02/28/2024
How often have I felt inadequate on a green horse? This is a great read!
Going out in public with a green ‘project’ horse is a test in humility and self-control. It is so easy to feel sheepish, especially when one is outnumbered by proven horses and their riders. We begin to spiral down into the murky pool of doubt, if we’re not mentally prepared to deal with it.
There can be a lot of ‘less than’ feelings, when you show up on the truly green horse. The horse you loaded at home can (and probably will) be very different to the one you unload in public.
Long ago, I learned that every time we start a horse from scratch, every single step of our day out is steeped in horse training. Not in reminders, not in fine tuning. No, I’m talking foundational building blocks, hugely unwieldy stuff that doesn’t just fall into place.
It bears changing our viewpoints, just a bit.
From unloading a horse who is in a hurry and taking the time to change that, to entering a spooky space, to not being all that well socialized with other horses. Maybe that green horse is going to get very chargey, a real handful, or maybe he is feeling threatened by strangers coming too close behind and now, he’s suddenly wanting to kick.
From bridling a horse who is distracted and staying with that, until he is focused and accepting… to working quietly with others zooming around, all on their own agendas. Finding and keeping your youngster's mind, so they’re not so inclined to buck.
“Oh, you should do better groundwork!” Well-meaning people will say, as though the thought has never occurred to you.
Starting young horses means being able to seemingly ignore the pressures of those around you… and of the clock, all the while being absolutely aware of those around you… and of the clock.
Every single thing we do with the green horse, the very same things we’ll take for granted on the quiet goer, is a chance to train, or re-train. Seeing as we all love a confident and skilled horse, we should be on board with this notion. We shouldn’t be so quick to point fingers at horses who are visibly struggling.
If this is you on the trustworthy, well-schooled horse, I can only urge you to feel grateful rather than inconvenienced, while you watch my horse try and try, again.
If this is you on the young learner, I can only urge you to keep your eyes on the destination. You're doing good work.
I’m often fielding questions from people as to why my horses aren’t good at standing tied in a row of strange horses at the public arena. Or of why they might struggle at the mounting block, or while opening gates, or picking up the canter in a relaxed posture, or stopping and backing well, or… even just walking past a jacket left hanging over the arena rail.
I can only answer that they're not good yet.
One of my young horses absolutely lost his mind over the sight of another horse wearing a cooler, a few weeks back. He completely checked out of Dodge! Such a seemingly small thing derailed him and much of what I thought he knew for sure.
Horses must to go through all these stages, learning all these seemingly little things, before they can become the abiding partners we can rely upon. Because they do not know these things naturally, they are not hopeless cases. They are not ‘bad-minded’, as I was told by an observer, one memorably hard day.
Learning isn’t always pretty. Horse or human, there will be some struggle involved.
Horses are not born knowing all the things we expect. We shouldn’t be surprised, or dismayed, or embarrassed, by having to teach them.
Here, we remember Chickadee in the early days. With time and love and experience, she went on to become a phenomenal little horse.
Photo: Mike McLean.