03/18/2025
Meet Rafiki! Or Rafi when he’s not in trouble :) he’s a spunky teenager whose world is expanding and whose people are working hard to set him up for success. A lot of people seem to have the impression that training with positive reinforcement is somehow synonymous with letting your dog get away with anything. Well that’s wrong. You CAN have boundaries and train with positive reinforcement or R+ too.
For this teenager who is predictably learning where the bounds of their world are, (Like all adolescents of ALL species) we can teach him those boundaries first and foremost by preventing him from discovering where that edge is though management and by taking away privileges immediately when the line is crossed.
For example with Rafi:
We won’t let him discover that chasing things off into the woods or into the road is fun by keeping him on a longline and building excellent recall and stay close skills to start. And and only gradually grant hike more freedom as those habits become ingrained.
Or
if he scratches the couch in the living room, will ask him to do something else instead, and if he doesn’t, he doesn’t get to hang out in the room with us anymore. It’s a simple, clear consequence that is not harmful or scary, but where he loses access to what he wanted in that moment- the couch to dig on and most likely our company in that room too. To be clear, Rafi is a dog, who is OK being separated from his humans. I would not use this consequence for a dog with any separation anxiety.
So you can demonstrate to your dogs where and what their boundaries are, and still train humanely. Furthermore, and more importantly, you can show them through reinforcement which behaviors ARE correct. What boundaries are you working on showing your dog? And which behaviors could you do a better job of reinforcing more often?