10/09/2025
All of this. Dogs are inherently selfish creatures, and work to mostly serve themselves. It's our job to use what they want to our advantage to get them to do what we would prefer them to do instead.
All dogs are self-serving swindlers… it’s in their DNA.
Dogs (and people), make choices based on their very own personal desires, and how to get more of what feels good, or what offers relief. Our actions are based on how much pleasure is granted out of each choice made.
—If jumping on guests, or you, gets them attention and petting... they’ll keep doing it.
—If barking at the back door to be let in gets you off of the couch... they’ll keep doing it.
—If whining gets you to coddle and sweet talk them out of discomfort... they’ll keep doing it.
—If pawing at your leg or hand gets you to throw their ball... they’ll keep doing it.
—If whining or barking while in the crate gets you to let them out... they’ll keep doing it.
—If charging out the front door ahead of you gets them outside quicker... they’ll keep doing it.
—If lunging and growling at other dogs or humans gets them to move further away... they’ll keep doing it.
—If pulling on the leash gets them to that tree they want to mark... they’ll keep doing it.
—If growling when trying to take the bone away gets you to move away... they’ll keep doing it.
—If snapping when moving them off the furniture gets them more time on your bed… they’ll keep doing it.
The bad news is, when this “stuff” is left unaddressed, it all intensifies and gets worse. Way worse. The more something works to bring pleasure, the more frequently it will occur, and the intenser it gets.
It’s our job to let our dogs know what works for them isn’t necessarily what’s in their best interest, (and sometimes it just doesn’t work for us). Effective leadership, which includes both Yes and No, encourages our dogs to make RESPECTFUL choices based on what WE allow, not what is always gratifying to them.