Systemized & Loving It

11/05/2024

If everyone would just keep pets in doors and if outside to watch them closely and be Ruth thrm at all times. Too many coyotes and cat thieves and people who don’t like animals will take thrm and displace them .
I see a post every 1/2 or 1 hr about a cat getting lost not coming back home. Pets are unpredictable and to trust that they will always stick to their territory is like asking a kid to stay outside in same area everyday. Pets are like kids they don’t always follow rules and things can spook them so their survival mode kicks in and they run. And then you look for them. But where do you look they are not like tall humans that you can see easily. There are bushes and hidden areas they can be any where. Yesterday I thought I should drive around and see where they might be. I saw small forest area but big enough for cats to hide
I saw small hidden areas where one would have to go inch by inch to search.
Is it really worth letting cats go out on their own and expect them to obey rules of staying nearby? Is it really worth losing a pet and not knowing where they are ? It takes just one instant and they gone. It breaks my heart
When will people realize that pets don’t always know what is good for them
Please keep pets indoors and take them for walks with a strong leash That goes around their body not just around their neck. PLEASE .

09/18/2024

How do we make this earth a better place than we find it? This is the theme for today
Each day we live, we leave a trail of change positive or negative. We do not realize it but we do
How?
1. By our thoughts, actions and what we pay attention to and what we speak and how we speak.
Everything is energy. We all are energy. We share the energy with everyone we meet or touch. Whether with eyes or speech or hands or legs. Yes legs. When we walk what are we walking on?
We don’t notice an ant hill or an ant that could be crossing on the floor we walk on. We sometimes crush the ant hill or an ant. How many times do you think we do this? I have no idea. Sometimes I am aware so I look down When walking. Sometimes I am rushing or busy in my head so I don’t look. And sometimes I remember so I say a prayer for all ants or insects I have hurt knowingly or unknowlingly .
I pray before I eat for all souls that feed me. From time of inception from the ground up to the time till ends up on the table.
So this is one way to create change
2. When I see a car stranded I pray for person and car that it gets home safely. When I see a person struggling to walk or on wheel chair or has physical issues, I pray for that person in passing. When I see a person driving an old rusted car, I pray they get enough money to car a better car. Or I see a battered house I do the same.
Awareness is first step to change in the universe.
I see news( I Don’t look for it, it’s at banks, hospitals drs offices just about everywhere they put cnn or news channel). these places need to change channel and put on comedy shows ir soft healing music. (I don’t have cable for that reason as it’s a waste of money as too many repeats ) and if I watch someone got hurt I pray for the souls involved.

Instead of focusing on negative news, don’t watch or say a prayer for people concerned. Even the thieves and criminals. If we pray for their souls that the universe sends light in their hearts, then they will not repeat the same act and the world will become a better place.
Why condemn or send hate to those who are lost souls? They will do more of same. Isn’t it better to turn on the light in a place where there is darkness? Where there is light there is no darkness. Darkness is just the absence of light . This way we save money in jails and courts. Doesn’t that make more common sense? Remove the offense not the offender. We don’t know what made them do what they did. We don’t condone their actions and we don’t judge. We just pray that the lost soul be showered with Gods light then there won’t be any offense. Everybody needs love . Where there is love there there is no room for hate.
3. If you see someone driving and cutting you off, send thst person love and forgiveness and not anger or feel frustrated. Hate begets hate. Love transcends hate and negative behaviour and turns into love.
This will help that persons energy change. You won’t see it but it will change. Whether it’s instsnt or later is for universe to decide. Just keep sending love wherever you lay eyes on or thought.
It will change you as well, for the better.
This is all for now. Have a good day

08/10/2024

FORGIVE ME, MOMMY 😢🐾…
I was there where you left me for two whole days. Sleeping right on the side of the road. I was terrified of the noise from the cars but I did not move.
Last night one of those cars stopped and she got out. She invited me to lunch but I said no. She invited me to come sleep at her house and I also said no. I tried to explain to her that I was waiting for you but she wouldn’t listen. She pulled out a leash and said I couldn’t stay there any longer. I bit her several times and ended up peeing on myself as I growled and cried! She didn’t understand that she was separating me from you! She took me against my will and we drove off! I was so sad because I knew you were going to be worried. We ended up at her house.
I kept screaming hoping you would hear me but you never came. I vomited because of my nerves, feeling so sick. I kept telling her I had to go back because you were going to think I abandoned you when you saw I wasn’t there! I, who love you with all my heart and soul have not stopped crying since we separated a few days ago. I want you to know, I would never do that to you.
I don’t know where you are now or why you stopped the car and left me there. Surely you had something very important to do. Can you come find me now, mommy?
Today I ate because my tummy was hurting. I also slept on a very soft bed. And by accident I also wiggled my tail a bit. I’m so sorry, please forgive me. She’s just being really nice to me. She said I could stay forever. She’s calling me Savannah, but I already have a name. When you pick me up you can tell it to her. You’ll see how surprised she’ll be when you explain to her that this was a big mistake.
Because mommy, you’re coming back for me, right 😢🐾?
Author unknown 🐾🐾
“Pets are not disposable when we don’t want/need them anymore. They are a lifetime commitment. They are family! Thank you so much to everyone who adopts and rescues them until their last loving breath. Because of you this world is a better place.”
Savannah, rescued by Pet Search on February 1, 2021.
She was adopted by her Pet Search foster family Carlie and Jamie.
Credits goes to the respective Owner ~ (I know people get in circumstances that they feel they need to re-home their pets, but to be ditched is unforgivable) Thank God for people that care 💕

08/05/2024

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03/11/2024

I have learnt that it is very important to know yourself and your limits. Us Women especially have been taught that we need to nurture others above ourselves. So when we learn to say no, somehow we have done something wrong. And people around us try to make us feel responsible for their problems or for being stuck in a situation that they put themselves in with their own actions . If you offer them help they will be very nice and if you say not now they get angry. We all have limits and boundaries . Women who are not taught what these boundaries are, will put themselves on the line and go beyond their capacity to help. So then over time when they realize that they have limits and can’t keep giving whenever someone calls, the people who they have helped before, turn on them and become mean. They get angry and make it sound we are being inconsiderate . WOW that was a wake up call right there. How is saying no I can’t help you today being inconsiderate.

Truth is we all humans teach others how to treat us. Mostly women teach people that they are supposed to be caregivers to whoever asks them. And available 24/7. So when one day if one wakes up and realizes that hey I can’t keep doing this my time is valuable as well, then the person who has asked for help will turn on her and become mean in whatever way they can to get you back in line and say ok I will help .
It takes courage to say no and be able to stand one’s ground and not feel guilty. Every human is capable of help themselves 95% of the time.
We all have boundaries and limitations.
It’s ok to say no. Especially when the other person does not respect your time and keeps you waiting and waiting once you show up and does not use the time given to get the help they asked for. Instead keeps doing their OTHER CHORES while you there waiting to help them to finish with the help they asked for.
It took me a few of those waiting games to realize that this person has no respect for my time and expects me to sit and wait till she is ready to use my help for what she asked for. Some people are so warped up in their own world of being BUSY they cant see what they doing to others and that they are entirely responsible of the way their life is. Instead
they constantly complain and blame everyone else for the way things are and don’t even let you get a word in edgewise .
So women, (men and children too) learn your limits, respect your own time , speak your truth with kindness and start teaching others how to treat you. If you love yourself you won’t feel guilty to say no if you can’t do it. Help others yes, but if it’s within your own limits to do so. If not say no politely and dont allow others to make you feel guilty. It’s difficult at first but practice it and send a prayer to those you can’t help. God does not tell us to wear ourselves down and get sick. Guilt is a waisted emotion.
Anger is a way to keep people at bay
Blaming others for our dilemma is telling others what we are. Every action we take is our own responsibility of the outcome. Take responsibility for your own actions and if you make a mistake own it and forgive yourself and move on. No blame. Correct and continue . Learn from the mistakes of yours and also learn from other peoples mistakes.
Stay away from people who always talk negative it will wear you down send them a prayer but stay way .
Sometimes it difficult to stay away if they person lives nearby or is a relative or a friend. Then just stay calm and be quiet and speak less around them. Have to accept them for what they are and just be aware that it is all about them not about you.
Try not to take there lash backs personally as you will get a few of those over time . Just know it’s not about you, it just how they are
Work on strengthening your belief in yourself
I love to listen to Dr Wayne Dyer, he was amazing . Read his books and listen on u tube he has a lot of knowledge that can help.
Hope this helps someone change their lives by starting to learn to love themselves and know that we all have limits .

09/06/2023

Haven’t written for awhile. By the way anyone reading my posts, please if you like what you read give it a like and share will appreciate.
What I do for my clients and teach, I practice it on me first. If it works like a charm, I share it.

So what I have been practicing is - using my wait time wisely. What is wait time? Eg. In the morning when I am making breakfast, It is time between waiting for tea kettle to boil, the frying pan still heating up for me to put my egg in. I will start putting my clean dishes away, as well as preparing other items I want to have for breakfast.
I never put away dishes after washing. I leave them in my dish drainer all piled up and let nature dry them.
Firstly
It’s also more hygienic then drying with a towel.
Secondly you save the time that you would otherwise use to stand there and dry them yourself.
This is for items you need to hand wash and for those people who don’t use dishwasher. For those who have a dishwasher it would save you time to load and unload it during your wait time. While making breakfast or making lunch or When cooking abd waiting for something to cook before you can add ingredients and more.
Doing it this way adds at least 1/2 hr to your day to do more important things

Same as while you on hold When on the phone, I usually try to wash dishes or put things away or do simple filing or sorting that does not need much concentration, so you do not get distracted from the reason you on the phone.
Saving time is very important. If you do this consciously it will then become a natural habit.
I am sure a lot of you use your wait times in some situations in your life without realizing you doing it.
If you do it with awareness, you will be able to find more ways to apply this technique in your daily life.
Hope this helps.

04/07/2023

It’s been awhile since I wrote
For anyone reading these posts. Please like and share. This area I am reserving to just post positive ideas and my beliefs in how to make this world a better place for all of us. I don’t want to do anything else with this post but for those who would like more info on how I can help an individual in what I do , and that is in systemizing and creating a better living environment for themselves then they can email me at
[email protected]. So I can help . I teach people how to systemize their lives in different areas.
I have also started helping kids on how to resolve conflicts and also how to change their behaviour and habits without judging or criticizing them or putting them down. Each child is born with gifts to help them survive in this world. All we have to do is to help them realize it and help them use it in a positive way.
This world is a school for all. We have to be open to learning from every encounter. This world is a mirror. What we don’t like outside of us is what is actually inside of us. The universe shows us that we need to look at in inside of us and change it. What we like what is outside of us is also what is inside of us and that we need to acknowledge and say thanks to the universe for that gift. It will help us love ourselves more. Then we can work on things we don’t like that is inside of us and change that. We all have the good, the bad and the ugly inside of us. If each one of us has that, then how are we any different from anyone else? So why are we so inclined to quickly judge what we see without realizing that the person we judging is same as us? We all in the same boat. We all in this One world together. We all are born from the same source and we all end up in the same place - under the ground. There are no exceptions. So why do we all fight and see each other as different? The only thing that is different is the way we look and our upbringing is determined by the environment and conditions we are born in. The rest is the same
We all want love, happiness, success, acceptance food and shelter. We all feel hot and cold. We all get angry and make TONS of mistakes. We all want to be forgiven for that as well. So why not start with forgiving ourselves and others, and loving ourselves and others Inspite of what they are?

Why can’t we all be authentic instead of being pretentious . Why we all wearing masks ?
Granted there is a good reason for wearing masks as people judge and can hurt our feelings. But if we love ourselves enough we can then use good judgement as to who we associate with and maybe that can help. That does not mean hating those you don’t associate with. We have to choose to be around positive people and send love to those who dont resonate in the positive light so that love we send can help them change as well. I love the story of Pollyanna. We all need to a bit like her .
Try not to watch too much news or watch horror and violent movies. It affects our minds and lowers our energy . Also if you can try to write to movie makers to stop making such horrific movies to shock people into wanting to watch it. Kids learn what they watch and act it out in real life. There is a lot to be said about that energy around us. . Perhaps some other time. In the meantime if anyone is interested please go on the utube and listen to dr Wayne Dyer and Ester Hicks. They explain all this much better .
Hope it helps someone . If you like what I write please like it and share . It just might make a difference in someone’s life .
Peace Love and Light to you all. God bless
Happy Easter

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