, as it turns out, just want to enjoy the company of a horse.
Which cleverly circles back to our 2025 Theme, "Taking Home the Companion Horse".
Yes, we mean it.
I know my personal life has vastly improved by enjoying the presence of horses, and even by that late night walk to check things out on the farm. YOUR LIFE WILL IMPROVE, when you take the leap and adopt a horse (actually 2-3 horses, because no horse, at least adopted from Rosemary Farm Sanctuary, will live alone. Unless you board! A great option for support for all).
Photo courtesy Carien Schippers, ImagEquine, of a mare at Rosemary Farm Sanctuary. To get your imagination flowing.