06/09/2025
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Over-Horsed: When Good Intentions Go Wrong
Over the years, I’ve seen it time and time again—a rider arrives for a clinic, lesson, or training session with a horse they shouldn’t have. They’re over-horsed. And more often than not, it’s not entirely their fault.
The story usually begins the same way: “I was working with another trainer, and I told them I wanted a nice horse. They said this was the one.” Unfortunately, in some cases, trainers lose sight of their client’s actual needs, abilities, and long-term goals when horse shopping. Instead, they choose a horse that suits their preferences—something athletic, flashy, and enjoyable for them to ride or showcase.
But this often puts the amateur rider in a difficult—and potentially dangerous—situation.
Modern breeding has produced an abundance of horses with exceptional movement, sensitivity, and power. These horses are incredibly talented, but they’re not always suitable for the average adult amateur. It’s easy to be tempted by the "cake" when the market is full of top-tier horses, but that doesn’t mean it’s the right fit.
A trainer’s job is not to select the fanciest horse, but the right horse. One that fits the rider's skill level and goals. Horses with more modest gaits but a good temperament can still progress beautifully through the levels and, most importantly, they’re enjoyable and rideable for their owner.
Amateurs want to ride their horses, not watch from the sidelines while the trainer rides day after day. When a rider feels incapable of managing their own horse, motivation dwindles and so does the commitment to training.
Flashy movement and big dreams can be enticing, but for most riders, rideability and a willing temperament will bring far more joy and progress in the long run. There’s always time for the fancy horse—maybe next time.
