
01/24/2025
The human horse partnership is real, just not in the way that is so often displayed in equestrian media and sport.
The human horse partnership is one that has more sacrifice on the part of the human than the part of the horse.
It is one that emphasizes equine wellbeing above what we can make a horse do.
One that recognizes that “good training” values wellbeing over speed of behavioural acquisition and that it isn’t a shortcoming of a trainer to move slower if that’s what is best for the horse.
Bringing out the best in a horse isn’t just about what they can do to impress people, but about how the horse actually feels about it.
I wish I had learned that sooner.
A real partnership has equal communication on either side and does not extinguish one side’s ability to communicate its truth.
I think as an industry we need to be more honest about whether or not the way we behave is in line with being a fair and just partner.
Because, for many years, I called myself a partner to my horses when really I was just a dictator.