
06/14/2025
šØSPOILER ALERTšØItās me šāāļø
And Iām now a professional athlete and coach, which Iām sure would also floor all of my former gym teachers.
I was told I was lazy.
I was told that I was just making excuses.
I was told that I was just unfit, not ill.
None of those things were true, and it hurt to hear that from people who were supposed to be building me up.
THIS is the importance of meeting your athlete where theyāre at, valuing their strengths, and helping them overcome their weaknesses.
I never even considered it could be possible for me to compete at a world championship⦠until another coach told me and my friends that we couldnāt.
It brought back those feelings of being labeled as āless thanā other athletes. And I wasnāt about to sit back and take that again.
So I found a new coach who looked at me and saw what I could bring to a team instead of just my list of medical shortcomings.
And you know what happened?
I ended up being capable of doing more than I had thought physically possible for me⦠because I was given a supportive space to grow and to push myself, while still having my needs respected.
A coach should ALWAYS be working WITH their athletes.
Donāt give up on the ones that struggle.
Donāt give up on the ones that get emotional.
Donāt give up on the ones that need some extra support.
They could end up going farther than either of you imagined.