07/04/2025
Wednesday had her weekly meet with her people today. For the second half of it they went on their own to hang with her in normal life situations that previously had been difficult. She was super for them. Once back at my place she panick crawled into a friend's car and had bad thoughts when I insisted she come out.
She had a big event, probably was disappointed to be back here, and it showed. Or, the meet with her people triggered old memories. My thoughts on this, if the latter is true, is the more they can take her for an hour and hang and just get familiar with each other again in a healthy way outside of their home, the more those habits will go to sleep.
If those habits are triggered by just seeing her people, the multitude of visits before she goes back to her old home will make the transition so much easier.. Her old spots will already be a trigger. I need to think on this. Would her family benefit from working her through the issue, or do we try and avoid it? I don't yet know. I'm certain Wednesday will tell us this answer soon enough.
Monique Anstee
Author of As a Dog Thinketh, and Lift Your Leg - the podcast